https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 09 May 2026 21:31:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1376669 Sun, 26 Jan 2014 11:29:17 +0000 babycanuck 1376669@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OH and I'll be emailing Jenny Renny to say "You suck!" lol jk. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1376666 Sun, 26 Jan 2014 11:27:41 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1376666@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>God forbid this cycle is a dud, I will shop my sorrows away, buying sandals and sunglasses (we have 2 vacations planned in the next 3&amp;4months) . I will also call my OB and ask 2 things:<br /> - give me a higher dose of Clomid<br /> - give me the # to a RE </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1376607 Sun, 26 Jan 2014 10:55:55 +0000 HolisticMama 1376607@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I want to get my nails done. I don't want to be around those chemicals when I'm pregnant. </p> <p>LOL.@Mrs tartan won't be getting smashed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1376598 Sun, 26 Jan 2014 10:51:34 +0000 babycanuck 1376598@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oooh treating ourselves thread - I didn't realize you can't dye your hair during Tri-1 so definitely going to do my roots. I've been enjoying wine, going on a business trip this week so I won't hold back unless I see that pink line. </p> <p>Need to think of some more fun things.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1376595 Sun, 26 Jan 2014 10:49:26 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1376595@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's looking like I might be treatin myself to some consoling this month. I'm still not full on AF and only 8DPO so I may wait but I did have a mocha and a glass of wine last night. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1371733 Thu, 23 Jan 2014 19:36:51 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1371733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I thought of another one! I really want to color my hair! Can't do it in the first trimester. So I'll add that to the list. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1366137 Wed, 22 Jan 2014 09:28:13 +0000 Mrs tartan 1366137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm currently 11dpo, if my test is still negative on Saturday, then DH and I are going out to get smashed with friends. We haven't done it since October and we need to let our hair down. (I haven't looked our my outfit yet as I'm still hoping this is our month!) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1365215 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 18:03:33 +0000 PawPrints 1365215@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: Hot tub and wine sounds fantastic. Cheers! On to our February BFPs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1365094 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 17:19:55 +0000 deactivated_account 1365094@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@PawPrints: I'm CD1 with you. Cheers!! </p> <p>@Mrs. Sketchbook: so sorry about your BFN. But your weekend sounds wonderful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1365082 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 17:15:13 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1365082@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: not awful at all! You should treat yourself. You can do prenatal yoga when you get KU! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364971 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 16:39:42 +0000 Cole 1364971@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When we started ttc I decided that each failed cycle means picking out a new article of clothing. I also try to schedule something non ttc related to look forward to also like shopping with a friend, a massage or a night of playing board games with my husband. The hot tub and drinks are great ones too! Our gym has a great hot tub and I really want to go use it but don't really want to work out... how awful is that? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364947 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 16:29:57 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1364947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@PawPrints: mmmm that sounds good. Beer it up! </p> <p>@Mrs. Sketchbook: that sounds lovely. I hope you enjoy and have a BFP next month! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364931 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 16:24:57 +0000 Mrs. Sketchbook 1364931@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>BFN yesterday. My husband and I were planning a small pre-TTC date weekend but decided to start early. Well now that it looks like BFN city around here I am excited to get out for the weekend and have some drinks. We are staying the night in our old college town where we lived after we got married. So lots of bar hopping and good food, some of it contraband for preg. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364930 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 16:24:51 +0000 dc yoga bee 1364930@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Today is CD 3. We got breakfast on CD 1, so that was nice! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364904 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 16:13:54 +0000 PawPrints 1364904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>CD1 today. I would say tonight will be sushi and wine but I'm actually looking forward to our usual homemade black-bean quesadillas we've got planned. With beer, though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364475 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 14:00:55 +0000 deactivated_account 1364475@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMccarthy: Thanks lady! I hope that January gives you lots of love! Its exciting that you are in your TWW. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364466 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 13:57:30 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1364466@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: I hope February gives you lots of love!!!</p> <p>Add eggs Benedict to my list!!! Sopping runny yummy hollandaise sauce. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364236 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:50:13 +0000 deactivated_account 1364236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMccarthy: Oh! I just realized that I could potentially test early next month and get a bpf on valentine's day. That would be nice! there's always a silver lining, right? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364233 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:49:52 +0000 Crystal 1364233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: Sorry, hun. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364220 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:48:15 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1364220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: i'm so sorry honey! bfn sucks. sulk away and be good to you. i hope you get a valentines day bfp!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364167 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:34:18 +0000 bushelandapeck 1364167@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: I think one day of sulking is totally okay :) I'm sorry this wasn't your month.<br /> @wonderstruck: that sounds so fun! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364141 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:29:58 +0000 deactivated_account 1364141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlek: Thanks friend! Maybe I will buy myself something too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364128 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:28:14 +0000 wonderstruck 1364128@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I LOVE the idea of a hot tub/spa day! So stealing that is I get a BFN this cycle. I don't like the taste of sushi or alcohol, so that is a perfect idea.</p> <p>If I'm still not pregnant by this summer (hopefully that doesn't happen), then a Cedar Point trip is happening ASAP and I will ride all the roller coasters, haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364126 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:28:13 +0000 littlek 1364126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: I'm sorry. :( </p> <p>I will probably go buy myself something. I like to shop away my feelings. LOL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364119 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:27:26 +0000 Crystal 1364119@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>CD14!</p> <p>I told DH if I am not KU this cycle, I want to go out and have a non-baby friendly date. </p> <p>Get some sushi, drink a lot, see a late movie, etc. Maybe even a massage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1364093 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 12:22:20 +0000 HolisticMama 1364093@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>CD21. A hot tub sounds nice. I was at a party at a gym on Sunday and I REALLY wanted to use the hot tub. </p> <p>If I get a BFN this cycle- there is a 3 day fast that has been sitting in my fridge waiting for me: <a href="http://www.mybeyondorganic.com/Products_FoodPackagesSueroCleanse.aspx" rel="nofollow">http://www.mybeyondorganic.com/Products_FoodPackagesSueroCleanse.aspx</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1363963 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 11:54:46 +0000 deactivated_account 1363963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMccarthy: A spa day sounds nice. </p> <p>@bushelandapeck: So does skiing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1363961 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 11:53:57 +0000 deactivated_account 1363961@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>BFN yesterday and CD1 today. I may just leave work early and sit in a hot tub with some wine before going to sleep mega early today. I like to allow one day of sulking. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1363916 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 11:45:38 +0000 bushelandapeck 1363916@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>BFN today and I am excited to be able to have some drinks and ski without any guilt this weekend (unless I miraculously get a BFP before then) :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/bfn-consolation-board#post-1363907 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 11:44:37 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1363907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I thought it might be fun and helpful to have a board where we can list our consolation plans in the event of BFN or AF. It might help us to get ideas from each other and find new ways to try to enjoy the time when our bodies aren't pregnant. I really hope most of us don't have to console ourselves for long or at all.</p> <p>I am currently on 3DPO. In my case I plan to go for sushi, wine and a BIG OL latte. I am also considering a spa day involving hottubs and saunas. How do you treat yourself when you get a BFN or AF? </p>