https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 19 May 2026 18:10:08 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-57064 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 16:27:10 +0000 MegWag 57064@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've been enjoying sexy time through out the pregnancy (I'm 34 weeks). It was definitely gotten less frequent as I've gotten bigger (we're down to about once a week). It's been very enjoyable and interesting for both of us to notice things that feel different.<br /> I never really felt nervous about it because I'd read so much about how it wasn't a problem. There were a couple of times that I experienced a little bit of very light blood after some particularly *ahem* vigorous enjoyment, but it was always ok. There is a lot of increased blood flow downtown, so it's not uncommon to end up with an irritated cervix. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56856 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 12:54:04 +0000 googly-eyes 56856@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No advice but I'm in the same boat as you. At first it was the fear, then we decided it should be fine, but honestly I'm just nauseous ALL the time. I can barely stand up sometimes.. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56788 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 10:46:54 +0000 mamabolt 56788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We didn't abstain during the first tri, although once I started feeling sick/exhausted it became a lot less frequent! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56783 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 10:37:24 +0000 mediagirl 56783@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We didn't have our fun time until second trimester. I was in no mood for that during the first trimester. He totally understood. I let him know when I was ready again and he was happy. Haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56763 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 10:05:40 +0000 mrstilly 56763@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had lots of adult time in the first half of my pregnancy. It slowed in the second half a bit as I got bigger. We had no issues though, and have a healthy 9 month old now. The midwife said it was totally fine and wouldn't affect the pregnancy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56756 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 09:55:30 +0000 Pipers Mommy 56756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't for a 2 week time period because I had some spotting (between weeks 6-8), but once the MD gave us the all clear we resumed. We now have a very healthy little girl Like artbee said better now before your belly grows. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56754 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 09:52:51 +0000 duckduckkristen 56754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in my first pregnancy. It was not related to sex, but the next time I got pregnant it was actually my husband who didn't want to have sex until he saw an ultrasound with a heartbeat, which for us was at 8 weeks. I'm 24 weeks now and everything is going well.</p> <p>It's probably fine to have sex, but I can understand being concerned. There are always other things you two can do if you aren't comfortable having actual sex. ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56751 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 09:50:25 +0000 Mrsbells 56751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was also worried about this when I was so I did ask my doctor, and she said it was fine unless we noticed any bleeding (which never happened). But it is perfectly normal to be worried. Just keep in mind the baby is sealed in the sac and having sex doesnt touch or affect the baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56750 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 09:40:32 +0000 heffalump 56750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had plenty of sexy time during the first trimester and I have a very healthy baby. Maybe calling and asking your doctor will make you feel better.</p> <p>Do it before your belly gets big and it starts to get uncomfortable! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/adult-time-during-first-tri#post-56748 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 09:36:03 +0000 sorrycharlie 56748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I've been waiting, and sure enough, last night DH demanded to know if he had to wait another 2 months before he got to have sexytime. I've been super paranoid about miscarriage (I'm 5 weeks) so we haven't since we conceived! He's getting...ahem, frustrated.</p> <p>I'm not sure just hearing it will convince me anyway, but for the sake of trying - any reassurances or bad stories to help me out here? </p>