https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 23 Apr 2026 17:43:04 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2119148 Tue, 24 Mar 2015 06:32:10 +0000 Swoggette 2119148@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@strawberryshortie I am sorry you are going through this too. I am with you. I tested + on 3/17 only to see each test fade and AF came Saturday. It's a bummer feeling to say the least. I have never experienced this. DH and I are very saddened.<br /> Sending hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118984 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 21:05:39 +0000 simplyfelicity 2118984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: I am so sorry. I had a CP last spring and they are truly heartbreaking. My only advice is to allow yourself to grieve and feel your feelings-- whatever they might be :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118979 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 21:03:53 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2118979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@catomd00: it does suck. I'm so sorry for your loss </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118978 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 21:03:36 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2118978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crisark: thank you xo </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118963 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 20:52:52 +0000 catomd00 2118963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: i am so sorry. I had an unexpected pregnancy end in a cp earlier this month. It sucks. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118943 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 20:39:34 +0000 Crisark 2118943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: @BandDmommy: sorry for you both :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118924 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 20:33:01 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2118924@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: I'm so sorry to hear that. It's such a heartbreaking feeling. My thoughts are with you xo </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118921 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 20:32:19 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2118921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lion: thank you so much. I really appreciate that.</p> <p>I'm so lucky to have a supportive DH that understands how hard this is and I can only hope I'll have better luck next time </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118830 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 19:18:23 +0000 BandDmommy 2118830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: I just had a chemical pregnancy too. I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118814 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 19:04:59 +0000 Mrs. Lion 2118814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: I am so sorry for your loss :( j had a cp last spring and it was so hard :( know that your feelings are all valid and it's ok to feel sad. You really were pregnant and its okay to mourn that loss. Hugs &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118802 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 18:50:42 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2118802@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi Ladies</p> <p>Thanks so much for your encouragement and kind words. </p> <p>Unfortunately, it is not good news. After the first blood test showed my numbers at a very low level, I was asked to do another rush test this morning. My levels were dropped to a 5 which is bad. I am also now bleeding and cramping. </p> <p>Doctor said its called a chemical pregnancy. </p> <p>Although this would have been a surprise pregnancy, I am so disappointed. :(<br /> Feeling low </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2118497 Mon, 23 Mar 2015 13:42:18 +0000 BandDmommy 2118497@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: good luck on your blood work! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2117621 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 16:25:49 +0000 wrkbrk 2117621@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: Good luck on the blood test! Some people have slow rising HcG and totally normal healthy pregnancies from what I understand! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2117528 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 13:43:13 +0000 Torchwood 2117528@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: You have much better self-control than me! :) Fingers crossed for good news! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2117520 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 13:29:26 +0000 simplyfelicity 2117520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: That's really smart. No need to torture yourself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2117465 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 11:52:48 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2117465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: still no AF, no spotting, and I'm still waiting on my blood test. </p> <p>I promised DH no more POAS-ing until I get the blood test lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2117213 Sat, 21 Mar 2015 21:26:19 +0000 simplyfelicity 2117213@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: Any news? :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2113896 Thu, 19 Mar 2015 07:27:55 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2113896@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alivoo01: Thank you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2113895 Thu, 19 Mar 2015 07:27:45 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2113895@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: I did test and it was 1 negative and 1 faint BFP. I am getting a blood test done today to be sure. No use torturing myself lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112690 Wed, 18 Mar 2015 09:20:12 +0000 SadieBee 2112690@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Agreed, it's likely just too early for you to have an afternoon positive. This is why there's the general recommendation to test with FMU - it's the most concentrated because you've been sleeping and not drinking anything for hours. Your afternoon sample was likely just too diluted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112663 Wed, 18 Mar 2015 09:01:44 +0000 BandDmommy 2112663@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: did you retest this morning? My guess is it wasn't comcentrated enough </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112656 Wed, 18 Mar 2015 08:56:00 +0000 Alivoo01 2112656@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Agreeing with the other ladies that your urine probably wasn't as concentrated in the afternoon and you're really early. Good luck!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112407 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 22:43:33 +0000 simplyfelicity 2112407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You probably just needed more concentrated urine. Wishing you the best! :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112380 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 22:03:55 +0000 Grace 2112380@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Must just be too early. First morning urine is more concentrated, so the amount of HCG will be higher causing the positive in the morning. Was the line really faint this morning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112285 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 20:11:17 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2112285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Torchwood: thanks for the insight, I'm super shocked but now I'm getting excited and really hope it sticks xo </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112176 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 18:28:42 +0000 Torchwood 2112176@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If the one with fmu was faint, I'm not surprised you got a negative later. If it's early, you really need more concentrated urine for it to pick it up. I actually had a negative the day after a positive with my second pregnancy. It wasn't viable, sadly, but my numbers WERE going up, so the negative was a result of pee that wasn't concentrated enough, not because something was wrong. I would test again in the morning, or in a couple days if you have way more patience than I do! And congrats! False positives pretty much never happen, so I'm willing to bet you're pregnant! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112136 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 17:41:03 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2112136@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@wrkbrk: thanks!! I guess I'll wait a few more days. AF is no where in sight and that is unusual for me </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112121 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 17:19:36 +0000 wrkbrk 2112121@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StrawberryShortie: You could be testing a bit too early! I think it's possible to get an early + with FMU and then a - later on if you are days before your period still. Try again in 2 days. I don't think many women get false +'s so tentative early congrats!!! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/1-bfp-in-am-1-bfn-in-pm#post-2112120 Tue, 17 Mar 2015 17:18:14 +0000 StrawberryShortie 2112120@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Okay just like the title says</p> <p>I tested once this morning and there was a faint BFP- I tested because I was feeling nauseated and sleepy.</p> <p>Tested about 20min ago and I got a BFN!</p> <p>Eek what does it mean? Am I testing too early. I am not charting or anything. This pregnancy will be #2 for me and a big surprise lol </p>