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<title>Hellobee Boards Topic: Being sick in America sucks</title>
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<title>looch on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1327371</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2014 07:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>looch</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@Mae: The video is blocked for me at work, I'll try to remember to watch it later at home, so thanks for that!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I have lived in 2 countries and paid for insurance in both places. For a family of 3 we paid MORE in Switzerland for the same amount of coverage.  The main difference is that there, the government mandates that everyone be covered, so the insurance companies have levels of coverage available at different income levels.  Your employer pays nothing, so the cost is more as a result.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I had collegues in Singapore that paid nothing for medical coverage, because the governement requires that companies that want to do business there pay for coverage for their employees.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Just to give numbers, we paid the equivalent of about $600 for coverage for a family of 3 abroad, in the US, the equivalent coverage is about $400, with our employer paying part.
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<title>yoursilverlining on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1327006</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 21:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yoursilverlining</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@SweetMamaM:  it is sad :/&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Although we do have some safety nets, if you are an &#34;able-bodied&#34; adult (not a senior) without private healthcare, your options are very limited. And when portions of the population go without medical care on a regular basis, it cost us all a lot, short term and long term.
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<title>Mae on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326995</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 21:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mae</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@looch:  That's not entirely true. Yes you're always going to pay for healthcare one way or another (taxes or privately), but the cost of care is higher in America than in most places, and we get less for it. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Excellent video: &#60;a href=&#34;http://www.upworthy.com/his-first-4-sentences-are-interesting-the-5th-blew-my-mind-and-made-me-a-little-sick-2&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&#62;http://www.upworthy.com/his-first-4-sentences-are-interesting-the-5th-blew-my-mind-and-made-me-a-little-sick-2&#60;/a&#62;
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<title>honeybear on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326970</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 21:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>honeybear</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@SweetMamaM:  We have clinics in the US that are run by charitable organizations that provide free care to the poor. The difference is that their doctors and nurses are either donating their services or are being paid by the charitable organization, rather than the government. We also have Medicaid, which is a government program that provides insurance to low-income individuals and which covers primary care.
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<title>MrsTal on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326849</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 20:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>MrsTal</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;More to the point, the cost of services is outrageous, which I believe is the point of his posting his bill. DH was in the hospital for 10 days a year ago, had a more invasive surgery than this guy and in total his bill was $55k before insurance. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Trying to navigate the healthcare system in this country is ridiculous. One doctor group charged us more than $1000 when all they did is come into the room and ask how he was doing. We had to pay that out of pocket because that group of doctors wasn't in our network, yet worked at the hospital that was in our network, that was the case with the anesthesiologist and a few other doctors as well. Now I worry any time there is an emergency situation that pops up I will have to be on my phone trying to figure out who is covered and who isn't instead of focusing on the emergency itself. It's a nightmare.
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<title>Mrs. Lemon-Lime on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326823</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 20:36:21 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Lemon-Lime</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@honeybear:  I noticed the 80/20 too. Seems reasonable to me. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Insurance helps mitigate one's own costs by pooling resources of many, but at some point care is given and has to be paid. Who best to pay for the care other than the person who needed the care?
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<title>SweetMamaM on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326773</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 20:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>SweetMamaM</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@yoursilverlining:  awww that's sad. We have a lot of local clinics in areas that have been targeted as at-risk...quite a few of them are attached to schools or marae (Maori community hubs) but service whole families at little or no cost. It's hoped that it will reduce the incidences of rheumatic fever within impoverished and minority communities. We're also very lucky that health care is completely free (not even a subsidized consult fee) for children under the age of six so that means that those check-ups, vaccinations and preventative medicine matters actually happen.
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<title>Mrs. Jump Rope on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326360</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 17:05:48 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Jump Rope</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;He might have had a high deductible plan. One of options this year meant that we'd pay $80/month for coverage, but $20,000 OOP. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;It's geared toward low-risk individuals (no health problems, never sick, etc).&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I wish the person would have disclosed his insurance plan!
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<title>yoursilverlining on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326157</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yoursilverlining</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@SweetMamaM: Yes. There is a lot of good info out there that many people below the poverty line do not have regular health care (checkups, preventative care, etc.) and do not seek help when they are sick, compared to those with health insurance. Many without healthcare utilize the ER as their main healthcare contact, which is the absolute most expensive and least effective way to use healthcare – both for the patient (if they pay the bill; if they don’t their credit is often ruined in the process), the hospital and the rest of the taxpayers.
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<title>honeybear on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1326128</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>honeybear</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@SweetMamaM:  Yes, in the US there are people who have no insurance who cannot get primary care from private practitioners because they cannot pay. Emergency care at most hospitals (which I am fairly certain would include surgery for something like a ruptured appendix) is a different story. If you have an emergency, those hospitals cannot turn you away, regardless of whether you can pay or not. However, the ER only has to stabilize the patient.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;&#60;a href=&#34;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emergency_Medical_Treatment_and_Active_Labor_Act&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&#62;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emergency_Medical_Treatment_and_Active_Labor_Act&#60;/a&#62;
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<title>Adira on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325957</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Adira</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I'm not positive, but I think a lot of hospitals are non-profit and have a TON of overhead, plus the coverage for everyone that doesn't have insurance or can't afford to pay.  You'll notice on his bill, that the allowance by the insurance was reduced by $37k.  I believe that means that even though the hospital tried to charge $55k, they were actually only going to be paid $18k.
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<title>Dandelion on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325943</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Dandelion</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;The issue isn't the insurance...it's the price he has to pay to sit in a recovery room or patient room. Hospitals just charge what they want for that stuff, because they can. It's an overkill.
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<title>Adira on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325925</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Adira</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I'm surprised by this - my OOP max for my insurance is $3k, so I'd never have to pay this much.  I'm not sure why his insurance has such a high OOP max, but I definitely disagree that it sucks to be sick in America!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;@honeybear:  I agree, his insurance paid 80%, which is pretty standard!
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<title>SweetMamaM on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325921</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 15:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>SweetMamaM</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;This does scare me, coming from a nation of universal healthcare. Our public system has faults (thus why private health insurance and health care facilities are available) but wouldn't you have many people in the US (minority groups and those under the poverty line in particular) who simply would not seek medical assistance because they know they'll never be able to pay the bill? Or is there something I'm missing here?
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<title>honeybear on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325888</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 14:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>honeybear</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I think this is actually evidence of a fairly reasonable insurance contract. His bill was $55k, and insurance paid some $44k or so of that, so 80%. Now, $11k is still a big number, but he had a nontrivial operation. And presumably when he signed his insurance contract, he read all the fine print about out-of-pocket expenses and in-network providers, right? So why is that 80/20 split objectionable? (And if it is objectionable, then consider that the vast majority of the plans available on the individual market under the ACA are much less favorable to insureds.) I think it's really important to remember that insurance should not be a prepayment plan for healthcare services. It's a financial product that protects you against financial ruin in the event of a catastrophe. This guy had a catastrophic event, and his insurance picked up the bulk of the bill. The only problem I see here is that he had no idea what an appendectomy cost in his area when he was deciding to buy that 80/20 insurance plan, because there is next to no transparency in the healthcare industry (a related discussion). &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;@sunny:  I think you're right. I have read that the Sutter Health system has a virtual monopoly on the healthcare market in that area (San Fran/Sacramento). They therefore have close to monopoly prices. That isn't the case in a lot of the rest of the country.
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<title>Lindsay05 on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325715</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 14:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Lindsay05</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@pui: Yes our 'free' universal healthcare isn't the greatest neither.   When you see half your pay check go to taxes you realize you are paying for it through the butt. Especially if you see your doctor once a year.
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<title>pui on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325684</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 14:26:56 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>pui</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@looch:  Yeah, I don't think people realize how much more taxes we pay in Canada. We pay for our healthcare here too. Nevermind that I have quite a few problems with the care myself and family has received. I don't know what the best system would be, but I would definitely say that Canada doesn't have it perfect either.
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<title>MamaMoose on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325541</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 14:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>MamaMoose</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@LuLu Mom: Agree.  This guy (or I guess his dad since he was covered by his dad's plan) has a terrible plan.  Our entire family has a $2K out of pocket mac for a year.
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<title>looch on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325464</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:45:27 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>looch</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I actually don't think being sick in America sucks that bad, if you're going to get sick,  don't you want to be in a place where you have the ability to go to the hospital in the first place?&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also, our insurance situation is what it is, largely because we (as a country) do not want to pay so much more in income tax.  The cost of healthcare is expensive, no matter where you live, it's just a matter of when you pay for it (in your taxes or personally when you get sick).
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<title>LuLu Mom on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325455</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>LuLu Mom</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Wow...does he not have an out of pocket cap?  We have one and it was great with all of DD medical stuff this last year!
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<title>Mrs. Tiger on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325408</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Tiger</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Omg!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Through my NICU adventures I see a lot of this. DS2 was helicoptered for his current stay, I want to see how much the bill is for that! Thankfully our insurance isn't as bad as that guy's.
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<title>Zbug on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325352</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Zbug</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;It's crazy. Our hospital charged $20k for my drug free labor and one night stay. Luckily, insurance covered most of it.
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<title>Charm54 on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325339</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Charm54</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Unreal. That is so scary.
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<title>sunny on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325318</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>sunny</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Wow scary! That hospital bill seems so high though. LO's c-section birth and our subsequent 1 week stay in the hospital was $60k. And we went to a fancy private hospital, not a county one. I wonder if that hospital is doing something fishy.
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<title>Mae on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325294</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:10:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mae</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;YEP.
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<title>oliviaoblivia on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325282</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>oliviaoblivia</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;That's so depressing.
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<title>Mamaof2 on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325257</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mamaof2</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;wow - that is a lot - What is his yearly OOP???&#60;br /&#62;
Mine is only 3k (which I thought was a lot)&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I agree that insurance companies should crack down on the hospital fees - some are outrageous!
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<title>Dandelion on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325254</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 13:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Dandelion</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Ugh, that's awful. Some of the charges don't seem so bad, but room and board and the charge for the recovery room is just ridiculous!
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<title>artsyfartsy on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325229</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 12:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>artsyfartsy</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@mrswin:  Hmm. It works for me. Let me try it again.
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<title>mrbee on "Being sick in America sucks"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/being-sick-in-america-sucks#post-1325228</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 12:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mrbee</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@mrswin:  just fixed it, I think!
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