https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 13 May 2026 09:19:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101750 Mon, 26 Mar 2012 07:27:05 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 101750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sweetchic: aw! you are too sweet. thanks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101437 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:29:57 +0000 Meridian 101437@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blushink: When I met you, I remember thinking that you were sooo pretty! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101345 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 10:33:39 +0000 ecogirl 101345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha :) This post is funny! I hope I'm a MILF! ;) At first when I began socializing with my husbands friends I was very insecure since they all looked so beautiful and put together all the time. I went through a stage where I tried to constantly improve myself to try to reach some goal I had in my mind. I had breast implants done and a nose job and then when I was looking into a different surgery my husband put his foot down and said no more. I'm happy for that and now I just exercise every single day and stay toned and healthy. Of course I love my heels and make up and jewelry too haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101270 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 08:43:03 +0000 erwoo 101270@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL! Far from it but I do try to shower as soon as I wake up (not sure how that's going to go after #2 comes though :P). And I do try to at least put a little powder on my face and fill in my eye brows so I look half-decent. I definitely don't "dress up" as much as I used to and wear easily washable clothes just in case my son gets it dirty. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101260 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 08:14:50 +0000 pastemoo 101260@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DigAPony: LOL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101186 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 03:59:29 +0000 DigAPony 101186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a fan of the term MILF. While I understand the desire to remain attractive after having children, from a feminist--and just plain human--perspective, I find it disturbing to want to be seen as someone who men (and particularly teenage boys, if we look at the context in which that term became popular) would want to f---. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101184 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 02:33:33 +0000 pastemoo 101184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hah. This is a pet peeve of mine. I don't think you get to be a MILF 'till your kids are teens. MILF is defined by your kids generation not your own.</p> <p>My best friend's mom was a MILF when we were teens, but she really tried to dress in a certain attention getting way. My mom was never a MILF even though she's gorgeous because she always dressed... old--stylish, but old. She did not update with the times.</p> <p>I hope that in 14 years, I am a MILF; but right now, I think that no matter how hard I try, I'm just too young for the role. And it's possible that I get stuck liking my leggings and skinny jeans (my predictions is these will be the new mom pants in 15 years), so I may be doomed to just being a regular mom. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101148 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 22:15:15 +0000 His Barista 101148@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@daniellemybelle: I have just been breast feeding and doing house work. : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-101144 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 22:04:03 +0000 daniellemybelle 101144@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not even a mom and I'm frumpy. :( When I get dressed up and wear makeup, I get catcalled, but I think that happens to pretty much any lady in lipstick and heels. I haven't been hot in a while because I gained a ton of weight and I have no desire to make an effort. I want to change that though! If I'm this frumpy now, it's going to be a sh!tshow when I'm a mom.</p> <p>@His Barista: Dude, that is awesome that you are 13 pounds lighter than you were before baby! Gives me hope that once I have a baby I don't have to be officially A Fat Lady. What'd you do? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100922 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 10:54:24 +0000 sulli301 100922@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I usually feel kinda frumpy at home :/ Even if I am wearing jeans &amp; a cute top I just don't feel like I did pre-baby. I usually rock a little make-up, straighten or blow out my hair &amp; wear something nicer whenever I go out (or at least I try to), so I hope I look nice! I feel like I MILF whenever I wear heels, at least to my husband I am &amp; that is what really counts ;) I think after baby #2, whenever that may be, I will get more into getting my cute little body 100% back &amp; not the 75% back it is now... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100913 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 09:54:31 +0000 Cchoi4 100913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>lordy. I sometimes don't brush my teeth and wash my face until noon! My hair has broken off in the front within recent months so now it sticks straight up. Definitely not a MILF on most days. When LO sleeps/naps well, I can get in a good shower and put my makeup on...then I feel pretty cute. But most of the time, NO. I'm hoping that will change soon....mommy needs a new wardrobe though...most pre-baby clothes don't fit or just don't sit right anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100844 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 08:00:09 +0000 heffalump 100844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Today I am! Unfortunately I'm dressed up to go to a funeral. Every other day, no way. Dressing up for me is putting on jeans and some blush. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100833 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 07:23:57 +0000 volksgirl64 100833@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had our wedding 2 years after DD was born, so you can believe I worked HARD to make sure I was a MILF that day!</p> <p>I'm pregnant now, but pre-preg. I tried to make sure I looked good most days, doing my hair &amp; make up. After I got laid off I didn't do make up every day anymore but now that I'm back to work I'm back in the routine. Except for weekends unless we're going out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100773 Sat, 24 Mar 2012 01:05:41 +0000 cupcakemama 100773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I sure hope so! I try to look nice but some days it's just all too hard. DH says I am his MILF. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100739 Fri, 23 Mar 2012 22:28:55 +0000 His Barista 100739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think so. Haha. My dh always tells me I look great and most people say they wouldn't know I just had a baby. I am actually down an extra 13 pounds more than I was prepregnancy so I got to go shopping for a couple new outfits and that helped my confidence. I think the confidence is a big.part of it. : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-100733 Fri, 23 Mar 2012 22:23:07 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 100733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Funny thing about that.... a friend of mine got me a cardigan that says "MILF" on it for a baby shower gift - LOL! I was pretty embarassed by it. </p> <p>Pre-baby, I was very athletic and had nice, perky boobs. Post baby, I'm more like a slob and my boobs are sagging out of control. At least my hubby likes to say I'm a MILF - makes me think I still have *something* left :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8847 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 12:09:35 +0000 LivsMama 8847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL this post is funny. I was determined to not be one of those new moms who didnt shower frequently (like every other day minimum) and I didnt want to be in PJs or yoga pants every day. So I MAKE myself "dress up" most days. Im not talking dress clothes, but at least jeans and cute flats or heels/shirt/cardigan, etc. So I feel like a MILF =o) lll do the occasional yoga pants/gym clothes days, but I will always wear makeup and have ok hair. I sound so conceited, but I dont mean to come across that way. It just makes me feel better </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8814 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:19:38 +0000 Rubies 8814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Yin: I know! People come to our door and ask for my parents, too! And I guess it doesn't help that I have a young-sounding voice, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8813 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:18:21 +0000 Rubies 8813@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I want to be a MILF - but it's hard to be one when you look like crap all day. My BIL said he was going to dress up as ME for Halloween ("how do you get your eyes to be so dark?") - scary!</p> <p>Even pre-baby, I wasn't MILF-material. I have a babyface and always got the "aw, you're so cute" comment. Psh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8812 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:17:56 +0000 yin 8812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I stay comfy at home, and I'm usually too lazy to make myself look nice when I go out in public. I do have a problem with people thinking that I'm still a kid. *sigh* I don't think I can ever be considered a MILF only because no one can even see me as being over 18 or 21. I've had 2 people ring my doorbell asking for my parents. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8798 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:08:38 +0000 HLK208 8798@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! At least not on most days - I wear mostly yoga pants at home, easy to play with the LO, then by the end of the day I'll do my at home yoga so I really don't change lol. Hey, at least DH says my bum looks pretty great in yoga pants!</p> <p>If I want to get dressed up for date night, I think I can clean up well. I definitely don't look like the same person pre-children. I don't spend hundreds of dollars on highlighting my hair every month like I use to, my wardrobe is a quarter of the size than it use to be and I'm not as tanned/toned as I was back in the day.</p> <p>I do hope when my children are past the age of 5, I can revert back to my old ways. I would like to get a mommy make-over (tummy tuck &amp; breast lift) ...someday! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8662 Thu, 03 Nov 2011 08:07:44 +0000 looch 8662@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I so want to be a MILF, but I am in pajamas most days. I do make an effort when I have to go somewhere, though. I was telling my husband a few weeks postpartum that I had fantasies of a cooler, more fashionable version of myself, complete with longer hair, who wore dangling earrings, awesome make up and a specific outfit (turquoise tunic with white jeans and gold beaded sandals, don't ask where that came from). He thought I was nuts, but it's something that I can't really explain. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8517 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 21:00:03 +0000 singingbee 8517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just have to let you know this post made me smile! Isn't funny how things come about? Like, who would have ever come up with this phrase before American Pie. </p> <p>I'm not a mom yet and while I don't know if I would want MILF status, I know I'd like to think that I can be presentable in public. We will have to wait and see on that one. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8486 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 20:21:46 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 8486@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I still get picked up even in frumpy clothes so does that count. Two of my guy friends clearly told me I'm a Milf. Maybe they were just trying to make me smile ;) </p> <p>But in general I wear jeans, runners and makeup. Nothing very sexy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8481 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 20:02:08 +0000 Andrea 8481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so not since I work at home and am too lazy to dress up anymore. The only reason why I make a slight effort is that I have to go pick up my daughter from day care and don't want her teachers to think I am a complete bum. But high emphasis on the word slight! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8363 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 17:00:47 +0000 Red 8363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm far from being a MILF but I'm actually taking more interest in my looks now than I did before I had her. In the early days, I made the effort to change out of my pajamas and put makeup on just so I didn't feel like a milk factory all day long but now, I'm just determined not to walk down the road to mom-jeans. That being said, I'm definitely not rocking the latest fashions (cause who has time to shop?), just trying to stay away from leaving the house with sweats. At home, however, comfy clothes all the way :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8346 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 16:26:39 +0000 mediagirl 8346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HAHA! No. I have never been super into my appearance. I just recently started wearing make-up because I'm getting some blotchy spots on my face. I prefer comfort to hotness. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8345 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 16:24:01 +0000 chopsuey 8345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>lol. I'm frumpy when I'm at home. When I go to the market or step out with the family I dress up, throw on the heels and try to look good.<br /> I'm a MILF to my husband. That's all that matters, right? ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-a-milf#post-8341 Wed, 02 Nov 2011 16:21:03 +0000 Mrs. Bee 8341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've always wanted to be a MILF, but alas I am a frumpy mom that wears pajamas all day. Since I work from home, there really is no reason for me to dress up day to day. Being a mom of two and I'm lucky just to get a shower! But when I do go out, I think I can still get dressed up as well as the rest of them. I just can't wear heels anymore (they take practice!), and I have less clothes since I buy more clothes for Charlie than I do myself.</p> <p>Are you a MILF? How much of your pre baby style have you preserved? </p>