https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 12:20:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/behavior-charts-success#post-2922508 Sat, 13 Feb 2021 17:48:39 +0000 Chuckles 2922508@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have worked with children with behavioral struggles my whole career. I just have a couple of quick suggestions - make sure that the behaviors he gets rewarded for are really concrete - so have an inside voice during nap, make an appropriate choice of another activity if he doesn't want to nap, stay on his mat, etc., whatever an age-appropriate expectation is - not just "be good during nap" or something similar. </p> <p>Also, it might be good to start with a daily smaller reward right after school. He might be too young to have the ability to think long-term for the whole week. And the benefit of that is that you can make a quicker connection to the behavior at school. Once you see that the daily ones are making a difference, you can bump it up to a somewhat bigger reward at the end of the week.</p> <p>Also, how long is nap time? How long would he have to be quiet for or do something else? I only ask because I remember maybe hearing about some other families with a similar issue, but the thing was that nap time was like 2 hours. That's a really long time for a 3 year old to stay in one spot and be relatively quiet if they aren't sleeping! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/behavior-charts-success#post-2922505 Sat, 13 Feb 2021 16:24:08 +0000 cake2017 2922505@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hello!</p> <p>I posted about my 3.5 DS at preschool. We just ordered a behavior chart off Amazon! It’s a long weekend so we will start it this weekend and talk about school and staying quiet- reward at the end of the week if he does well. </p> <p>Anybody else use this? How old was your child and how did it go? </p> <p>Ideas for rewards?! </p> <p>Thank you </p>