https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 29 Apr 2026 19:51:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent/page/2#post-2743658 Mon, 05 Jun 2017 07:37:55 +0000 YogiBeachWife 2743658@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: Thx, I will this week. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent/page/2#post-2743641 Mon, 05 Jun 2017 06:25:41 +0000 Ajsmommy 2743641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@gingerbebe: my most hated thing in life!! The dentist. I seriously can't do it. Last time I went (over 2 years ago.. gulp) they said I should have a root canal and cap put on one of my teeth that has old "work" on it bc the work is breaking down. which makes total sense but it's not bothering me yet so I haven't done it.. and no plans to do it either. Gahhh, I just hate the dentist so much. Why do they have to pick and poke so much? and why is there always some HUGE expensive work that needs to be done??? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent/page/2#post-2743520 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 14:48:40 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2743520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: email me if you want <a href="mailto:kari@karireneephotography.com">kari@karireneephotography.com</a> 😊 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743515 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 14:21:43 +0000 YogiBeachWife 2743515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: I'll be 33 in July and this will be my first baby. I currently see a CNMW so I'm not even sure if she is going to want me to speak with an OB first or what. Should I skip past the OB? I feel clueless and this whole process makes me so overwhelmed. I just read through some of your threads/posts. How are you doing? Sending you much luck!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743494 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 11:54:01 +0000 Beth24 2743494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SweetiePie: yeah...luckily I get along really well with both of them but looks like they'll be staying with us at least a month or two and I'm used to their visits only being a week at most. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743492 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 11:43:55 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2743492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: How old are you? I know short luteal phase is an easy thing to address with an RE. You will definitely want to discuss that with them. Your variation in cycles might be an issue as well, but most likely an easy fix. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743476 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 08:48:06 +0000 SweetiePie 2743476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beth24: Holy crap. Maternity leave with MIL and her BF sounds dreadful. 😣 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743465 Sun, 04 Jun 2017 04:54:34 +0000 YogiBeachWife 2743465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: Not really. I chart my cycles and I do O with a sastained rise. I've had blood work done and confirmed O, everything looks good. The only thing I notice is I have a short LP, 10 days. My cycles are also vary 29-42 days. If this cycle is a bfn I'm going to a RE for more testing and DH will get a SA. We upped our BD this cycle and started acupuncture. I'll test in a week or so. The wait is killing me! 🤞🏼 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743458 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 23:15:31 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2743458@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: do you have an infertility diagnosis? Sorry you're struggling. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743447 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 21:04:42 +0000 Beth24 2743447@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Splurged on some family pics that happened today. DD1 (almost 3) pretty much screamed and cried the whole time refusing to face forward and hysterical if she had to be close to her baby sister. Not at all how I imagined those going and certainly not how the pics on my Pinterest board look like :silly: I also have my MIL and her husband living with us until they buy a house. They decided to move to our town from out of state to be closer to the kids. Love the extra help but I'm on maternity leave and it really kinda sucks now having 2 more people to clean up after. I also just want to enjoy my last few weeks before going back to work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743443 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 20:22:17 +0000 gingerbebe 2743443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'll play. 3 hours at the dentist today, $1750 gone, and $6800 worth of work strongly suggested to be done soon by the dentist. And I can't eat anything because everything is too sore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743418 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 17:06:18 +0000 YogiBeachWife 2743418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pajamas: @Bibliolove: Thanks for much, hugs right back atcha. It really is tough. I'm so tired of being disappointed every month but somehow still remain optimistic. Congrats on your babies. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743412 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 15:47:46 +0000 Bibliolove 2743412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: hugs, it's so tough. We started Aug of 2015 and in that timeframe my sister and SIL all got pregnant​ with babies. It took us until January of 2017 til I finally got a positive! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743391 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 11:47:15 +0000 gingerbebe 2743391@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: um I think that means you dump the vomiting child on top of him in bed. What a dick! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743385 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:36:34 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2743385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: I have so been in your shoes before. All the hugs lady! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743345 Sat, 03 Jun 2017 02:17:14 +0000 Cherrybee 2743345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can I vent please? I started a new job a month ago. My old job was really flexible and I worked from home regularly (but I was really bored and demotivated). I used to take a two hour nap every lunchtime when I worked from home! My new job is less flexible - which I LOVE because it means I don't get lumbered with all pick up/drop offs - but I'm absolutely, completely worn out! If I'm not working, I'm parenting. I haven't had a single nap or even an hour off in a month.... and I can't see the opportunity presenting itself any time soon. And I can't vent to my husband because he didn't know I used to take naps when I worked from home (hahaha) and because this is just what everyone else has to deal with 😂</p> <p>My DH has had the last week off work because he needed a break. It happened to coincide with the half term week (schools shut) so we paid for additional full time childcare for E so he could have said break. He was grumpy that he had to get out of bed every morning to drop the kids to childcare but that's just life.... Anyway, today (it's Sat morning here) he is claiming his lie in..... and E has come down with a vomiting bug. I'm juggling a 14 month old who is just learning to walk with a vomiting almost-4 year old solo because he is lying in bed looking at his phone.... So I just went up and asked him to help and he's in a huge sulk about the injustice of his life. </p> <p>So, yeah... Same old story here. 😂 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743342 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 21:31:54 +0000 gingerbebe 2743342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: haha I told my husband what I said and he was like "What, you'd hang up on my for saying I want to go golfing?" I said "No that would be 1/3 of the way through the sentence - I want to go golfing. Halfway through the sentence would be I want to go on a golfing trip with my buddies. You'd be like 'from Thurs- hello? Hello?' "</p> <p>He laughed and suggested that you let him go the whole time but bring your kids and crash the party like "oh this isn't a family vacation?" He was like "a week trip means EVERYONE is going." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743340 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 21:02:42 +0000 nana87 2743340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@avivoca: uggggh that sucks! I wasn't actually even going to go to this wedding before the groom asked dh to be a groomsman but felt like I had to once he did. But then my parents also offered to come with and watch the girls when I was talking to them about not knowing what to do-- totally above and beyond! I'm also confused about why all the destinations we have weddings in this summer are so hard/$$$$ to get to-- we're in NYC for goodness sake, there are lots of airports here! 🙄 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743337 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 20:48:22 +0000 avivoca 2743337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@nana87: I'm right there with you. My husband is a groomsman in a wedding on Father's Day weekend and I couldn't go because the wedding is super hard to get to and plane tickets are $$$. Plus if I brought even one kid, I would be the only one wrangling and I know next to nobody other than the. Ride and groom. So he's going and because of his work travel, it means I won't see him for 20 or so days and I'm super bitter about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743336 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 20:25:54 +0000 Eko 2743336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am 10 weeks pregnant and nauseous and tired all the time. Chasing after my 2 yo doesn't help and I'm solo parenting a lot these days as DH is doing a lot of house stuff that needs to get done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743333 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 20:09:22 +0000 Ajsmommy 2743333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@gingerbebe: Oh how I wish I could show dh your thoughts without him knowing I was "venting" about him on the interwebs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743319 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 18:53:57 +0000 YogiBeachWife 2743319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Dahlia: Thanks, I hope so too. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743316 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 18:49:14 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 2743316@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm having lots of painful baby movement and Braxton hicks tonight. I just want to sit around and do nothing! But DH is at work for another hour and it's time to start DD's bedtime routine and the pack for an overnight trip this weekend. Time to mom up I guess. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743315 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 18:34:56 +0000 gingerbebe 2743315@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: Um, if my husband tried to say something ridiculous like "I want to go on a golfing trip from Thursday to Monday" he wouldn't get halfway through that sentence before he heard a click, dial tone. Is he insane? He better be coordinating family members, sitters, or Mommy' helpers to be coming for any weekend gone. Nope nope nope. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743300 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 17:29:12 +0000 Littlebit7 2743300@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm working tomorrow, I'm 11 weeks pregnant and want to barf all over, I have commitments for almost every other hour this weekend AND DH just told me that he might have to go to Europe next week. Argh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743293 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 17:20:05 +0000 Dahlia 2743293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@YogiBeachWife: You're welcome to vent here! I hope you get your baby soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743290 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 17:14:27 +0000 nana87 2743290@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm annoyed about some of our summer trip planning: we just decided we can't make my friends' wedding next month because of the cost and logistics (it's across the country and flights are $$$ and at terrible times). Yet, we're planning on going to a wedding of dh's friend (dh is a groomsman) plus he's going to the bachelor party, both also out of state and in hard to get to places, albeit shorter distance. It's not really an equal situation at all since dh is a groomsman and much closer to that groom than I am to the other couple. But, it just goes into some resentment I have/me feeling like we often make more of an effort w dh's friends than mine. Like, with our wedding I regret not inviting more of my friends-- I have a far far far larger extended family so I cut my friends to keep our numbers slightly more equal, and in retrospect I shouldn't have. Oh well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743285 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 17:03:57 +0000 Ajsmommy 2743285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes please!!! So dh is planning a golf trip with his buddies.... Some are single no kids and one has older kids. We have a 3 mos old and a 3.5 yo. And I woh full time. Anyway first he says it's Thursday through Sunday so I say ok. Not thrilled but I'll survive. Well the next day he comes back and says some of the guys are going Monday through Sunday- basically all week. I say no way so dh said Thursday - Monday and again I said no. I just don't want to face Monday morning solo. I'll have to be late for work in order to do drop off and quite frankly I feel that three nights and 4 days is plenty for him to be gone. I'm so mad bc he got so pissed and acts like I'm being irrational for not just allowing him to go as he wants </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743276 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 16:29:37 +0000 youboots 2743276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have to move out of our house for a week starting Thursday and DH has to travel during that time so I'll be solo parenting DD away from home alone and will have the dogs while DH is 5 hours away. Boo. Not excited. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/anyone-want-to-vent#post-2743273 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 16:22:35 +0000 Anagram 2743273@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Chuckles: I'm not pregnant! So I don't think it's pupps. I've been to 3 doctors now and still no firm answers. I had a biopsy, which was inconclusive and now they sent my skin tissue to Brigham and Women's in MA for second opinion. But I still haven't heard back, and I'm desperate, so now I have the NYU appointment Tuesday.</p> <p>I just want answers and a CURE, stat. I'm miserable. </p>