https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 12 May 2026 20:00:21 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-965795 Fri, 26 Jul 2013 06:53:15 +0000 pui 965795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsloving: I know just how you feel, and I am sure many other bees can also relate.</p> <p>Hang in there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-962810 Thu, 25 Jul 2013 11:46:26 +0000 mrsloving 962810@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ok, I generally only see this person maybe twice a year, but I have the pleasure, I guess, of seeing her this weekend. Which means I will have to hear all about baby #2. Lord give me the strength to handle it, or at least some alcohol to help me. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-960482 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 16:51:09 +0000 banana 960482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not one bit. You do what you need to take care of yourself. It doesn't matter what everyone else is doing or not doing. Big hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-960411 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 16:27:52 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 960411@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No not at all! It's not a direct attack on her, it's what you need to do to preserve your own peace of mind... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-960403 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 16:24:47 +0000 Pink Champagne 960403@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a bad person at all. She will never know. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-960365 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 16:06:27 +0000 SweetMamaM 960365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a bad person at all. Luckily we conceived not long after but it was a bit of a blow to log on to FB and see a #2 announcement (at four weeks pregnant) from someone who was supposedly 1 and done. Do what you need to do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959779 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 13:53:41 +0000 MrsKoala 959779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, hide people if you need to. I know I do! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959743 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 13:46:43 +0000 MsLipGloss 959743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. In fact, I consider that good self-care. ((hugs)) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959737 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 13:45:08 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 959737@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>not at all! i've def blocked some people on my newsfeed. (my cousin has been posting like crazy about #5!! ..blocked!)</p> <p>also just was included on a large group text from my best friend with a pic of the envelope with the gender of her #1 and keep getting everyone's "omg" responses.. wish it was sent to me separately, especially considering that she knows of the troubles me and dh have been having.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959514 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 12:54:25 +0000 Caly 959514@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely not! You gotta do what you gotta do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959477 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 12:46:21 +0000 avivoca 959477@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, that definitely doesn't make you a bad person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-959117 Wed, 24 Jul 2013 11:36:54 +0000 Sunshine1810 959117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a bad person at all! I have had to block some people from my news feed as well. They are never going to know, and you need to do what is best for you! I am right there with you (24 months of trying here), and I am starting to realize that I need to do what I can to help myself get through this, so if that means blocking posts from a friend, then that's what I do. *HUGS* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-956406 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 13:10:31 +0000 mrsloving 956406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone for your kind words! When she was pregnant with her first baby she was posting weekly updates, pictures of her belly, etc. I just couldn't take another round of while I'm TTC and nothing has happened after 20 months. It just stings too much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955734 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 11:01:04 +0000 keiki_mama 955734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all! You do what you gotta do! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955685 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 10:48:24 +0000 mrsmate 955685@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You're not a bad person, you're human. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955588 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 10:31:59 +0000 googly-eyes 955588@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Lindsay05: I am not ttc but I find the weekly updates obnoxious too!</p> <p>I don't think it's rude, it's not like they know about it or you're saying anything to them to impede on their happiness! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955514 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 10:09:26 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 955514@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If doing that makes you a bad person, then I am the devil. I can't tell you how many people I have unchecked to not show up on my newsfeed!!</p> <p>ETA: for the same (and other) reason(s)!! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955319 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 09:06:37 +0000 Lindsay05 955319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No! Anyone who has to update the world about their weekly progress gets hidden. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955254 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:41:31 +0000 Bao 955254@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No! Do what you need to do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955242 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:37:10 +0000 Mrs. Polish 955242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's your feed. Do what you want with it. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955237 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:36:07 +0000 MCD919 955237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely not! I did that with several people when we were trying after my MCs </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955200 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:23:49 +0000 jhd 955200@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all! I have hidden people from my newsfeed for various reasons. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955186 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:20:19 +0000 LindsayInNY 955186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not bad at all! Went on last night to see a baby #3 announcement. That stung. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955147 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:05:56 +0000 Mrs.Someone 955147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! Been there, done that. Take care of yourself, they will never know. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955146 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:05:44 +0000 mediagirl 955146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all. I did that for years when I was angry that we weren't trying to have a baby yet. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955145 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:05:41 +0000 loveisstrange 955145@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. Do what you gotta do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955143 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:05:04 +0000 Foodnerd81 955143@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a bad person! You'd be a bad person if you posted something mean on her wall-- this doesn't hurt anyone and just makes things a little easier for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955140 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:04:37 +0000 pui 955140@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. I've set it up so I only see important posts from some people for similar reasons. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955134 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:02:11 +0000 ElbieKay 955134@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, you can always peek at her page once a week or so to catch up when you are feeling up to it. There is no reason to be caught off guard every time you check FB. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/am-i-a-bad-person#post-955133 Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:01:46 +0000 dagret 955133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsloving: not at all. I did this several times while I was TTC. I should check my newsfeed to see who's blocked still now that I have a LO. </p>