https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 15 Apr 2026 00:15:30 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2870916 Fri, 08 Feb 2019 08:09:34 +0000 Foodnerd81 2870916@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: I don’t know that this would be helpful in your case, but when my 3 year old was constipated and fearful of going because it hurt, I started giving her an m&amp;m when she pooped. It was enough of an incentive to sit and try at least instead of jumping right off because she was afraid. Hers wasn’t too bad though, so our pediatrician has me giving her a probiotic daily and juice more often. And she happily eats baby food prunes so I give her that a few times a week too. Poor baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2870915 Fri, 08 Feb 2019 08:04:19 +0000 Mama Bird 2870915@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: I think she's old enough for you to try explaining that if she drinks well and eats lots of vegetables, her tummy will feel better soon. It might reassure her somewhat. </p> <p>This has been a long term problem for my kids though. Until they get through it, I have to sit with them in the bathroom because they're scared otherwise :bummed: And have to be obsessive about fluid intake and not letting them eat a lot of grain products. Daily Miralax is a good idea too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2870911 Fri, 08 Feb 2019 01:36:20 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2870911@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: I don't know if this will help you but our dr has our one year old on daily miralax because every time we go off she gets constipated. He said they often resist pooping and t gets worse. He said we really have to take the long view here, it isn't something that'll be over in a couple weeks. So you may want to talk to the dr about a good dosage to get things moving better. We were told to increase basically until it was diarrhea then dial back but not completely go off of it yet. And this is on a one year old! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2870725 Wed, 06 Feb 2019 17:44:10 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2870725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Follow up: so she finally started pooping out what seemed to be blocking her up last night (day 11 of this) but is still resisting bedtime and waking up too early and wanting us to come sleep with her. It seems like she's scared of going to bed because she knows she'll wake up uncomfortable due to constipation, and then once she has that feeling she'll try pooping, and doesn't want to try going back to sleep. I'm so so so exhausted with all the wake ups. We've tried many things to reassure her that her bed is safe, sleeping is the best thing for everyone, etc. but I'm super worried this is a long term issue now. Any thoughts to comfort her but still be firm that we sleep in our own beds and she will be OK? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869719 Wed, 30 Jan 2019 14:15:26 +0000 hellobeeboston 2869719@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: I was just going to write this.... my son tends to get constipated often, even though he still poops every day! It's so weird... we end up doing miralax for a week or so and it goes away. I've started changing up his diet a bit to try to help so we don't have to rely on miralax forever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869691 Wed, 30 Jan 2019 12:37:18 +0000 Mrs. Cereal 2869691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've written on here before about my gastrointestinal issues and I am 100% positive that they were manifesting at that young of an age. I remember asking for something to make it hurt less and my mother eventually gave me some kind of meds, but then I was scared it was going to happen all the time. If it continues, I would probably take her to the doctor to check her out. </p> <p>Also, I think you are doing a really great job at being aware of the stress issue/possibility. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869687 Wed, 30 Jan 2019 12:18:04 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2869687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>UDPATE: thankfully the issue is definitely constipation. We're giving her miralax to get things going, encouraging her to drink more water, take her time on the pottty, etc. The crying is so annoying/sad every morning though. I'm trying so hard to resist telling her, wait til you give birth, then talk to me about pain! Hahahaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869348 Tue, 29 Jan 2019 00:30:30 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2869348@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: are y ou noticing any other signs of stress in her? Not impossible but unusual for it to be the only symptom of stress. I would think it's more likely a bug of some sort or having to pee as suggested above or a change in diet or even something making her gassy? Could be backed up even if she's been pooping. Hope you figure it out soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869312 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 18:58:30 +0000 Mrsbells 2869312@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: could it be poop related? maybe constipation? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869299 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 17:38:32 +0000 lamariniere 2869299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It could be stress, but 95% of the time when my LOs have a tummy ache, which is at least once a week, they just have to poo and are fine after. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869259 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 15:11:47 +0000 Mama Bird 2869259@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe... but kids' tummies hurt for so many reasons. Tummy bug, being backed up, walking too fast, stress in school...</p> <p>@SeptMomma12: ugh, same! I took the poor kid to ER the first time it happened, because it sounded like appendicitis. Nope, just an odd presentation of strep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869247 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 14:57:04 +0000 bhbee 2869247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I definitely think there are other possibilities as mentioned but my oldest does get stomachaches from anxiety. She just is a worrier in general. What has helped is talking ... probably harder at 4 but maybe you can get her to open up about what she is worrying about so you can discuss it if it is coming from you. For my dd it can be school, an activity, really anything. She just turned 7 so different level of understanding but now we can talk about how sometimes your stomach hurts when you worry and talk about what might be behind it, and just acknowledging it helps. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869236 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 14:29:34 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2869236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaBear87: thanks. great, easy advice. I'm also a child of divorce and am SO happy my parents are now both much happier with new partners. That is not our plan right now, but it's important she knows that for sure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869230 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 13:47:26 +0000 SeptMomma12 2869230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It could certainly be stress-related, but when my son complains of a tummy ache several days in a row it's been strep every time. It's really random and that's his only symptom, but it has happened that way three separate times, so I sorta just know now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869224 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 13:04:57 +0000 PurplePeony 2869224@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Your instinct could be right, but when my DD complains of a tummy ache upon waking, it’s usually because she needs to pee really badly. It quite often takes 5-10 minutes after she has gone potty for her tummy to feel normal again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869220 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 12:45:34 +0000 youboots 2869220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don’t think you are wrong.</p> <p>DD has a tummy ache recently and was just backed up. Try some apple juice 🤷‍♀️ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869219 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 12:39:35 +0000 MamaBear87 2869219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>From a child of parents who tried to argue so we didn't know about it. We both knew and it was far more stressful that my parents were trying to hide it. My brother and I both worried that they were arguing because of or about us. It was far better later when they came out and told us they were having adult problems and were trying to work them out. Knowing it wasn't because of us allowed us to relax some (not that your parents arguing all the time is great but took alot of stress off). Both my parents also seemed less stressed since they weren't trying to hide all the arguments. </p> <p>My parents eventually got divorced which turned out to be the absolute best thing for our family but I know it doesn't always turn out that way. All the love 💕 parenting and relationships are so so hard </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/4-yo-tummy-hurts-might-be-due-to-stress-at-home#post-2869217 Mon, 28 Jan 2019 12:24:54 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2869217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My 4yo DD has been waking around 6am for the past week crying and complaining of her "tummy hurting". She usually sleeps until 7:30 and always been a fantastic/deep deep sleeper. At first we just thought she was hungry (she is not a big dinner eater but is a very adventurous/healthy eater in general) and so we worked on encouraging her to eat protein/filling food for dinner at night. It dawned on me last night as DH and I were fighting AGAIN that she may have been picking up on my stress and it is manifesting itself as a physical pain for her. Of course we try to limit arguments to when the kids are in bed but who knows what she hears or just picks up by my general level of stress. We are committed to working things out but in the mean time I'm just so upset it's affecting her! Ideas? </p>