https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 17:47:07 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-852000 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:24:36 +0000 MrsF 852000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We weren't planning on having my mom there for the delivery. I asked her to come in the room just to say hi at one point during my labor. She kept quiet and it was nice to have her there. All the sudden I had the feeling I had to push, a million people ran in the room and, of course, my mom was still there. She was thrilled and of course we didn't care by that point. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851993 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:22:11 +0000 sotofamilia 851993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: Same here - my mom said it was a special time between husband and wife. </p> <p>However, now that I've been through it once, I would love for her to be there during any future births, but like @anutka, she says she doesn't want to because she doesn't think she could handle seeing me in pain. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851985 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:20:57 +0000 2PeasinaPod 851985@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: Same here! My mom would have driven me crazy, and she didn't want to see me in pain. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851974 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:16:45 +0000 Anutka 851974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom was with me for the whole thing and now she says she will never do it again for any of my future births! It was just too much for her to see me in pain apparently. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851901 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:00:38 +0000 Koolbreeze 851901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was pregnant with DS1 people kept telling me I was wrong for not wanting my mom in the room (during pushing, I was ok with others seeing me before that) and my mom was the one to tell me she did not want to be there because it's a special time for me and my SO, not me, my SO and her. I was so glad she felt that way! Because no matter what I was kicking her out before the pushing happened. Haha. With DS2 I wanted her to be with us to help with DS1, but again...not during the pushing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851895 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 15:00:15 +0000 yoursilverlining 851895@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: ditto, in fact that's exactly what my mom said when I asked her if she wanted to be in the room during labor/delivery. She kind of laughed and was like "Umm, no. That's a private moment between you and R!" She was in the waiting room asking the nurses how everything was going every 5 minutes though :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851882 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 14:58:22 +0000 rachiecakes 851882@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: same. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851879 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 14:57:55 +0000 aprk 851879@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She didn't initially, be she ended up being THERE for the whole shebang </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851860 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 14:53:54 +0000 mediagirl 851860@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine. I had no interest in having her in there and she felt the same way. We both feel like it's a private time between the husband and wife (oh and all those doctors and nurses...) </p> <p>BUT, like you, if I wanted or needed her there, she would be there in a heartbeat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anybodys-mom-not-want-to-be-in-the-room-during-birth#post-851847 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 14:52:06 +0000 heffalump 851847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Long before I was pregnant my friend asked her mom to be there during delivery, and my mom told me she wouldn't want to be in there. She told me that again after I was pregnant. It was fine with me, I just wanted DH in there anyway. </p> <p>But I do know that if I really wanted or needed her there she'd be there. And I'm sure she'd love every second of it :) </p>