https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 13 May 2026 18:02:35 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-2803837 Tue, 13 Feb 2018 03:19:26 +0000 ElbieKay 2803837@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal_2018: omg what is wrong with people?! I'm sorry you experienced that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-2803836 Tue, 13 Feb 2018 03:18:51 +0000 ElbieKay 2803836@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hell. No.</p> <p>The only people who can touch my belly are my husband and son (almost 4yo). They don't have to ask.</p> <p>My MIL tried to help herself during my pregnancy with my son. I was pretty shocked that she would not ask first and did not react very nicely. She really caught me off guard.</p> <p>I think it is extremely presumptuous to touch someone's belly without permission, regardless of what is in her uterus. It is still my belly even if I am pregnant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-2803776 Mon, 12 Feb 2018 19:51:06 +0000 Crystal_2018 2803776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. D: I totally feel you I was 8 months pregnant when I went to the grocery store and then out of nowhere a woman came from behind me and rubbed my belly! I told her to stop but she continuously rubbed it anyway. After that I backed away but I was so huge that I lost my balance and fell backwards. It was so embarrassing! The same lady helped me up and without asking if I was OK she continuously rubbed by belly and kept rubbing rubbing and rubbing. Eventually more men and woman surrounded me and started rubbing my pregnant belly. After that I yelled at all of them really loud and they kept quiet and walked away. The whole time I was driving home my belly started hurting and felt really uncomfortable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164129 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:52:44 +0000 MrsBrewer 1164129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My nephew HATES hair ponytails. He's just over 2, and his mom and sister both have long hair, so there are tony of ponytails laying all over the house. Well he refuses to touch them or go near them. No idea why! It's actually quite hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164128 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:52:22 +0000 MamaBehr 1164128@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My LOs don't seem to have an issue with texture, but my next door neighbors daughter hated anything sticky, like stickers, bandaids etc. I know she has grown out of it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164108 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:47:16 +0000 HabesBabe 1164108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>C hates touching sand... we had her walk on it twice over the summer and she started bawling! She hates both cold, wet sand and dry sand (it wasn't hot at all). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164015 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:16:56 +0000 looch 1164015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My son didn't like play dough or finger paints the first times I introduced them, but now he likes them. He is big into mud and dirt now, lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164010 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:16:04 +0000 MamaMoose 1164010@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My LO doesn't like things for the first time (sand in particular) but after she's exposed a couple times she's fine. We went to the beach this summer and by the 3rd day she was trying to crawl directly into the ocean!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1164001 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 15:13:49 +0000 banana 1164001@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It sounds like a sensory thing. My son used to HATE walking on grass and sand. He would scream if I tried to make him stand in the sandbox without his shoes on. I just slowly exposed him to more sensory type of experiences and he's totally ok with it now. He's actually the opposite now He wants to take off his shoes all the time! :) His preschool encourages children to walk barefoot so it definitely helped him seeing other kids do it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1163951 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 14:56:06 +0000 swurlygurl 1163951@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DD doesn't like petting dogs. I don't know if it's their texture, or just that they're scary though... haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1163935 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 14:53:04 +0000 SeptMomma12 1163935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Back in the spring when he was outside for the first time, he hated the grass. Would touch it and then shudder! He's used to it now though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-there-textures-that-your-lo-hates-touchingis-hesitant-to-touch#post-1163919 Mon, 21 Oct 2013 14:46:28 +0000 cranberryapple 1163919@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS used to not like touching soft things such as stuffed animals or blankets/clothing. It didn't make him upset or anything, but he would be done with just one touch, and usually with just one finger before he would quickly pull away. I notice it for things like leaves, and grass and potentially prickly/tickly things. He's fine with wood chips and rocks and hard things! LOL </p> <p>Any experience with this or other textures? Did your LO grow out of this? I also understand that DS is more of the cautious type, so maybe that's why. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-23214 Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:59:27 +0000 prettylizy 23214@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I thought I'd be more freaked out about it than I actually am. My mom does it some times, and some close family friends have given my bump a rub or pat, and it really doesn't bother me all that much. We'll see how I feel when a total stranger starts touching my tummy though... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-23212 Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:57:55 +0000 MsMini 23212@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was on the receiving end of a bunch of belly rubs this weekend (I am 17 weeks, just really popped, and was at my Grandma's 95th birthday). I knew that it would happen, and it was all family (Grandma, Aunts and Cousins), so it was alright, I didn't really mind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-23207 Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:55:35 +0000 CameronsMomma 23207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As soon as someone other than me touches my belly he pretty much stops moving anyways, which I'm thankful for. I think it's because I tense up, I certainly don't want to be touched at all.</p> <p>I saw a shirt that said "Unless you’re the person who put this baby IN here, or the person who’ll take this baby OUT, then you are NOT allowed to touch my belly!" and that is nearly exactly how I feel about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-21147 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 13:11:40 +0000 jennylynn 21147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It really bugs me unless they ask first. If they ask first, I don't mind at all. It's not the touching that bugs me, it's the just assuming it's ok. It's like a violation of personal space. Unless it's my close family, then I couldn't care less. My boss loves baby bellies, and she always rubs mine, but she asked if it was ok first. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20918 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 08:58:03 +0000 hreichard 20918@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I never minded at all. I would even have strangers come up and rub my belly. Some of my good guy friends would even kiss my belly. I thought that was a little strange. I guess being a single mother they didnt feel strange about it. It just seemed like everyone did it to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20904 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 08:24:13 +0000 BananaPancakes 20904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't mind at all. This is my first pregnancy and may be the last time in a long time that I'll be the one getting praise and attention, so I'll take it. I'm not typically one who relishes in any sort of attention, but I'm trying to really enjoy this time where I am the center of it all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20889 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 04:58:20 +0000 mediagirl 20889@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, I'm not a touchy-feely person. I won't mind if my family asks to touch the belly but strangers? I'm not sure how I'd react to a stranger grabbing my belly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20823 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:30:18 +0000 erinpye 20823@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Family and close friends are OK, but other than that, totally not OK with me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20818 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:12:10 +0000 Mrs. D 20818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: thanks for sharing, the start of that video was good, but it got weird. But I think it definitely helps to make a valid point. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20816 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:07:13 +0000 Mrs. D 20816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjazz: Yeah, sneak attacks are the worst, I'm not asking for a no touch rule, just the courtesy of knowing someone is gong to touch me. It's not like I walk up to them and rub their bald spot! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20815 Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:05:09 +0000 Mrs. D 20815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Lozza: Oh I agree! I was only 12 weeks and not showing yet, when a friend visiting for our wedding touched my belly way down low. Granted, it was the right spot, but it was awkward and weird since his hand was so close to my "area" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20809 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 23:56:04 +0000 Rosie Girl 20809@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't mind it at all! I do kind of feel fat though for some reason when people touch it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20777 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 23:05:39 +0000 tequiero21 20777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i wouldn't mind friends or family, but would mind strangers or people i don't know well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20211 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 10:59:32 +0000 L2sweetpea 20211@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't mind family and friends...but random strangers or people i didn't consider myself particularly close to it bothered me. I looked at it in this sense...if I wouldn't hug you on a normal basis I don't want you rubbing my belly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20169 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 10:28:32 +0000 .twist. 20169@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha I haven't experienced this yet, but I did see this video on youtube that I think is kind of hilarious. I always ask to touch a belly because, it is still that womans body and I'd never just go touch some chicks ripped abs and be like "woah! those are rock solid!"</p> <p>Here's the video, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Cl2MjqayVE" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Cl2MjqayVE</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20168 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 10:26:18 +0000 mrsjazz 20168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My family/friends think I'm being mean because I told them to ask first after way too many of them just start rubbing my belly. I'm fine with them rubbing it, but I need to be warned, instead of the sneak attacks. I'm very ticklish and it always surprises me. I prefer people to just put their hands on my belly without a rub, but only one of my friends does that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20165 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 10:21:17 +0000 lavender 20165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am not one for unnecesery contact, so I hate it when friends and family come up to touch my belly. I usually just grin and bear it than complain to the husband later about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-mind-people-touchingrubbing-your-belly#post-20145 Tue, 22 Nov 2011 09:57:42 +0000 Rubies 20145@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't mind so much except when I was clearly busy doing something and someone would come and catch me off guard and just touch/rub. Awkward. The most ridiculous thing was when one of my students came charging a me to touch my belly and ended up squeezing too hard and sticking her finger in my belly button (through my clothes, of course). I almost gave her a detention for that. </p>