https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Jul 2026 18:50:11 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1963968 Sat, 29 Nov 2014 18:16:08 +0000 simplyfelicity 1963968@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@EleanorRigby: If you would like some extra support, feel free to join us over at Beyond Miscarriage Support. Wishing you you the best. :heart: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1963940 Sat, 29 Nov 2014 17:13:26 +0000 EleanorRigby 1963940@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>got a faint BFP on sunday 11/23 (CD 29, two days before expected AF), which I think was DPO 15. Started spotting and had beta Hcg drawn Wed, DPO 18 and it was 37, and Friday it was 23 (DPO 20). Started full AF bleeding today. </p> <p>Sorry you ladies are going through this, too! You are not alone. Hope to see you both on the Dec boards! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959715 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 12:20:27 +0000 NurseDMB 1959715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I had horrible cramps yesterday but none today even though I'm still lightly bleeding. I hope the physical pain goes away for you soon, I'm so sorry. And I'm right there with you on the wine, can't wait to have a glass tonight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959272 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 05:58:46 +0000 travellingbee 1959272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: yes my cramps are horrible right now too! Hope this goes quickly for is both. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959248 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 02:31:56 +0000 Crystal 1959248@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: big hugs. I'm so sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959191 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 23:35:40 +0000 jaguar 1959191@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: Lots of love x </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959165 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 23:07:33 +0000 simplyfelicity 1959165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I'm "glad" you are able to move forward. Hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried/page/2#post-1959132 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 22:42:40 +0000 BlueWolverine 1959132@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HCG in the morning, but the latest test I took was finally negative and it's beginning. The cramps are wicked. Wine and popcorn for dinner. At least limbo hell is over. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1958253 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 14:11:22 +0000 winniebee 1958253@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My hcg was 15 on the day I started bleeding. I'm sorry :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1958248 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 14:10:06 +0000 NurseDMB 1958248@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: Limbo definitely isn't a fun place to be. It sounds horrible but even though I'm sad I'm also relieved, because deep down I knew the pregnancy wasn't viable. The other night I said to my DH that I wish it would just happen already, now I guess my wish came true.</p> <p>I'm so sorry you're in limbo hell. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1958200 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 13:53:08 +0000 BlueWolverine 1958200@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@NurseDMB: I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It's awful that it take so long for it to be over when there's no hope. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1958092 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 12:53:36 +0000 NurseDMB 1958092@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For me, my hcg was 22 at 12dpo. My levels continued to double, but I knew they were still low. I started miscarrying today at 26dpo (6 weeks pregnant). I go for more lab work today to make sure my levels are dropping.</p> <p>I'm sorry you're going through this. ❤ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955905 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 09:41:35 +0000 travellingbee 1955905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: god, I feel exactly the same way. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955902 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 09:37:07 +0000 travelgirl1 1955902@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had strong numbers in the beginning but the baby was measuring behind at my first ultrasound, with a low heartbeat. I started spotting then bleeding one day shy of eight weeks, but baby measured seven on ultrasound that day.<br /> I'm so sorry you are going through this, we are all here for you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955896 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 09:31:19 +0000 BlueWolverine 1955896@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Alright, I'm starting to get really pissed. If this is a miscarriage, could my body just please take care of it???? No spotting, no nothing. Just exhausted and sore boobs. COME ON. This kind of crap creates stupid hope that I'm that one in a million person for whom the test was wrong. Must resist that belief, as it's only going to make it worse when it finally does happen. Sigh. I just want to move on.</p> <p>Thanks for all of your kind words, everyone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955376 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 19:27:05 +0000 jaguar 1955376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I hope it's soon, for your sanity. Sending hugs. x </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955256 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 17:54:02 +0000 travellingbee 1955256@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: :crying: it's not a fun club to be in... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955197 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 17:16:41 +0000 Chaosmaven 1955197@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I'm sorry to hear you are going through this! I had a BFP in October that I miscarried 2 weeks ago. I had heavy spotting at 5 weeks that I believe was the start although I didn't fully start to miscarry until 6 weeks. I didn't have early betas, but I did have them done during the process and once I passed everything my hcg dropped dramatically. I bled for a week and got a negative test about a week after that. Take care and be gentle with yourself :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955064 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 16:20:58 +0000 BlueWolverine 1955064@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travellingbee: Oh, no, I'm so sorry to hear this. Misery does not love company in this situation. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955044 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 16:13:03 +0000 Tidybee 1955044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had two instances of low hcg during 2 of my losses.<br /> #1 - I didn't realize I had low and non doubling hcg until 6 weeks. I started bleeding at 5w5d, but progesterone medication stopped it. The baby grew to 7w5d but I didn't find out until over 9 weeks and I started bleeding (miscarrying naturally) that morning but I had the D&amp;C.<br /> #2 - I got a positive test at 10dpo and went to get betas the next day. My hcg was a 7. I started spotting the next day and had a normal period at 14dpo. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955032 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 16:06:44 +0000 NorCalWayfarer 1955032@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: @travellingbee: I am so sorry you are going through this :-( I had my first BFP in July 2013 and started bleeding about 6 weeks along. Did the HGC tests and they weren't doubling, but it also took a while to go back down to 0. It was so hard. Luckily I got my second BFP on 11/1/13 and my 4 month old is sleeping in the next room. A miscarriage/chemical pregnancy/loss is an awful thing to go through, but know that many of us have unfortunately experienced this and are here for your support. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1955016 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 15:59:28 +0000 travellingbee 1955016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I'm in the same situation now sweetie. My hCG at 13 DPO was 20.7. Today at 15 DPO my hCG was 22. So not really going up at all. Just waiting for the bleeding to start. This sucks so much. I am also supposed to go back on Tuesday to get another blood draw. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1953384 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 18:55:34 +0000 Ifyoulikepinacoladas 1953384@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: after I found out HCG wasn't rising it took 10 days for bleeding to start. I was 6 weeks when it stopped rising. So sorry you have to go through this :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1953209 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 16:51:52 +0000 MaryM 1953209@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I didn't have levels drawn that early, so I can't comment on that...but I had a very annoying "wait and see" situation, so I totally hear you on how much that can suck. </p> <p>I started spotting before my 8 wk scan, so they asked me if it was possible my math could have been off. The embryo measured closer to 6 weeks. We were NTNP, so it was a total possibility.</p> <p>I went through weeks of blood tests (my levels were still rising) and ultrasounds and spotting until it was finally confirmed I was miscarrying about two weeks later. </p> <p>I hope that if you are miscarrying, you'll know for sure much sooner. I think the waiting took more of a toll on me than anything physical or emotional did </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1953186 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 16:42:19 +0000 BlueWolverine 1953186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks, everyone. Sitting around waiting really sucks. I really appreciate all of your kind words and experiences.</p> <p>@HappyBluebird: Thank you for that board mention. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1952957 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 15:16:34 +0000 birdofafeather 1952957@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No advice just sending hugs. What a bummer to be blindsided on the phone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1952904 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 15:05:16 +0000 simplyfelicity 1952904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: My CP was a little different in that, I got positives for about a week, they turned to negative and I started bleeding the next day. Wishing you the best possibly outcome and, if not, that you can move on soon. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1952520 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 13:28:54 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1952520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry for your loss :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1952472 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 13:13:49 +0000 HappyBluebird 1952472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss :heart: </p> <p>I can't offer a personal experience with low HCG as my m/c was different but I wanted to say that if you feel you need support from people who understand all the feelings that come along with a loss, the Beyond Miscarriage thread here on HB is full of ladies who are a great support system. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/a-question-for-those-who-have-miscarried#post-1952460 Thu, 20 Nov 2014 13:08:26 +0000 Jess1483 1952460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I was so relieved when I finally passed the clot and knew it was done (I was still holding out a bit of hope, but also knew it was impossible.) I drank SO MUCH wine that weekend. </p>