https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 18:09:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1482288 Sun, 09 Mar 2014 20:38:39 +0000 deactivated_account 1482288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarahnicole218: "Humbling..." Nice perspective. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1481289 Sun, 09 Mar 2014 02:09:03 +0000 AmeliaBedilia 1481289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Welcome! I agree, TTC is way worse than I expected it to be. You keep doing the same things over and feel like you keep failing. The upside is the wonderful women on here. Hope you get your BFP soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1481076 Sat, 08 Mar 2014 21:13:20 +0000 BSB 1481076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww, I'm sorry. That 9th month of TTC was hard for me, too. Hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1480041 Sat, 08 Mar 2014 08:49:51 +0000 Miss Sarah 1480041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm glad you've come out of hiding as well! You should definitely join us on the POAS thread for TTC 6 mo+. You are so not alone; there are, unfortunately, lots of us. I'm in my 12th month of TTC, hard to say how many cycles because I have PCOS and do not ovulate often. I have had 4-5 ovulatory cycles since March 2013. </p> <p>I try to remind myself that this long TTC journey has been humbling, among everything else, and when all of us lovely future mamas finally get that sticky bean, it will be that much more exciting! We'll be grateful beyond words and I think, personally, I'll have the most amazing relationship with that child because of all of the love and patience it took to conceive him/her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479884 Sat, 08 Mar 2014 03:00:27 +0000 Crystal 1479884@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Warbler: I'm in SoCal too!</p> <p>I understand exactly, and there are so many wonderful ladies here that can offer support. I'm on my 9th month too, plus an additional few months of NTNP before that ( I also had a MC mixed into those 9 months). </p> <p>TTC SUCKS, I agree, but I just keep telling myself it will be worth it in the end. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479371 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 18:16:58 +0000 Snowdrop 1479371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm really glad you've de lurked! I don't know what I would have done without the ladies on here and I know you will get just the same support. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479357 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 18:07:37 +0000 HolisticMama 1479357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Warbler: I don't think I will go near the IF boards until I have to embark on fertility treatments. My DH also has low count and morphology, but we are stubborn and want to try longer. LOL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479279 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 17:25:50 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1479279@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I could have written your post. At the end of March it'll be 9 solid months for us plus the 3 additional months of ntnp before that. So, I've been waiting to get pregnant for 12m now. Oh and the cycle before we started ntnp, I has a miscarriage, so if that doesn't put a shit spin on things :/<br /> I just take it one month at a time. I try to be hopeful and do my best every month, and when it fails, I just look to the next time with more hope. I don't know how much longer I can do it though. I'm glad we talked to a RE finally and we're now getting medication and testing.<br /> I'm so sorry and I hope your husband is able to find the right remedy :( I know it's tough. Baby dust :)) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479249 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 17:11:30 +0000 Warbler 1479249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsmcd I hope all of your tests come back normal! Thank you for your kind words.<br /> @bhbee oh, that gives me hope! good luck :)<br /> @holisticmama so cute! :)</p> <p>Thanks ladies. I've checked out the IF boards, but I'm not ready to go there yet. You're all awesome, strong women, hopefully some of that strength will rub off on me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479126 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 16:12:27 +0000 HolisticMama 1479126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you pour yourself a nice cup of tea? </p> [attach=4604/14/n2348r.300x225.29031.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479059 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:50:32 +0000 snowjewelz 1479059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope the HB community will be able to cheer you up and walk with you on this TTC journey! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1479027 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:40:34 +0000 littlek 1479027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. :( We are on our 8th cycle of TTC. It's rough, but we are here for you!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478974 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:21:58 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1478974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you're going through this :( many of us have been there too. I hope you get a good plan from your RE on moving forward. The IF boards are full of awesome ladies, so if you're up for it, join in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478963 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:17:46 +0000 LindsayInNY 1478963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are definitely not alone... We're in the middle of cycle #12, 15 months TTC. I'm just going through testing now to try and see what's going on, if anything... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478962 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:17:38 +0000 bhbee 1478962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh big hugs. there are a lot of us here who have struggled and are now pregnant, and a lot still going through struggles (personally I'm in treatments for #2 right now). you may find it helpful to look for the TTC 6mo+ threads and the infertility check-in threads.<br /> I'm glad you've started tests because then you can work on fixing whatever isn't working so far. we're always here when you need to talk! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478952 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:14:20 +0000 deactivated_account 1478952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry, lady. I'm in the midst of my 10th cycle TTC. I just went to my family physician today to talk about future options and they are going to order a SA for my husband. I'm in Southern California, too. I think that issues with guys' sperm are the easiest to deal with. Hopefully you figure out a solution soon. Cheer up! There's still so much hope for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478920 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:02:15 +0000 Raindrop 1478920@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs* You are not alone! I'm on my ninth cycle too but I counted 4 months of NTNP so I'm really on my four cycle but even when I was NTNP it was stressful too! TTCing super sucks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/9-months-ttc-today#post-1478914 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:00:08 +0000 Warbler 1478914@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Long time lurker here! So, the title says it all. My husband and I have been actively ttc for 9 months now. We were ntnp for 3 months before that. A couple of weeks ago he got a SA done and we found out he has a really low count, bad morphology and low motility. So, there's that. I'm going to see my doctor on Monday to talk about getting tests done for myself so we can see what our options are going forward. </p> <p>Today I got an email from some website I signed up for a while back that tracks your baby's development. The email contained a huge "Congratulations!" banner and said to kick back and get ready for the baby to make its appearance. I usually try to stay really positive, but this was like a kick in the gut. If we had been dealt better cards in life, we'd be expecting a baby this month instead of getting ready to embark on invasive medical procedures.</p> <p>I'm at work right now trying to hold back tears. Even though I just lurk, this site has been a really good comfort for me during this ttc process, so here I am finally reaching out for support. This whole ttc process SUCKS. </p>