https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 14 Apr 2026 05:27:10 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1321036 Sun, 05 Jan 2014 18:17:32 +0000 Cole 1321036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh I can so relate! This is me, although I am still learning that painful lesson of "don't test early". Good to know there will be great company in the loony bin! :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1321023 Sun, 05 Jan 2014 18:04:39 +0000 MadamBabyFever 1321023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit: love that graphic, and from people's comments it looks quite accurate </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1320997 Sun, 05 Jan 2014 17:47:13 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 1320997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>UGH, the TWW is killing me this month. I've been depressed, hopeful and back to hopeless. It's awful! I need to learn how to cope. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1304097 Sat, 28 Dec 2013 03:41:51 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 1304097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow!! So glad it's not just me!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1275451 Thu, 12 Dec 2013 08:56:36 +0000 SunshineMcC 1275451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, yes to all of this! I'm glad I'm not the only one who checks and rechecks Google for signs and timing of implantation cramps and everything else! I'm on CD21 right now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1273460 Wed, 11 Dec 2013 10:33:29 +0000 Sprite 1273460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chibee: I want to "like" this post! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271851 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 13:43:07 +0000 chibee 1271851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>lol glad to know i'm not the only one on the crazy train!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271742 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 13:03:43 +0000 bhbee 1271742@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>omg YES. my googling is straight up embarrassing, especially considering how many cycles I've done it. I'm TTC LO#2 now and it's not any better! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271687 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:47:39 +0000 Alivoo01 1271687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: This was so me when we failed to conceive after 3 tries and each month thereafter! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271668 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:42:21 +0000 Crystal 1271668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL- this is so me!</p> <p>DH always laughs at my incessant boob grabbing. Then, I think I make them sore from feeling myself up so much, which causes me to wonder if they are PREGNANT SORE, and just starts the crazy spiral. </p> <p>And I also obsessively google implantation building. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271667 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:41:43 +0000 Adira 1271667@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chibee: @Littlebit: Soooo accurate!!! The TWW is the WORST!!!! I'm looking forward to TTCing again, but this just reminds me of how much it SUCKS! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271653 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:33:26 +0000 mlm2934 1271653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit: that picture is sooo perfect </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271648 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:31:14 +0000 Kate6214 1271648@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have googled an embarrassing number of things this TWW. I had bad BD timing but all this cramping is exactly what happened when I got pregnant in August......ack </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271642 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:28:33 +0000 Littlebit 1271642@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: LOL, I have the same thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271641 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:27:56 +0000 Littlebit 1271641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I found this on Pinterest and thought it summed up the TWW pretty well! </p> [attach=3994/13/mxlpuk.342x480.138f64d523773b3f1fdfdaac1dba4b9d.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271639 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:27:05 +0000 Happygal 1271639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha! Love this. I have been known to google "BFN at 12 dpo" and google fills in the rest "but BFN later." Guess lots of women are looking for these types of stories. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271630 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:23:20 +0000 mlm2934 1271630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>TWW is a b*tch!! I'm a lot more manic than your description "I just know this is it, I'm pregnant, I have to be" ...a few minutes later "I'll never get pregnant, my body is broken, I need to find things to enjoy about life since I'm not having kids" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271591 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:11:56 +0000 mediagirl 1271591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chibee: I just laughed out loud at your boob grabbing comment, too. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271590 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:11:44 +0000 MapleMoose 1271590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Agreed. I become hyper aware of my body and my googling increases tenfold. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271584 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 12:08:41 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1271584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL! DH made fun of me all the time for the constant boob grabbing :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-chronology-of-mental-state-in-the-tww-by-dpo#post-1271564 Tue, 10 Dec 2013 11:57:44 +0000 chibee 1271564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At no point during a month does time seem like it has stopped like when you enter the tww. This is basically me through all the tww's i've encountered thus far in my ttc journey. Anyone else as crazy as i am? just me? </p> <p>1-3 dpo: if i'm temping, and waiting for o confirmation on ff, this time usually doesn't seem as bad, since i won't know when i've o'd. Just impatient to know whether i've o'd or not - get crazy and put in dummy temps, ff temp entry gets a lot of action during this time.<br /> 4 dpo: crosshairs?? YESS. WTF only 4 days out from O. Time has stopped. i have died.<br /> 5 dpo-7dpo: every month, i google when implantation could happen during this time. same answer every month, but this OCD google behavior continues throughout the tww.<br /> 8 dpo: this is about when i start to look up HPT test photos by dpo since i now am in the second part of the tww - i *could* test today... no, google said implantation hasn't happened. google is right. google is always right.<br /> 9 dpo: SO close to being in the double digits of the dpo - can it be tomorrow already!<br /> 10 dpo: SOOOO many people see :bfp: s today! I could test! I could if i wanted to!! But no, seeing a :bfn: is too rough. Back to obsessively looking at HPT test images!<br /> 11 - 14 dpo: this is where i just technically hold out to see whether AF arrives. There is a lot of boob grabbing (are they tender?) checking a LOT for spotting, and general internet obsession. After seeing lots of negatives in the past, i stopped testing early, but this period is FULL of anxiety and hope, and just gross overusage of google. </p> <p>What about you? </p>