https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 21 Apr 2026 19:19:35 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737614 Thu, 18 May 2017 20:11:22 +0000 LaughLines 2737614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies. It's good to know I'm not alone. Everyone else around me seems pregnant and there are so many constant reminders of what I'm going through that i can't seem to distract my mind. </p> <p>We're going to an ivf orientation next week to learn more about ivf and will do one more iui before moving on to ivf. I feel like I'm going to put a lot of pressure on the next iui because of that, but i guess it's good to have a plan </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737553 Thu, 18 May 2017 14:08:56 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2737553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This has happened to me. I found trying to keep myself busy leading up to the date helped. On the actual day, treat yourself to something special...a pedicure or a massage. It's incredibly difficult to deal with, and I felt like everyone around me was announcing their pregnancies. It's so hard and want to send you some love :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737549 Thu, 18 May 2017 14:02:03 +0000 PeaceLily 2737549@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm currently going through this as well. I lost my first baby in November 2016 at 19.5 weeks. I didn't miscarry, but I had a termination for medical reasons due to a chromosome abnormality that was missed in the first trimester.</p> <p>We started officially trying again in January and I was so hoping to be pregnant before my due date in April, but that didn't happen. I knew it wasn't too likely since that only gave us 3 months of trying, but it was still hard to not be pregnant by then.</p> <p>I was dreading the due date, but on the actual day it wasn't too bad and getting past it actually made me feel better and a bit more relaxed about trying to conceive.</p> <p>I'm sorry you're going through this. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737477 Thu, 18 May 2017 10:51:45 +0000 Jellyfish 2737477@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>milestones like this are so difficult, just want you to know that you are not alone...big hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737475 Thu, 18 May 2017 10:47:51 +0000 youboots 2737475@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Please know you are frequently on my heart. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737472 Thu, 18 May 2017 10:45:32 +0000 Mrsbells 2737472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LaughLines: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737453 Thu, 18 May 2017 10:05:03 +0000 Shantuck 2737453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happened to me in February 2016. I had gotten pregnant in June 2015 after trying for 6 months and then had a loss. I went on to have another loss in December 2015. My due date with the first loss was in February 2016 and it was definitely difficult. My husband and I actually planned a weekend away so we wouldn't sit around wallowing. We had a great weekend and I actually started experiencing implantation cramping that weekend and now she is 6 months old. I know it is easier said that done but try to remain positive. :goodluck: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737408 Thu, 18 May 2017 08:07:01 +0000 BeatlesFan629 2737408@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This was me last year. My due date was October 12 2016 and I miscarried last March. We were trying that whole time in between my m/c and my due date, and was still not pregnant by the time the date came. It was sad, but I agree with purplepumps, I think the build was worse.<br /> I actually ended up ovulating on that date and found out I was pregnant 2 weeks later. I know it's just coincidence but I like to feel like there was some kind of connection there </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737394 Thu, 18 May 2017 07:51:26 +0000 erinbaderin 2737394@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes - I got pregnant in August 2013, my due date was May 4. I kept thinking to myself that I needed to be pregnant again by then and I wasn't, and it was heartbreaking. It took just over another year - the next May 4 fell between retrieval and transfer for what would be a successful IVF. It's really hard and I'm sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737382 Thu, 18 May 2017 07:00:11 +0000 mrskansas 2737382@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is me. My due date was May 26. Unfortunately we have been trying since I lost that pregnancy in October and have suffered two more losses and a few failed medicated cycles.<br /> No advice, it just sucks. Hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737379 Thu, 18 May 2017 06:50:31 +0000 bloved 2737379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That happened to me. I had miraculously gotten pregnant naturally and miscarried. I had a failed Ivf and a blighted ovum again before the due date came around. I totally agree with @purplepumps that the anticipation was worse than the actual day for me - to be honest, by that point everyday was clouded with a general funk that I was still not pregnant and who knew if/when I would ever be.<br /> So no good advice, just hugs. It's a sh*tty club to be in, but know you have company and I hope your rainbow is coming soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737378 Thu, 18 May 2017 06:22:11 +0000 PurplePumps 2737378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes and no. I got pregnant in March, then m/c'ed in May. I was lucky enough to get pregnant with my next FET in Sept, but m/c'ed again in Oct. So by my first due date, I'd lost 2 babies. My second due date is coming up in 3 weeks and I'm not pregnant, we still haven't been able to even transfer, and have done 2 retrievals since. And we're doing another cycle the week after my second due date. In my mind, I do kinda compare everything to my due dates, but it doesn't change anything. Everything is a could've or should've.<br /> I really dreaded by first due date, but honestly, I think the anticipation of the date is much worse than the actually day itself. The day came and went like any other, any other shitty day of still not having a baby after all these years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737371 Thu, 18 May 2017 05:09:32 +0000 ElbieKay 2737371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happened to me. Then I got pregnant at around the 1yr mark from my mc, and that turned into another mc. It sucks. I have a consult in a few weeks to decide if we should do more IUI or go straight to IVF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/after-miscarriage-not-pregnant-again-by-would-be-due-date#post-2737367 Thu, 18 May 2017 04:49:40 +0000 LaughLines 2737367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My due date was May 21st (this Sunday) and i had a miscarriage back in October. We've been trying ever since then and have done 6 cycles including 4 IUIs. Just took a test this morning on 10dpo and it's negative. So I'm officially not pregnant again by my due date.</p> <p>Has anyone else gone through this? I'm really struggling with this milestone. </p>