https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Apr 2026 23:30:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152226 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 07:47:37 +0000 JoJoGirl 1152226@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Isis sleep webinars! They have one on "newborn sleep patterns" or something - free. Let me find a link..</p> <p>Also just read upthread - do NOT do EASY at night :) Yes you can try to start getting them to sleep on their own but it's super hard before the 3 month mark.. in the MOTN, just let them sleep :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152224 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 07:46:08 +0000 LemonLong 1152224@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Another vote for Moms on Call! My LO was sleeping through the night at 6 weeks old using their methods. She'll be a year old at the end of the month and we never had any regressions or anything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152181 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 06:57:12 +0000 Foodnerd81 1152181@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kpc324: yeah skip activity at night to teach her night time is for sleeping, not playing. Some say (I can't remember if this is baby whisperer) not to make eye contact bc even that is stimulating. </p> <p>@Kemma: yeah I always sing twinkle twinkle... As I nurse her to sleep, so it's not really working. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152068 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 02:22:24 +0000 Grace 1152068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kpc324: I think I've read that you skip the activity at night? You don't want them to think that night is a time for play. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152064 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 02:15:37 +0000 Kemma 1152064@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: have you tried introducing a lullaby, song or phrase for your LO to associate with bedtime? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1152041 Wed, 16 Oct 2013 01:17:33 +0000 kpc324 1152041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Quick question about the EASY method- how do you implement it at night? I try to keep my interaction with her to a minimum during night feedings to help her differentiate between nights and days (last night I whisper-shouted"don't talk to her!!" when he started to be all cute with her after a blowout. We both started laughing...in the morning my husband looked at me and was like "is it ok to talk to her now???"). I usually change her, feed her on one side, reswaddle, feed on the other side, and then rock her back to sleep before going back in her bassinet. The rocking back to sleep usually takes a while, so I wonder of that counts as Activity? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151978 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 23:08:04 +0000 Foodnerd81 1151978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Kemma: I know, but it's not working for me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151969 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 23:00:56 +0000 Kemma 1151969@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: just want to put it out there that nursing to sleep is really only a bad habit if it stops working for you! If it works for you then screw what the books say :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151915 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:28:02 +0000 illumina 1151915@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMagpie: just thinking about what we did/do; have you tried changing him straight after a feed? Or moving him to his bouncer/swing after eating? These always wake S up, then she has no choice but to fall asleep again from awake. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151908 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:17:25 +0000 Foodnerd81 1151908@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@photojane: I do try to enjoy the cuddles because I know it won't last... but my nips would enjoy a little less comfort nursing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151903 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:12:15 +0000 photojane 1151903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: You don't! haha We always rocked to sleep or used the swing at that point. She was probably 4-5 months before she would go to sleep on her own, and by 6 months she wanted nothing to do with me - no rocking, no singing! :( :( Enjoy the cuddles!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151901 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:09:44 +0000 photojane 1151901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMagpie: I think MOST newborns fall asleep while eating. It's just what babies do! She will get more awake and alert as she gets older. In a couple months you'll be wishing a feeding will put her to sleep! :) In the beginning we just did EatSleepAwake instead of EatAwakeSleep, and as she got more and more alert we moved into EatAwakeSleep... it happened naturally for us. I never read the baby whisperer, but did google a little on EASY. I think it's most babies natural pattern anyway. By the time she was a few weeks old our schedule looked like this: I fed her, we played (gym, tummy time, book, etc.), she'd give a sleepy cue (eye rubbing was always her big one), and I'd plop her in the swing. Then when we started over, I would do everything the same except I'd put her down to sleep somewhere else - I cycled between the swing, crib, and RNP for naps to get her used to sleeping in different spots! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151900 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:08:30 +0000 Foodnerd81 1151900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMagpie: Every day for the last 6 weeks I've thought, How on earth do you get a 5 week old/6 week old/ etc to fall asleep on their own? :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151898 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 21:06:24 +0000 MamaMagpie 1151898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: haha I was just thinking "how in earth do you get a 4-week old to fall asleep on their own?!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151880 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 20:52:28 +0000 Foodnerd81 1151880@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kodybear: @MamaMagpie: not to thread jack ever further, but I keep reading about setting bad habits with nursing to sleep and getting them used to putting themselves to sleep early on. I've always nursed to sleep and now at 11 weeks I have no idea how to break the habit. She definitely can stay awake now so it's more challenging to get her down. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151841 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 20:28:16 +0000 MamaMagpie 1151841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kodybear: thank you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151835 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 20:25:58 +0000 kodybear 1151835@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMagpie: my lo couldn't stay awake after eating until she was like 8-12 weeks old. I tried it early on and she'd just fall asleep. So over time ull see him be able to stay up longer! :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151807 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 20:03:56 +0000 MamaMagpie 1151807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hate to thread jack, but any advice on how to do EASY when LO consistently falls asleep while/right after nursing? DS is 4 weeks old and I'd like to start getting somewhat of a schedule down... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1151729 Tue, 15 Oct 2013 19:11:39 +0000 kpc324 1151729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks! I'll check those out :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1137165 Mon, 07 Oct 2013 19:56:54 +0000 sandy 1137165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Moms on call. You can go to their website and view their online course...it has sample schedules from early on (like 8 weeks). I found it super helpful. They do EASY too most all sleep books do eat, play/activity, sleep </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1137036 Mon, 07 Oct 2013 18:56:40 +0000 Foodnerd81 1137036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@illumina: EASY is from the baby whisperer! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1135709 Mon, 07 Oct 2013 11:05:06 +0000 kodybear 1135709@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Moms on call books! They have typical schedules starting from 2 weeks old. I've been loosely following their books and have had great results! I highly recommend them </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1135699 Mon, 07 Oct 2013 11:01:32 +0000 illumina 1135699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Have you tried Googling the EASY method? I've had a read of that today... though it's pretty much what we're doing at the moment (LO is 3wks) but not at set times. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1135694 Mon, 07 Oct 2013 10:59:41 +0000 Foodnerd81 1135694@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kpc324: just saw this as I'm scouring all sleep related things. The Secrets if the Baby Whisperer starts early and says its easier to set a schedule right away. Not going to lie it's not working on us right now but I haven't tried that hard yet. Worth a read from the library at least. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/booksadvice-on-newborn-patterns#post-1129229 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 14:04:49 +0000 kpc324 1129229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My baby girl will be 2 weeks old tomorrow...I know she is way too young for a schedule, but I'm looking for books or advice on what a "typical" day for a newborn might look like. Everything I see online seems to start at 8-12 weeks, and the advice for newborns is just "get through it".</p> <p>Any ideas?? Thanks :) </p>