https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 25 Apr 2026 14:24:12 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1853792 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 16:14:36 +0000 LalaLove 1853792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bhbee: Thanks so much :heart: I'm going to ask about the biopsy tomorrow when I call! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1853019 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:56:38 +0000 mrsjyw 1853019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1853016 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:55:05 +0000 bhbee 1853016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. I've also had 4 but mine were split 2 before LO and 2 before this pregnancy. I never really got an answer for myself but I'd definitely push for all the testing you can get - hysteroscopy sounds like a good idea, can they do a biopsy then too? I know several of us with repeat early loss had that done to check for some kind of infection/bacteria which was treated with strong antibiotics (can't remember details now). I'd also get the repeat loss blood panel done if you can and haven't yet. in the end I got my sticky baby using metformin - can't really say if that made the difference or if it was chance, but my RE said it can help especially in women who have PCOS signs (mine is borderline). he was suggesting IVF as the next step for us since we'd already tried oral meds and IUI with the same result and I am a good responder to meds. it's maddening when they just don't know why it is happening.</p> <p>I'm glad you're feeling a bit better today. there's definitely hope things will work out given time! and absolutely feel free to join the IF or other boards if you'd like more support. amazing ladies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1853015 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:54:52 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1853015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry to see this. Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852983 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:36:38 +0000 .twist. 1852983@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852977 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:32:50 +0000 tequiero21 1852977@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! Hoping u find answers! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852880 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 08:32:24 +0000 ValentineMommy 1852880@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you get answers soon &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852849 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 08:20:06 +0000 snowjewelz 1852849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry to hear :sad: I do hope the RE can lead you guys in the right direction and a positive future!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852792 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 07:52:09 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1852792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LalaLove: :heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852643 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 22:57:11 +0000 LalaLove 1852643@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone :heart: I'm feeling better today. I'm hoping my next step with my RE will give us some answers. Staying positive! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852637 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 22:45:38 +0000 LovelyPlum 1852637@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh my gosh, I am so sorry. One loss is too many, but four? My heart breaks for you. Take care of yourself, and I hope you can get some answers soon :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852069 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 22:57:31 +0000 LAZB 1852069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852068 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 22:55:44 +0000 travelgirl1 1852068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852028 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 21:41:03 +0000 Mrs. J 1852028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1852026 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 21:38:41 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1852026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LalaLove: I'm so very sorry. :crying: I hope that you get answers soon. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851985 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 20:17:40 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1851985@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851976 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 20:08:39 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1851976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851975 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 20:03:03 +0000 blackbird 1851975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851938 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 19:26:16 +0000 LalaLove 1851938@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: Thank you :heart: I started seeing an RE at the end of July. All of our testing came back normal but our insurance won't cover the HSG. Our RE gave us the ok to try this past cycle without the hsg since I had a successful pregnancy in 2012. Now I really want her to take a look at my uterus to see what's going on. Our insurance will cover a hysteroscopy so that's our next step. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851934 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 19:24:02 +0000 Tidybee 1851934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh I hear you. Even though it was my third, I got a bfp only<br /> To think, I wonder how long this one will last. I'm sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851933 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 19:23:05 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 1851933@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851908 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:52:30 +0000 simplyfelicity 1851908@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry, if you are looking for more support, please join us on the "loss" boards if you have not. Once again, I am so sorry. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851903 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:48:56 +0000 regberadaisy 1851903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry, I hope a sticky baby is in your not too distant future! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851884 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:32:24 +0000 dolphin 1851884@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851875 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:24:54 +0000 Glitter 1851875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. That can't be easy to go through. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851858 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:10:34 +0000 Crystal 1851858@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so, so sorry. Big hugs. </p> <p>Are you seeing a specialist? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851857 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:07:26 +0000 LalaLove 1851857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bpcmarj: Thank you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851855 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:03:27 +0000 bpcmarj 1851855@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so so so sorry my friend &lt;3 sending you the biggest hug. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/another-loss#post-1851851 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 18:00:25 +0000 LalaLove 1851851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't believe I'm here again..earlier this week I had what I'm pretty sure was implantation cramps and bleeding. Tuesday night, twice on Wednesday, and twice on Thursday I got bfp's on frer but negatives on every digital I took. I knew it was probably another chemical pregnancy but a small part of me was still optimistic that my levels were just rising a little slow at first and I was going to get a digital bfp by the end of the week. Friday morning and today I took two more frer tests and they were completely negative. There's absolutely no line and it's as if I was never pregnant. If I didn't have my husband confirm every test I took I would honestly think I was seeing things with all of those positives! </p> <p>I'm so frustrated and just tired..Now there's no doubt in my mind that something is wrong. There's no way 4 losses in 15 months is just bad luck. As much as I was trying not to get my hopes up, I really thought next time would work out and now I can't imagine not having a miscarriage. </p> <p>I hate how normal it feels now to get a positive pregnancy test and then know it's not going to result in a baby, and then just move on and try no to think about it and be hopeful for next time. It's all just so strange. </p>