https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 11 Apr 2026 22:48:31 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1678130 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 12:02:41 +0000 namaste 1678130@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH would laugh and probably shake his head since this is a common occurrence. I might have the occasional accident a bit too often. He would then come over and make sure I am ok while telling me to be careful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676809 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 21:43:19 +0000 MrsTiz 1676809@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: omg DH says that ALL the time. "Well, what'd you do that for?" Or "Bet that hurt, didn't it?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676738 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 20:52:49 +0000 MrsH 1676738@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine would just try to hide that he was laughing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676661 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 20:29:03 +0000 doodlepoodle 1676661@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine would say "Is there any blood?" or if there was blood he'd say "That's a long way from your heart, just put some dirt on it" </p> <p>Quite helpful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676599 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 20:05:13 +0000 Synchronicity 1676599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd say it's 50/50! Sometimes he's great, sometimes he laughs. I guess I do the same to him :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676587 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 20:02:25 +0000 Applesandbananas 1676587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He would've laughed and been like "there's a keyboard tray there". </p> <p>But to be fair, that's exactly what I'd do to him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676576 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:56:54 +0000 Boheme 1676576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband always asks "Well, what did you do that for?" Not helpful :meh: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676574 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:56:42 +0000 Grace 1676574@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom was like that when I was growing up. If we hurt ourselves, she would say "well that was stupid". My dad and my DH are much better at it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676566 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:52:22 +0000 Boogs 1676566@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH probably would have laughed at me while getting me ice. Hope your head is ok! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676564 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:51:38 +0000 Reese 1676564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: Haha you are living my life.. </p> <p>How I want my DH to react.. ....</p> <p>[attach=3040/14/n6md23.233x216.panic1.jpeg]</p> <p>.....and how he actually reacts..</p> <p>[attach=3040/14/n6md3q.290x166.Spuns-Skeptical-Baby-290x166.jpg]</p> <p>Although,in all fairness.. if I am actually hurt/sick he is the BEST nurse ever. He just waits to see if its an actual injury... or me just being dramatic (I get pretty loud when I stub my toe..) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676561 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:50:35 +0000 lovehoneybee 1676561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: Haha D would have totally laughed at me! He would have then quickly made sure I was okay, but he totally would have laughed! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676554 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:48:42 +0000 gingerbebe 1676554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH has a complete fit if I hurt myself in any way, but he's also a drama queen when he gets hurt. If I fall or something he will run over screaming "OH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ARE YOU OKAY!??!" If he himself falls he will holler and scream all the way to the ground. In truth, its pretty hilarious. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1676530 Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:41:53 +0000 irene 1676530@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just read this. haha. To make you feel better, my husband is HORRIBLE on "comforting". If I were in your situation, he'd say this: how could you have possibly done that. Why can't you be more careful? Why is there even a toy there in the first place? If you have picked it up this wouldn't have happened. </p> <p>Took me many years to suck it up. Now I don't even say anything if I hurt myself and he's around. I know. I don't know what the heck is wrong with him too. </p> <p>So..... feel better! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665353 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:19:55 +0000 .twist. 1665353@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: haha seriously! He's lucky it was on my forehead and I don't want a band-aid there, otherwise I would have made him get me one! ;) </p> <p>@nana87: Sounds like my DH too. He is so dramatic (LOL, coming from the girl who created a bit of drama herself this am!). I used to get annoyed and say "Why don't you ask if I'm ok?" and he just relies "well, you're clearly not ok". hahaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665340 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:16:38 +0000 nana87 1665340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh is also really bad at comforting me when I get hurt! If he hurts something, the whole world needs to stop (seriously-- he once got pissy w me and called his mother for sympathy instead when I apparently wasn't sympathetic enough when he stubbed his toe. His freaking toe.). But if I get hurt, I need to actively ask for help-- I've burned myself before and still had to google burn protocol myself, because when I asked him what to do he said he didn't know and went back to whatever he was doig. Siiiigh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665338 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:16:19 +0000 mrbee 1665338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: He should have kissed the booboo, put a bandaid on it and then given you ice for it!! Ah man, our kids have it so good and they don't even know it...</p> <p>Hope you feel better now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665336 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:15:59 +0000 snowjewelz 1665336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH would laugh too and then try to comfort me lol.</p> <p>He has def gotten better! He was so bad at it when we first started dating so it took a lot of communicating so that he understands what I need from him in terms of comfort and consolation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665326 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:11:47 +0000 autumnlove 1665326@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH would laugh. He isn't very good at stuff like that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-so-good-at-comforting-you#post-1665313 Thu, 29 May 2014 11:07:11 +0000 .twist. 1665313@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, this morning I did something really stupid. </p> <p>L threw a toy under my desk. The keyboard tray was extended, and my depth perception was, apparently, off. I smacked my forehead right in the corner of the tray. Which is metal. It hurt so bad I kinda lost my breath and cried a little. DH watched the whole thing happen. As I sat on the floor pouting all he did was say "OUCH" and then, after I stopped whining he came over and moved my head and looked at it and said "well, it's not bleeding!" </p> <p>I was kind of hoping he would be all "OMG ARE YOU OK? DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU MIGHT DIE? SHOULD I TAKE YOU TO EMERG? CALL 911?" </p> <p>I should update him on boo-boo protocol. He failed. </p> <p>How would your SO have dealt with that kind of situation? </p>