https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 03 Jun 2026 22:06:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-97089 Mon, 19 Mar 2012 20:49:28 +0000 StbHisMrs 97089@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Think ahead is my best advice, you'll need more in the first few months and it goes fast!!! </p> <p>A jumperoo is great, as is a walker (if you don't have multiple levels/stairs) toys for different ages are great to have on hand to.</p> <p>I loved our swing for the 1st 4 months now at 5 months she barely uses it. I looked for one that plugs in versus one that eats batteries up. We chose a fisher price zen swing, also bought a matching vibrating seat.</p> <p>I love our Becco Gemini and swaddle me blankets were a sleep savior ;)</p> <p>Oh if you formula feed the Dr. Brown's formula pitcher really cuts down on bubbles.<br /> I'm sure I'll think if more </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96198 Mon, 19 Mar 2012 07:32:33 +0000 Mrsbells 96198@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I followed the Hellobee guides for new born essentials and added a few things that werent really essentials but i wanted to have them, I'm due in 4 weeks and so far I have</p> <p>crib + mattress + mattress cover + sheets<br /> Dresser<br /> changing table<br /> Baby bath tub<br /> Hooded towel + wash cloth<br /> Rectal Thermometer<br /> Nose frida snotsucker<br /> Nail clippers<br /> Car seat + stroller<br /> Sling<br /> Nursing cover<br /> ergo baby carrier + insert<br /> diaper pail (which is really a step trash can from walmart)<br /> washable Pail liners<br /> Diaper bag<br /> Breast pump<br /> Playtex nursers drop in bottles and inserts<br /> Crib mobile<br /> clothes in sizes ranging 3-9months<br /> Baby shampoo<br /> Baby body lotion<br /> Bottom balm diaper ointment</p> <p>The last things I need are my cloth diaper stash, diaper sprayer, wipes and a little bit of soy formula just in case </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96164 Mon, 19 Mar 2012 05:28:15 +0000 SugarplumsMom 96164@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're in the same boat! It can get pretty overwhelming but just as PP said, it's a lot easier to figure out once you shop for your lifestyle in mind. I'm pretty practical and avoided all cute toys and accessories that are non-essential, with the exception of a few sweet socks and hair-ties for at home photo props. </p> <p>HB has a lot of essential lists that are really helpful (which a few of ppl have already linked). As for my own particular "needs" - I'm focusing on convenience on a budget, and if I can, I'll try to avoid over-stimulation (developmental toys with lots of lights, bells and whistles, though a lot of Mom's swear by them). Like @Looch I also stayed away from a swing, my grandmother bought us a newborn bouncer but if I can get away with just using it as baby lounge chair, I will.</p> <p>I'm the type to want to be prepared beforehand, especially since I live abroad and the local selection is extremely limited and will cost at least 3x the price. BUT, I realized that I can't buy everything in advance (like baby bottles). The baby bottle starter sets are by far the cheapest deal you can find -- but I've taken the advice of veteran Moms and only bought singles. Baby might not take that kind of bottle/nipple and you don't want to end up with a bunch of bottles you can't use.</p> <p>My newest obsession are baby sheets. I'm trying to find the most convenient alternative that will result in less of a headache to change and wash. I found these: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/QuickZip-Crib-Sheet-Set-Sage/dp/B000XVA0KG/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1332152556&amp;sr=1-1">Quickzip sheet set</a> they look great! But the design I like is discontinued and they don't sell them in Europe, so I'd have to have my Mom ship them over. I'm not sure if I want to go through the hassle. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96152 Mon, 19 Mar 2012 02:20:56 +0000 looch 96152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Stay away from all online registries if you want to follow a minimalist approach! Moms that have BTDT are the best resource, but needs differ because of cloth/disposable diapers, formula/breastfeeding, attachment parenting, etc.</p> <p>We had a swing but barely used it because I didn't want my son to become dependent on motion for sleep. That can be a tough habit to break. It is useful to have a place to put the baby when they're small and you need a break, so you've got to balance your priorities. I'd take a look at gently used items if you've got a reputable resale store near you. I wish I went that route. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96067 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 21:48:43 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 96067@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, and if you don't want to leave the house, Amazon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96057 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 21:02:10 +0000 cupcakemama 96057@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>somewhere to sleep, somewhere to bath,, something to feed , nappies, something to put them in in the car, something to transport them in, clothes</p> <p>I'm being a pest about it but it really gets complicated fast with all the stuff you "have to have". Babies actually don't need that much. Parents, on the other hand...</p> <p>Start with the big stuff and decide what is important for you for each thing. (eg are you planning on walking lots with baby so need a good stroller to walk with). Then decide on which product from there.</p> <p> I would aim towards the minimilist approach before baby arrives( apart from basics!). You have no idea what you will want/need. The stores will still be open after Bub arrives and you will be able to leave the house </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96044 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 20:25:35 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 96044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>These were my faves:</p> <p><a href="http://www.hellobee.com/2011/12/27/baby-gear-my-top-10/" rel="nofollow">http://www.hellobee.com/2011/12/27/baby-gear-my-top-10/</a></p> <p>When all else fails, I sorted Amazon items by rating and picked one of the top ones if it seemed to make sense. I second "Baby Bargains" as a resource, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96036 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 19:55:00 +0000 heffalump 96036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I also looked on different lists online. Different people and babies like different things though. If you get a swing I suggest one that goes front to back and side to side, and that you can plug in. My lo didn't like front to back so we had to buy side.to side, and it uses tons of batteries. </p> <p>We picked a tub that looked comfy but wouldn't mildew, and it grows with the baby. There's an infant insert that's soft and then you can take that out and it's a tiny tub.</p> <p>Lo loves her jumparoo, lots of people have and love the fisherprice rain forest one.</p> <p>I love having the pack n play for when I do things in the kitchen so lo can play.</p> <p>Hope that helps a little, baby things are so overwhelming! I brought my mom with me to register but everything is so different from when she had kids so that wasn't much help. Do you know a newer mom who can go with you? I'm happy to answer any questions! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-96008 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 18:07:58 +0000 skibobrown 96008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My go-to for figuring out baby must-haves was Lucie's List:<br /> <a href="http://www.lucieslist.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.lucieslist.com/</a><br /> I found a lot of the advice to be practical (with a sense of humor). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-95994 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 17:11:46 +0000 regberadaisy 95994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not a mom yet but expecting our first. It is quite overwhelming but the list is so subjective.</p> <p>I think you can look on "registry recommendation" lists and widdle it down based on your lifestyle.<br /> ie I don't plan on ever using a bassinet. And we are using a dresser with a diaper changing pad on top. But really even that is not a "must".<br /> A breast pump is only a must if you plan to BF and are successful and need it when you go back to work. Or for convenience. I don't plan on purchasing one till after baby arrives to take advantage of using my insurance discount.<br /> We already purchased our stroller but I know lots of moms recommend not purchasing it till after baby arrives because then you really know what kind you need.<br /> Lots of moms have said their baby actually did not like the swing. etc etc.</p> <p>haha I know I'm not being much help!</p> <p>I really liked looking on Babble.com because they have a Best in "category" every year. And in each category they break it down in best of, best budget, etc etc.<br /> Baby Bargains the book available on Amazon is also a GREAT resource.<br /> I love these two the best because they show budget versions of each category. Baby stuff does NOT have to cost $400+ each!</p> <p>As I look at the things we currently have I think the "musts" for us are<br /> car seat<br /> our summer infant sleeper so baby can sleep safely in bed w/us. (we'll still be in our old house till after baby has arrived. and the crib will be in the new house)<br /> Clothes<br /> Diapers<br /> Crib (for later on)</p> <p>GL! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-95991 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 17:07:26 +0000 chopsuey 95991@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's so easy to get sucked in and overwhelmed with baby stuff! Truth be told, LOs are super low maintenance and don't need much at all!<br /> Here's a list of Newborn must haves that HB put together.<br /> <a href="http://www.hellobee.com/2011/09/23/absolute-essentials-for-a-newborn/" rel="nofollow">http://www.hellobee.com/2011/09/23/absolute-essentials-for-a-newborn/</a><br /> If you're putting a registry together, you're going to want to put things on the registry that can be used months after your LOs born--exersaucer, toys, activity gym, etc.<br /> If you check out the blogs, there are some real mom's registries..<br /> <a href="http://www.hellobee.com/page/2/?s=registry" rel="nofollow">http://www.hellobee.com/page/2/?s=registry</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/baby-must-haves-please-help#post-95990 Sun, 18 Mar 2012 16:57:02 +0000 PennyLainne 95990@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are expecting and I don't know what I all need for a new baby. What are your top must haves? </p> <p>Things I know I need/have:<br /> Crib, change table, swing, bassinet, car seat, stroller and breast pump. </p> <p>There are so many things out there and I get over whelmed looking at them all. I was looking at baby tubs the other day and there are so many different styles how do you know which one to get? Anyways I am wondering what your top baby items are? What could you not live without and what would you reccommend to a first time mom? </p>