https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 15:11:20 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155570 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:55:33 +0000 LuLu Mom 155570@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A couple hours, I usually sleep on it and wake up and we apologize and work it through in the morning when tempers are down! We both have notoriously bad tempers and are stubborn...bad combination during a fight when no one wants to give in! haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155511 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:30:35 +0000 Modern Daisy 155511@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It usually gets diffused before it boils into a full blown argument, but probably like once or twice a year an issue we argued over doesn't get resolved that day and it will linger for a while. We eventually come to a resolution though, nothing has ever gone unresolved. But it's not like we aren't speaking to each other until it's resolved, we just put it on the back burner for a few days until it bubbles up again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155434 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:05:56 +0000 Andrea 155434@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We don't usually argue per se. It is just usually me telling him he is wrong and him trying to deny it until he finally says sorry. It just happened this morning! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155433 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:05:38 +0000 mrsjyw 155433@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: was going to get one at lunch today, but forgot i have lunch plans with an old friend! :P i'm sure dh will offer sometime this wknd, he felt so bad last night :T </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155431 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:04:35 +0000 chopsuey 155431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: BUMMER! Get one today! :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155429 Fri, 11 May 2012 09:04:00 +0000 chopsuey 155429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We haven't argued in forever, but we usually get over it really quickly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155354 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:34:23 +0000 mrsjyw 155354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: oh yes. there's one by my work and by the house! i probably shouldn't eat it, but it's my one preggo-nono that i've had 1x so far... and really wanted last night :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155346 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:31:59 +0000 mediagirl 155346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: OH MY GOD you have a Potbelly's near you. I am so very jealous. Yes, this has nothing to do with arguments but I couldn't help mentioning it. That used to be my go-to lunch when I worked in DC. :) Sorry you didn't get your shake and pickle. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155345 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:31:11 +0000 hilsy85 155345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Usually over within an hour as well, like @mrsjyw. That's because DH cannot stand having unresolved conflict though and will not rest until we work things out. We also rarely have big fights--usually they're about silly things that we realize are silly within a short amount of time. The larger disagreements aren't fights--more discussions that happen over the course of a few days. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155313 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:19:38 +0000 mrsjyw 155313@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>mmm usually it's over within the hour.</p> <p>like last night, when he grocery shopped too long, so potbelly's was closed by the time he got done, and i was crabby about not getting my pickle and oreo shake :(</p> <p>sometimes it's a day or two. we're cordial, but still need some time before we make up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155308 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:17:17 +0000 heffalump 155308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww hope you can work it out soon, arguing is no fun! We've had arguments that last a couple of days too. They're rare, but they happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155300 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:13:28 +0000 mediagirl 155300@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: that's weird, the same thing happened with my in-laws and my husband had the same reaction!! He was mad that they stayed together. I think his point was, you put yourselves and us through all that stress for nothing. Thanks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155293 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:10:47 +0000 sorrycharlie 155293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>ugh. we've been arguing for the last couple months, really..not about the same thing but just generally. he's been in a funk since his parents almost split in december (believe it or not, he got madder when they stayed together..confused). I think he's taking it out on me instead of his mom (who he can't stand). </p> <p>I also think he's stressed about baby, breadwinner, etc..just not the best way to deal with it, HONEY! lol! sheesh, I'm stressed too!</p> <p>I lurk on WB and saw a thread over there about being pregnant and annoyed with spouse. I was so glad I'm not the only one! Haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/arguments-with-your-significant-other#post-155283 Fri, 11 May 2012 08:07:00 +0000 mediagirl 155283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What is the longest you have gone in an argument/fight with your significant other?</p> <p>I may or may not be dealing with an argument from yesterday that stemmed into another argument today with my own. Hrmph. That's what we get for not working the first one out.... </p>