https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 16:58:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671543 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 16:27:59 +0000 Pepper 671543@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I deal with it now, DH deals with it later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671494 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 16:03:45 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 671494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is deal with now. I am more like here's what I want to talk about, so what's the best time to chat. Every time he says Now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671465 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 15:42:33 +0000 Ra 671465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH deals with it now and I deal with it later. If I am pissed I need time to cool off. It drives me absolutely crazy that he won't just leave it alone. When we argue, he wants it resolved immediately. It is frustrating for both of us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671420 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 15:12:03 +0000 .twist. 671420@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I deal with it now and he deals with it later. </p> <p>It's taught both of us to ease up a little. I've learned to give him more space and he's learned to come to me sooner rather than later about issues. It's amazing how we've grown. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671406 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 15:03:35 +0000 babycanuck 671406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happens with him about EVERYTHING...he was like "oh, circumcision decision for a boy? I'm not talking about it until we're ready to get pregnant". </p> <p>or</p> <p>"You lost something in the house? I'm going to wait until you lose something else and then I'm going to blow up and not talk to you for three weeks."</p> <p>men! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671383 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 14:53:32 +0000 illumina 671383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Somewhere in the middle... I guess it depends how urgent the issue is. Assuming it's not make a decision this minute, it could be the same day or in a day or so. I like to talk things out at the time... though I do tend to speak as I'm thinking so it can come out a bit jumbled. DH prefers a bit of time to mull things over, so if we speak about it a bit later it makes for a better discussion. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671357 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 14:44:39 +0000 Reese 671357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Same.. I am a "deal with it now" type and DH prefers time to let it simmer and clear his head... I don't think it helps that I like to beat a dead horse..multiple..times.. so when it starts he knows he is in it for the long haul :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671350 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 14:43:29 +0000 Bookish 671350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: same! lol! I have to argue or deal with things right then, and DH will definitely simmer or try to put things off. He doesn't blow up too often but whoaa when he does. It's gotten better lately, but yeah, we definitely have opposite styles of dealing with things! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/are-youyour-so-a-deal-with-it-now-person-or-deal-with-it-later-person#post-671339 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 14:38:52 +0000 babycanuck 671339@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am a deal with it now and talk it out person. My DH on the other hand is "let's decide when we get there" or allowing things to bottle up and talk about it when he blows up. He's gotten better since we moved in together, but still has a long way to go at expressing himself.</p> <p>What is your relationship like? </p>