https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 18 Aug 2026 04:35:44 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1393405 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 10:54:04 +0000 mrs. bird 1393405@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>if you don't like something, don't follow it! </p> <p>i really don't understand this part of our culture where as soon as there is a screen between people they morph into mean teenage girls who want to rip everyone else apart. i'm not saying everyone needs to like one another and think everything everyone does it the greatest, there are plenty of people i don't really like or types of posts i find tasteless, i just avoid them! </p> <p>do we really hate ourselves that much? it says so much more about the people commenting that the girl posting. we have nothing more positive to do with our time and energy than rag on people? we have to work through our stress and self hate by trying to make other people hurt? these aren't celebrities who have chosen to make a living off of their public persona, they're just average people participating in (for better or worse) a typical custom of online sharing. if you don't like what's being shared, but it's not harming anyone, go elsewhere. we're socially stunted by the lack of normal human face to face interaction that takes place now. if you wouldn't say it to someone's face, don't put it out there in public for them to read. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1393355 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 10:23:11 +0000 preggomeggo82 1393355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just don't get it. I've participated in several online communities over the years and I get the concept of tough love, and that not everyone posts with rainbows and butterflies, but there's a huge difference between honesty and cruelty. Like GOMI - I just don't understand why you'd take the time for it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1393351 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 10:20:50 +0000 .twist. 1393351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pinkcupcake: yea, like the person who said when her tumblr comes up on his dashboard he wants to punch her? Uh.... So take her off your dashboard! Do you WANT to feel so hateful all the time? If it makes you mad, don't look at it! I just click off things I don't want to see too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392572 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 18:13:25 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 1392572@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>People are so much braver when they are anonymous/online. I hate that its so easy to spread negativity. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392534 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 17:52:36 +0000 MsMamaBear 1392534@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's SO ridiculous. I also worry about this when my LO gets older. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392519 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 17:29:50 +0000 pinkcupcake 1392519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Some ppl are so mean *shakes head*</p> <p>I have to admit, I find selfies to be incredibly annoying and always roll my eyes at the ppl who can't seem to stop themselves from taking millions of them, but I just click the big X and never go back to look at them again. Some people are just so hateful... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392399 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 15:32:27 +0000 Pepper 1392399@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@googly-eyes: I was wondering the same thing! Especially since one of the comments made it seem like they knew her IRL.</p> <p>I hate the nasty comments online. It's just so cowardly... talking a big game behind a veil of anonymity when they probably wouldn't have the courage to say any of that to her face. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392396 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 15:30:16 +0000 googly-eyes 1392396@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Those posters must have gone out of their way to say those things... so dramatic! I wonder if half of them are from the same person... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1392388 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 15:18:37 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1392388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I don't get it either. How can anyone get off on spreading so much negativity and hate? It must just be for a reaction? Maybe it's a game? I get that kids do this. What's sad is when grown ass people do it too. It's a little scary what people come up with under the guise of anonymity. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1391844 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:04:32 +0000 .twist. 1391844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love that she's putting it back out there. I hope those people see their comments and are very ashamed. Because so many people are supporting her. </p> <p>The most hilarious thing is that I read those comments and can't even understand where those bullies got the fuel for their hate! She doesn't represent any of those comments, so that makes them laughable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1391837 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 08:58:11 +0000 MamaBehr 1391837@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As I read that I just kept thinking that my children are going to grow up with this. How can I protect her from this nastiness? How do I teach her not to become an anyomous bully? </p> <p>This makes me so nervous for the tulmutous early teen years which will only be more tulmutous with anyomous bullies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1391827 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 08:54:42 +0000 ShootingStar 1391827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, it's amazing people would actually say those things. Telling her she's the ugliest person they've ever seen? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1391797 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 08:20:20 +0000 pui 1391797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's scary how people act when they can be anonymous. </p> <p>I see all those comments as completely laughable. They all just ooze jealousy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anonymous-comments-amp-internet-bullying#post-1391748 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 04:16:08 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1391748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A 21-yr old art student showcases anonymous negative comments she's gotten throughout the years on Tumblr. </p> <p><a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/alisonvingiano/this-tumblr-user-shows-her-horrific-anonymous-messages-in-a" rel="nofollow">http://www.buzzfeed.com/alisonvingiano/this-tumblr-user-shows-her-horrific-anonymous-messages-in-a</a></p> <p><i>"It doesn't take a talent to be mean." - Jewel</i> </p>