https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 29 Apr 2026 17:00:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285782 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 08:58:15 +0000 Lozza 285782@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really... I mean, I might underplay how often I hit up Starbucks, or how many books I buy, but he doesn't actually care about that stuff beyond an eye-rolling sort of way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285743 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 08:43:51 +0000 Mrs.B 285743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't tell him about everything I buy when I go shopping but in my defense we have a joint account and we both have seperate accounts. The $ that goes into our seperate accounts is our fun money so he doesn't really care and I don't usually tell him about my purchases unless I got a really good deal on something. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285730 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 08:38:55 +0000 LuLu Mom 285730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Gifts and if my shopping gets a little out of control I try to keep it a secret until he asks me about bank transactions (dang joint checking/online banking.) Otherwise we are very open and honest about everything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285660 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 08:10:12 +0000 prettylizy 285660@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't advertise when I shop. We have joint everything so it's not like he can't see it if he looks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285653 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 08:07:38 +0000 Mrs.Ham 285653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coco Bee: I used to hide $ too, but I always felt like I couldn't spend it. Finally I told DH and we went on a nice date together!</p> <p>I am terrible at keeping anything from the Mr. Even if I stop at Starbucks, I feel like I should tell him! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285466 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 00:21:24 +0000 mynoahbear 285466@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: that just happened to my LO this week. I really thought about not telling DH but I felt guilty so I sent him a text telling him she fell off our bed. After he asked if she was ok, he sent me a lecture by text telling me I should be more careful and maybe I should go to bed earlier since I dozed off while playing with her on the bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285461 Fri, 07 Sep 2012 00:14:04 +0000 Mrs. Pen 285461@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't tell him when I eat/buy yummy food while he's at work!! he gets jealous... but I'm awful at destroying the evidence. He was sad I ate chipotle today... I forgot to take out the garbage.. oops!!</p> <p>I also "forget" to tell him when I go shopping. </p> <p>I hide tiny amount of money around the house until it accumulates and then I go shopping... hahahaha he's always like, "where did this money come from?!" lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285443 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 23:53:56 +0000 BSB 285443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a secret baby stash. He thinks it's one or two items. Shhh, it's like 10 items, now, and growing...</p> <p>I do make and handle the money in my house so it's not that big of a deal. I'm not buying huge $$$ items like cribs. It's just little stuff like a onsies or a cute toy. Things I find on Zulliy or Woot for a great price. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285437 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 23:49:57 +0000 Andrea 285437@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285028 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:56:36 +0000 chopsuey 285028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: nope! if he doesn't want to know it's all good!<br /> @mrsjyw: i keep some family details on the DL too. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285024 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:55:40 +0000 chopsuey 285024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: Ugh. I couldn't even keep his birthday gift a surprise.. :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285023 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:55:36 +0000 mrsjyw 285023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, only surprises for gifts. Sometimes I don't tell him things about my parents finances, etc. (I take care of it for them logistically not with $$) because I don't want them to feel bad and he doesn't need to know anyway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285015 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:54:58 +0000 Rubies 285015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not secrets, per se, but I've kept details from SO but only because he just didn't want to know. I still feel the need to tell him but I just don't. Is that bad? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285009 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:54:20 +0000 heffalump 285009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only his birthday present. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-you-keeping-any-secrets-from-your-so#post-285005 Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:53:17 +0000 chopsuey 285005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I kept one secret from him for many months. Couldn't stand it anymore so I had to tell him. HAHA</p> <p>Secret was that LO fell off our bed while he was out of town. :P<br /> I think I told him 6 months later.<br /> Haaaaaaaah. I so crazy. </p>