https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 17 Apr 2026 03:21:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2537272 Fri, 29 Apr 2016 16:06:04 +0000 Raindrop 2537272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Oh that's a good spin off poll! Do it!! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2537268 Fri, 29 Apr 2016 16:00:14 +0000 BSB 2537268@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Raindrop: I meant to ask DH to take the quiz when you first posted it. I forgot and I just remembered, so I had to come back and comment. It's a great quiz and great reminder. </p> <p>I might do a spin off poll and ask people what their lowest love language is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2537265 Fri, 29 Apr 2016 15:54:00 +0000 Raindrop 2537265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Pull up one of my polls from two months ago. I like your style! :) Hehe. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2537264 Fri, 29 Apr 2016 15:52:20 +0000 BSB 2537264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My top 2 are acts of service and quality time.</p> <p>DHs are word of affirmation and physical touch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2451245 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 14:46:18 +0000 youboots 2451245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: Quality time.<br /> M: Acts of service.</p> <p>They don't work together well, I'm glad we are aware. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2451240 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 14:40:49 +0000 stiletto_mom 2451240@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I are exact inverses so it's hard.<br /> I respond most to acts of service, least to Verbal Affirmations. He's the other way around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2451205 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 14:21:55 +0000 Raindrop 2451205@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: haha have him take the test! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450593 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 08:36:26 +0000 Umbreon 2450593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: Quality time<br /> DH: Words of affirmation </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450588 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 08:33:16 +0000 Ajsmommy 2450588@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me, QT<br /> DH, unsure!! Is that bad that I can't pinpoint his?? When I read the book I tried a few but none of them seemed to click. If I HAD to pick I'd guess he's gifts and words of affirmation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450586 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 08:32:18 +0000 ineebee 2450586@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: words of affirmation<br /> DH: physical touch </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450499 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 07:23:26 +0000 Adira 2450499@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: Words of Affirmation and Acts of Service<br /> SO: Physical Touch </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450332 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 23:34:28 +0000 DillonLion 2450332@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: Words of affirmation<br /> DH: Acts of service</p> <p>It plays out clearly in our relationship on a daily basis. I try to always remember to perform acts of service if I really want to show love and DH knows to say things to me if I want to feel loved. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450322 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 23:29:29 +0000 autumnlove 2450322@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Quality time. There were so many questions about gifts!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450302 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 23:10:59 +0000 sleepybear 2450302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm acts of service and DH is words of affirmation. I try really hard to keep his in mind, since when I'm grumpy I can speak harshly, which really gets him down. Mine totally changed once we had a baby, too - I used to be quality time and touch... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450219 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 22:18:44 +0000 LCTBQE 2450219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Raindrop: ha, I didn't realize! I like words and time together but generally think presents are overrated and don't like being touched by anyone other than my husband. felt like I kept having to choose between the latter two--I guess I was focused on my personal negative, whoops. PS good thing we aren't married to each other :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450203 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 22:11:14 +0000 Raindrop 2450203@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LCTBQE: LOL. I took the quiz, I think each question is making you choose between two and then it will tally up which one you choose the most of, is how I felt it work. So quite a few of them would be about gift giving, but equally so should be about spending time with people, getting nice words said, people touching and having things done for you.</p> <p>I personally thought there was a lot of questions about people saying nice words! Words is the worst for me, so maybe I was just annoyed b/c that's totally not what I would pick. Haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450190 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 22:00:35 +0000 LCTBQE 2450190@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>always been curious about this, but I really struggled with this quiz. it felt like every single question was about getting a fucking present. is this christmas? am I eight years old? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450171 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:53:08 +0000 gingerbebe 2450171@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is words and PT, followed closely by QT.</p> <p>I am acts of service followed by quality time. </p> <p>We are very aware of our love languages so we do our best to meet the others needs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450168 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:51:06 +0000 jhd 2450168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is words of affirmation and I'm QT. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450097 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:25:47 +0000 Raindrop 2450097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Torchwood: Hm.. DH is acts and he's a terrible gift giver! I mean I appreciate everything he gives me but he usually gives me the exact opposite of what I would want. Well at least he tries. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450089 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:21:17 +0000 Torchwood 2450089@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is gifts, don't care at all for acts of service, other three pretty equal somewhere in the middle. DH is the exact opposite on his main and least, but at least we meet in the middle! Also, I've heard (and his behavior seems to agree) that people who are into acts of service make great gift givers because it's an act of service to them to find the perfect gift. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450081 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:16:35 +0000 mrsjyw 2450081@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Raindrop: our primary languages are def polar opposite though. We did this as our premarital counseling and regrouped at the end of the year (it's been 5 years!) to really focus on each other's language and it's been so so helpful in maintaining and growing our relationship! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450079 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 21:14:18 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2450079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am words of affirmation and acts of service. DH is physical touch. I'm so not physical touch hahaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450048 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:56:19 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 2450048@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine are quality time and physical touch<br /> DH's are words of affirmation and physical touch </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450036 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:51:44 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2450036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm words of affirmation. He's physical touch. He's not good with words and I'm touched out at the end of the day (in my defense he doesn't just want to cuddle he wants to grab my boob and watch TV with his hand in my pants, no thanks). So things can be difficult sometimes!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2450023 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:47:48 +0000 Raindrop 2450023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: Haha I totally feel you about the gifts thing. For me, I enjoy any gift because it makes me think that the person really thought about me when I wasn't there and that makes me feel loved and puts a smile on my face!</p> <p>Also when I can't be there for someone... sending / giving a gift helps me show them that I'm thinking of them even though I can't be there with them.</p> <p>But yeah totally makes me feel materialistic! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2449995 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:37:30 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2449995@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm gifts (wish it was something less materialistic.)<br /> DH is touch, which sucks because I'm so touched out after hanging with my girls all day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2449991 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:36:02 +0000 petunia354 2449991@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am quality time and DH is physical touch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2449963 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:26:31 +0000 Synchronicity 2449963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me : physical touch, quality time<br /> DH: acts of service, words of affirmation </p> <p>We are unfortunately not on the same level, but it's something that we are both aware of and gentle reminders on occasion go a long way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/5-love-languages-1#post-2449951 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 20:17:49 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2449951@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me: acts of service<br /> SO: words of affirmation &amp; quality time </p>