https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Apr 2026 01:43:15 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390235 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 09:04:46 +0000 Adira 2390235@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rachiecakes: haha, I'm not sure that helps! :silly: Weaning with Xander was so much easier because he did it gradually over a couple weeks, so I knew it was coming. Plus he was a little older, so I felt ready. Logan's sudden refusal is killing me though! He's my last baby, so I wanted to nurse for a few more months before it was over! Gahhh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390217 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 08:55:53 +0000 rachiecakes 2390217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: It bummed me out getting rejected and made me sad when he'd start crying and fighting me to nurse.<br /> J has never been an eater, still isn't excited about food ever. He also isn't a particularly cuddly kid, he doesn't love being held, never did.<br /> For us, I knew it just wasn't in his personality and I didn't want to be the reason he was crying every day/night. Since then there have been many "no mama, I can do by myself" moments where I've had to let go and let my big boy show me what he no longer needs help with **sniff sniff** :sad: haha :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390202 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 08:47:41 +0000 Adira 2390202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MoonMoon: Thanks, friend! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390190 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 08:40:10 +0000 MoonMoon 2390190@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww, I'm sorry to hear! I can imagine how you must feel. But at least he seems fine and dandy? I'm glad to hear he doesn't seem in pain. But you have to take care of yourself because it's not just in your mind, your body/hormones are in flux right now! Hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390126 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 07:59:10 +0000 Pumuckl 2390126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390094 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 07:22:20 +0000 Adira 2390094@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Pumuckl: &lt;3 Yes, it was a good one. And I also got a picture of us only a couple weeks ago, so at least I have that too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390092 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 07:17:17 +0000 Pumuckl 2390092@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: That's what I'd say... I really hope it'll work. Was the last nursing session you had a good one? So you'd at least have a fond memory of it, should he really have weaned? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390080 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 06:44:28 +0000 Adira 2390080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Pumuckl: I did actually give him pain meds the first couple nights because I thought maybe he had an ear infection, but it didn't help. But I also didn't give it much earlier than when I tried nursing, so maybe I'll try your hour-ahead method. Can't hurt, right?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390076 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 06:37:57 +0000 Pumuckl 2390076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: Bummer :bummed: Maybe still give it a try? I guess one dose of pain meds isn't gonna a do any harm and at least you have the peace of mind of having tried it? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390074 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 06:31:11 +0000 Adira 2390074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Pumuckl: I do think he's teething, but he doesn't really seem to be in pain at all. He gives no indication that he's in pain - just turns his head away from me and refuses to nurse. :(</p> <p>@rachiecakes: Ugh, I'm starting to wonder if I'll have to give up too. How do you feel now that it's been a few years? I just feel if I give up now, I'm going to regret it, but I also don't know how much longer I can keep offering and keep getting rejected. :bummed: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390069 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 05:50:47 +0000 rachiecakes 2390069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: J started to do this around that time! It was a battle to nurse. He would get so mad &amp; upset.<br /> Eventually I gave up </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390064 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 05:10:43 +0000 Pumuckl 2390064@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry to hear! Is he teething and in pain? Then you could try some pain meds an hour or so before you'd normally nurse and see whether that would help. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390059 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 04:54:16 +0000 Adira 2390059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugsmama: Still going. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2390028 Wed, 16 Dec 2015 01:48:33 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2390028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: hows the nursing strike going? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2384845 Thu, 10 Dec 2015 20:19:31 +0000 Adira 2384845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FaithFertility: Hopefully Logan will sleep just as well too! Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2384841 Thu, 10 Dec 2015 20:17:01 +0000 FaithFertility 2384841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>G at nights will barley drink her milk and will push away when I offer, so in bed she goes!<br /> I haven't tried dream feeds and she has always slept the same </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2384836 Thu, 10 Dec 2015 20:06:27 +0000 Adira 2384836@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugsmama: Thanks! Just attempted a dreamfeed, but he woke up and was pissed, so there goes that plan! I'm going to pump because I still want to nurse at night. Hopefully he'll sleep okay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2384824 Thu, 10 Dec 2015 19:57:05 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2384824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How tough! I would dream feed but not push it if it doesn't work immediately. He will probably feel and sleep better with a full tummy of milk if that's how he normally goes to sleep. Otherwise would you pump? Or are you trying to wean?</p> <p>Hang in there @adira and babe! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/12mo-cries-when-trying-to-nurse-skip-or-dreamfeed#post-2384796 Thu, 10 Dec 2015 19:38:35 +0000 Adira 2384796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Logan (12m) is screaming bloody murder whenever I try to nurse him. He's also clawing at his ears, so he might have an ear infection. I put him in his crib and he seems to be settling down okay. So should I wait until he's asleep and then attempt a dreamfeed, or just skip nursing? We're in the process of bottle weaning,so he's only had about 10 oz of breastmilk today... </p>