https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 11:05:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/51#post-1993111 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 20:42:15 +0000 jaguar 1993111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm going to go ahead and start a new thread, since we're at 2000 posts now. Will link here.</p> <p><a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support-v2#post-1993115" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support-v2#post-1993115</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/51#post-1993106 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 20:39:59 +0000 jaguar 1993106@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: Have you got any Panadeine Forte? I found that to be the best. And try to get as much rest as you can.</p> <p>We visited relatives up the coast and my aunty (who knows about our losses this year) was really sweet. She gave me loads of advice about coping strategies and anxiety, and told me what signs to watch out for with depression, because she's worried about all the things this past year has thrown at us. She also gave me a Willowtree figurine for our second loss, since she knew we had one for our first - which made me smile. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1993070 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 19:31:27 +0000 FannyMae 1993070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: neurofen plus last night, it gives me horrid scary dreams though. might just stick to some panadol rapid today. the bright red bleeding has stopped but my tummy is feeling rather sore and bloated. just a bit of browny red, hopefully everything is ok in there :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1993032 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 18:09:03 +0000 jaguar 1993032@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: Oh, that's beautiful. My d&amp;c was through a smaller private hospital, but I guess they don't do that here. Ah well.</p> <p>Just keep on painkillers if it starts creeping up on you again. xx </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992678 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 05:41:13 +0000 FannyMae 1992678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: I'm in Melbourne, the packs were through Pregnancy Loss Australia. I know that they don't give them out at one of the main public maternity hospitals here, but I had my D&amp;C at a local private hospital so maybe they distribute through the smaller ones. </p> <p>I've managed to get up and move about more this afternoon instead of laying on the couch. so uncomfortable downstairs though :/ (TMI I was in absolute agony trying to go to the toilet for no.2) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992674 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 05:08:17 +0000 jaguar 1992674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: That's so lovely. I wish our hospital had done something like that. Are you in Australia? Where abouts? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992488 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 19:55:24 +0000 FannyMae 1992488@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: I know, I thought wow thats such a sweet gesture. Completely unexpected, I thought the whole experience was going to be cold, sterile, hospital, but every nurse was warm and compassionate, and even the anesthetist was really lovely when he came in for a chat prior to the procedure. </p> <p>Its a gorgeous sunny day out there today, I think I'll sit out there and soak up some Vitamin D and let the rays boost me up a bit :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992480 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 19:47:03 +0000 HappyBluebird 1992480@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: I've definitely had a few ugly cries. That's so nice that they would give something like that out and adorable that your daughter took to them :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992478 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 19:45:38 +0000 simplyfelicity 1992478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: Thinking of you, sweet lady. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992475 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 19:39:15 +0000 FannyMae 1992475@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: thank you, the other night when the OB rang me with the bad news I felt like I kind of took it ok, but then had a massive ugly cry once my daughter had gone to bed. snotty nose and all.</p> <p>I did manage a laugh at my silly kid today... the hospital gave out a little kit for grieving parents from Pregnancy Loss Australia. Its got a beautiful teddy bear, a little packet of seeds to grow some forget-me-not flowers, and a certificate that you can fill out with the details of your baby. She decided that the teddy bear was "ohhh so lovely", and that the certifiate was her new "treasure map", so she's been having fun with that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992429 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 18:29:11 +0000 HappyBluebird 1992429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: I'm so sorry you are joining us. Leaving the due date board is hard, I had to leave the April board. The emotional part hit me in waves and still does sometimes. This board is a great place full of supportive ladies. We're here for you if you need to talk/vent/cry, etc. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992425 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 18:26:22 +0000 FannyMae 1992425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: @ValentineMommy: thankyou both xo its a bit of a surreal feeling isn't it? actually, the whole 9 weeks of pregnancy felt surreal. it was a little surprise bonus baby that we conceived out of nowhere apparently :) Somewhere in my mind I suppose I didn't think the pregnancy was going to progress from early on. Not sure why, I held back a bit in allowing myself to think forward and plan things etc. The 8 week scan pushed that feeling forward that the baby wasn't developing as it should. I think i'm just going to spend the holiday season recovering physically and emotionally. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992402 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 17:54:56 +0000 ValentineMommy 1992402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: I'm so sorry again :-( these are the greatest group of ladies and will help you along through the hard days. Hugs &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992388 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 17:34:10 +0000 jaguar 1992388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FannyMae: I'm so sorry. I remember you from when I was in the July boards, before I lost our second m/c this year. I hope you're recovering okay. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992369 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 17:19:58 +0000 FannyMae 1992369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi ladies, joining in here after leaving the July due dates board. I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks, had a curette yesterday afternoon and recovering at home now under a big fluffy blanket. </p> <p>The procedure was quick, I was under general anesthetic and every single nurse and doctor was supporting and kind. Feeling rather ughhhhhhh now, crampy, soreness downstairs, bleeding. Emotionally I think its going to hit me hard when I'm by myself/in the shower :/</p> <p>ughhhhh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1992109 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:46:17 +0000 HappyBluebird 1992109@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DesertDreams88: I'm so sorry for all of this :sad: I'm praying and hoping that 2015 is tremendously better for you and the other ladies hanging out on this board, waiting for next steps! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1991195 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 01:44:02 +0000 jaguar 1991195@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DesertDreams88: Big love to you. This year has been so awful for so many people. xxx</p> <p>This week alone has been horrific. First the terrorist siege in Sydney, then news of more murders up in QLD... it's just a terrible year. </p> <p>I really, really hope 2015 is better for you all, my ladies in the trenches. We've had more than our share of heartache... and you deserve so much happiness. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1991094 Thu, 18 Dec 2014 23:37:35 +0000 DesertDreams88 1991094@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Still no AF, day 41, high temps characteristic of post-O, crazy cramping for 4 days but not even one spot. BFN this morning. So over it.</p> <p>Grandma entered hospice today, signed a DNR, got her Last Rites administered. Everyone's flying down to FL to see her one last time, except for me, because I live so far away and only have enough money for the funeral and I have my in-laws coming for Christmas. </p> <p>Since August, my 2 best friend coworkers left, my school was put on an improvement plan (AKA stress plan), my classroom flooded, I taught in a partitioned library with another class for 6 weeks, I miscarried for 3 weeks, I'm facing $2593 of bills for the MC, and now this. </p> <p>So, yes, totally done and washing my hands of 2014. I'm trusting praying and believing that 2015 will be very awesome in comparison. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1990587 Thu, 18 Dec 2014 19:32:13 +0000 HappyBluebird 1990587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: I second that!! Let's go 2015! :grin: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1990458 Thu, 18 Dec 2014 17:19:25 +0000 jaguar 1990458@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I'm in a TWW... a trigger induced one, lol. 3dpo today. I don't even think I'll POAS... I really just want this cycle as a means to an end anyway, you know? BRING ON 2015!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1989482 Thu, 18 Dec 2014 08:04:27 +0000 ValentineMommy 1989482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: That's great!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1989086 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 19:56:29 +0000 HappyBluebird 1989086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: @FliegepilzHut: @simplyfelicity: @jaguar: :heart: thanks :grin: </p> <p>@jaguar: hoping the new year brings great things for both of us :goodluck: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1988995 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 18:25:42 +0000 jaguar 1988995@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: That's great, hon! Hopefully we can cycle together in the new year! xxx </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1988978 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 18:14:48 +0000 simplyfelicity 1988978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: That's incredible news! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1988956 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 17:53:04 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1988956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: 8 weeks sounds wonderful! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1988854 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 16:29:19 +0000 MaryM 1988854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: Great news! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1988853 Wed, 17 Dec 2014 16:26:53 +0000 HappyBluebird 1988853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I had my first monthly level check this morning, so hopefully only two more monthly checks before we can TTC again, I'm counting down the weeks at this point! 8 weeks until what should hopefully be my last monthly draw, that doesn't seem too bad!</p> <p>How is everyone else doing? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1986055 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 02:32:22 +0000 jaguar 1986055@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HappyBluebird: @DesertDreams88: I know, so glad they caught it... but gutted about the whole thing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1986008 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 23:36:07 +0000 DesertDreams88 1986008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JAGUAR: Only 19 more days until the New Year! Even though the date itself is totally arbitrary, obviously; I'm trying to believe that 2015 will be much, much better. Not that 2014 is much competition :bummed: Also glad they caught the possible fraudulent charge. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/beyond-miscarriage-support/page/50#post-1985371 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 14:54:51 +0000 HappyBluebird 1985371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DesertDreams88: I'm sorry :sad: waiting is so hard! I don't consider myself type A but I like to have control over some things and it's hard with TTC so I understand the frustrations. DH and I were getting to a point of having to replan our BDing right before we got our BFP because he gets performance anxiety a little too. Once we get back to it in February, I think we've decided I will give him the general window and leave it at that.</p> <p>@jaguar: Oh no! Thank goodness they flagged it! And wow $4500! That's alot! I'm also very happy this year is coming to a close, next year has to be better! Still have my fingers crossed extra tight for you in your next FET cycle :goodluck: </p>