https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 12 May 2026 18:10:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823702 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 09:27:56 +0000 Sapphiresun 823702@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm 30 weeks and just starting to get really uncomfortable at night. But really I only get up like twice to pee. Usually the second time at around 4am, but sometimes the first, DH will give me a dirty look and tell me he can't sleep when I'm getting up all the time and leave for the guest room. Then I get a little annoyed.<br /> Also, this morning he left at the first pee, but somehow left his alarm set for 5am. So, that went off and I've been awake ever since, even though it's Saturday and we don't have to be up. He's still snoozing away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823653 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 08:45:30 +0000 Foodnerd81 823653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've been pretty lucky so far- plenty of uncomfortable moments, lots of middle of the night bathroom trips, but I still have been sleeping pretty well- actually better than my usual sleep. And Dh has been majorly stressing and studying for a big test, so I cut him some slack. But I'm only 31 weeks- I have a feeling ill be glaring at his peaceful unsuspecting face soon enough. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823644 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 08:41:16 +0000 lemondrop 823644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It gets worse. I hated him with a passion in the early days when he slept and I had night duty with a screaming monster. Now I'm getting more sleep, and I just feel bad for him that he has to work instead of hanging out with our little guy, that I make sure he gets to sleep in a little. He gets up much earlier now too, 8 is sleeping in for us these days! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823639 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 08:36:15 +0000 Bookish 823639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lol yep... I read this post at 4am when my hip pain woke me up. He was snoring away and kept trying to cuddle on me, and I wanted to shove him off the bed :p he's the best husband ever, honestly, but yeah, he sleeps much better than me and I'm a bit pregnant ragey about it!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823571 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:44:36 +0000 Cherrybee 823571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yes, I feel exactly like this!! The thing is, when he is not sleeping, Im furious with him for keeping me awake. The light from his kindle, the sound of him tapping his phone..... but then once he is asleep Im furious with him for being asleep when Im not, for snoring, for stealing the duvet. He can't win, really!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823566 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:40:13 +0000 heffalump 823566@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got annoyed when he slept, pooped (I was constipated), walked normally and didn't waddle. I secretly took everything out on him, but knew it was just my hormones so I didn't say anything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823557 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:35:33 +0000 oliviaoblivia 823557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The best is when he complains about not sleeping. I'm like you did too sleep, I was up all night watching you sleep! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823542 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:13:21 +0000 swedishfish 823542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@deerylou: hahahaha, I love you and I don't even know you! I understand completely. I like the ice cube idea! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823479 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 05:21:05 +0000 hellobeeboston 823479@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yes!! That was the story of my last trimester... DH would occasionally say something like, oh I slept so great last night.... And I would want to kill him. He also snores sometimes so that really helped when I was trying to fall back asleep.</p> <p>Sorry this is happening! I figured it was good training for the baby, and I do think it was. But yeah, totally frustrating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823473 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 05:06:03 +0000 Trailmix 823473@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha! Yes, every night. I've been awake since 5:00 am and want to kick DH, who is sleeping next to me, ugh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-else-annoyed-when-dh-sleeps#post-823462 Sat, 01 Jun 2013 03:30:31 +0000 deerylou 823462@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm currently 35 weeks along, and my sleep is pretty pathetic. My back hurts, regardless of position, and I usually end up with horrific heartburn once I'm laying down. The midnight, BH contractions and karate hour aren't helping, either. Basically, I am no longer comfortable, in any sense of the word. </p> <p>DH will usually follow me to bed once I'm ready to turn in, but he falls into a restful sleep almost immediately. I lay here, tossing and turning, staring at his sleeping face. I kinda want to pinch him, or put ice cubes down his underpants. It's 1:30 am, and we're traveling nearly 2 hours tomorrow morning for a birthday party, so I'm probably not sleeping in.</p> <p>DH is wonderful, and I know he's going to be a huge help once LO is here. However, there is a dramatic, ridiculous part of me that feels he should be dealing with these sleepless nights right along with me - keep me company, rub my back, etc. I've worked full-time my entire pregnancy, so it's not like he's the only one putting in long hours, and I have the luxurious option of napping, mid-morning. </p> <p>Ugh. Anyone else? </p>