https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 03 May 2026 18:18:05 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160859 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:21:36 +0000 anonysquire 1160859@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: Ya I would be done with her. If she wants to complain tell her she hurts your feelings when she always says no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160842 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:08:16 +0000 LindsayInNY 1160842@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: Haha, nice! I can relate... I bring lunch to work every day. But, I know that if I turn coworkers down for lunch enough, they'll stop inviting me. On occasion I'll buy lunch too but usually I just talk a walk with as they buy food and then we'll eat together. It gets me out of the office and doesn't get me disinvited! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160840 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:06:49 +0000 babycanuck 1160840@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: I totally just took them off the evite, so if they try to go back and change things they're going to have to email me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160838 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:04:44 +0000 LindsayInNY 1160838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Stop inviting her. If she calls you out, tell her why. It's kinda common sense - if you never accept, people stop inviting you! Shouldn't be a huge surprise to her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160837 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:02:47 +0000 babycanuck 1160837@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: Totally. I think I'm at a point in my life where if you're not going to make an effort, I'm done. It's harsh but I think it needs to happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160832 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 14:00:12 +0000 anonysquire 1160832@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Always! I am always the one apologizing and when people do worse things to me they get away with no apology and expect me to apologize. I do not get it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-always-the-bigger-person#post-1160824 Sat, 19 Oct 2013 13:55:34 +0000 babycanuck 1160824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a couple of friends...but one in particular who gets pissed off when she's not invited out, but when she is, says no immediately.</p> <p>I'm a bit tired of being the bigger person and just inviting her to celebrations and stuff, but I feel like if I don't things will just get worse than they already are. I just sent an invite for a holiday party and right away she responded "no but thanks." I'm *so* tempted not to invite her to anything anymore.</p> <p>Do you find yourself being the bigger person more often than not? </p>