https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 11 May 2026 00:07:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1146716 Sat, 12 Oct 2013 13:09:22 +0000 MsLipGloss 1146716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TurtleDoves: a second baby is really not in the cards. I honestly don't know how we would manage a second. Money is no issue, but it would likely tank what's left of my career, and I am afraid for how difficult the pregnancy would be physically. My only hesitation is the thought that our LO would be alone in the world without a sibling. Plenty of family though. But a girl can dream. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1146193 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 19:42:14 +0000 betsyboop 1146193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH is very agreeable about MOST things so when he objects to something, we usually go with what he wants to do. I can only think of one situation in the last 2 years where he disagreed with me. In my opinion, having an agreeable husband makes my life easier! Except for when I ask him what we should have for dinner and he says 'Whatever'. Argh!!!! So I get you, @mrsbookworm! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1146187 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 19:35:17 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1146187@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TurtleDoves: I don't think it's going to happen. I've got the fever, but I've got a career to tend to as well. This week I've been pulling 12 hour days minimum and don't even see my little one. It seems cruel to bring another babe into that milleu right now :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145949 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 16:17:19 +0000 travellingbee 1145949@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I like it when he's agreeable. I don't like it when he's indecisive! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145918 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 15:56:05 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1145918@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jacks: @MsLipGloss: good Lord, women. I've heard you both talk about the *possible* additional baby for a long time. SOMEBODY BETTER get KU or adopted soon! Come oooooon ;) come on;) ? yes? please? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145826 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 14:59:54 +0000 Mae 1145826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Vegmama: good point about both being agreeable! I actually think I am pretty agreeable too. When he does actually have an opinion I usually go with that because I figure it really matters to him and I know he's thought it out. I think for smaller decisions he usually just defaults to my opinion because I'm the one who spends more time thinking/researching this stuff! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145807 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 14:43:25 +0000 Vegmama 1145807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think my husband and I are both very agreeable ... I think we're both good decision makers, so it's easy to trust the other person when they've taken the initiative to research something or make a choice. </p> <p>I wish that we were better at agreeing on the grocery list and/or giving input! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145701 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 13:58:02 +0000 MsLipGloss 1145701@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jacks: This is where we are too (with regard to the 2%). Sometimes I just wish DH would say "yes! let's try for a second" because then I could stop worrying about whether I am in or out, how much time I have left on my *clock* (If any!) and switch to worrying about getting knocked up and the panic about how to make it work with more than 1 (lol and *sigh*) . . . </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145680 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 13:52:15 +0000 sarac 1145680@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: We do the three options and then the others picks things too. Works really well, everyone gets something they like. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145046 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 09:39:23 +0000 Cherrybee 1145046@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! Mine has an opinion on every single thing! It drives me crazy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145042 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 09:38:13 +0000 yoursilverlining 1145042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is VERY agreeable and laid back, which works well since I'm very opinionated and stubborn! Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1145029 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 09:35:03 +0000 Dandelion 1145029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, baby decisions are all mine. He does have input once in a while, but since I'm the veteran parent, he trusts my decisions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144976 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 09:25:15 +0000 StrawberryBee 1144976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is and I hate it! I get "whatever you think is best" to every question, from what do you want for dinner to do you want to stay home and care for our child when I go back to work. Everything is up to me , and it stresses me out. I feel like its a cop out; if he never had to make a decision then he can't feel guilty when something doesn't go right. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144797 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 08:21:48 +0000 blackbird 1144797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep. He's just not very opinionated and defaults to me for a lot of stuff. But when it comes to house stuff, etc, that's his area. He is just, in general, a very laid back guy. Most everything's like water off a duck's back to him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144789 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 08:13:29 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1144789@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mr. Jacks is super agreeable about most things. Except he's sure we're done and I have a two percent uncertainty. But even that, he's like "well, if you really want". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144716 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 07:39:39 +0000 mamimami 1144716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: Oh my gosh this is totally us on the weekends. One person has to narrow it down to 2-3 choices and the other person picks. Even then it's sort of agonizing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144711 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 07:37:29 +0000 Mae 1144711@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sapphiresun: not cool! I think my husband would get "the look" if he tried that on me lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144518 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 01:51:31 +0000 Sapphiresun 1144518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is very much like this. I like it.... 95% of the time.<br /> Sometimes I wonder if he's just being lazy, and sometimes I feel like he lets me make all the decisions so that if something doesn't end up being good... he can kind of say it wasn't his decision. Which is kind of annoying when every bad movie/restaurant/activity ends up like "where did you get THAT idea??". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144451 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 23:32:40 +0000 nana87 1144451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He is very agreeable for the most part, but then will unexpectedly, randomly have strong opinions. Like I was thinking about going to look at a rug on my own today, but when I showed him online he was super opinionated! So we will def have to look together. Or for our wedding, he was like "oh whatever you want"bat first except then when I would ask about specific things, he had very definite likes and dislikes that came out of nowhere! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144433 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 23:13:50 +0000 Kimberlybee 1144433@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: oh awesome! Then you have it good. LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144139 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:48:14 +0000 Alivoo01 1144139@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do and it drives my crazy sometimes because I'm indecisive so I need him to make the executive decision. Instead, he's like "either one you choose is fine honey. They both look great!" D'oh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144130 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:45:52 +0000 lawbee11 1144130@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is super agreeable and I love it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144125 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:44:58 +0000 indi 1144125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsF: Same here. DH is great, and knows I've done the research and made an informed choice, but sometimes I want to say what @Mae: wrote and just say "form an opinion!" Arg. Even if it is what I want, have another reason why other than "I trust you, babe, you're great at these things." Bah! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144083 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:29:17 +0000 shinymama 1144083@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do and I love it. Except when I run something by him and fully expect him to agree and he doesn't. Boo. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144059 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:23:29 +0000 Mae 1144059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Kimberlybee: lol, fair enough! My husband doesn't really have that issue. He is not at all easily guilted by his parents and he doesn't really like traveling to see them, so he has no issue saying no to them haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144038 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:17:48 +0000 Kimberlybee 1144038@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: I also have an agreeable, easy-going husband! I love it but sometimes it's a double edged sword. He's not only agreeable to me, he's also agreeable to his side if the family too which puts us in a hard place at times and I have to be the one to put my foot down. He's gotten better over the years so basically I tell him "be nice to me but mean to everyone else dude!" He totally gets it now! LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144009 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:11:16 +0000 BabyMats 1144009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbookworm: same! I'm so over picking places to eat and movies to see and things to do on date night!</p> <p>Overall dh is very agreeable </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1144001 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:08:46 +0000 Mae 1144001@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsF: That makes sense! There have been times in the past I tell him "you need to form an opinion on this" and I will probably do that in the future as needed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1143967 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:02:13 +0000 MrsF 1143967@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH is like that about a lot of things. I get a little frustrated sometimes when it's decisions about M that I'm trying to make. Sometimes you just want to know that you're not making these parenting decisions on your own! I am grateful he's not argumentative though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/agreeable-husband-1#post-1143962 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 20:01:49 +0000 MrsScallop 1143962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all! Mine has strong opinions about everything, while I am pretty go with the flow and often end up letting him decide because the argument would be too much work. Usually I don't mind, but about 1% of the time it would be nice if he didn't care so much. </p>