https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 26 May 2026 01:16:50 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935567 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 12:15:41 +0000 Mrs. Train 935567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No break ups. Just a little bit of long distance while we were in the process of finding jobs after college. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935554 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 12:10:38 +0000 pui 935554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No we never broke up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935497 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:56:54 +0000 looch 935497@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have never had that kind of relationship, where you break up and make up in a cycle. It's not me.</p> <p>I was in a 7 year relationship before I began dating my husband, we never once broke up in that time. I've been with my husband 6 years, and same. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935462 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:42:41 +0000 mrsjyw 935462@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i think the longest break-up we had was a day :P it was a "i'm so mad at you get out of my face" day. </p> <p>no breakups.. that's how we both knew we were The One. :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935449 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:36:40 +0000 littlek 935449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlebug: Worst vacation EVER!! I found out he was texting her the entire time we were in Napa. Broke my heart. Talk about an awkward 7 hour flight home. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935444 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:34:55 +0000 littlebug 935444@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlek: YES! That's what happened to us! An emotional affair (with an ex-girlfriend). I found out the day we got home from vacation (though I had started to suspect while we were on our vacation). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935441 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:33:15 +0000 littlek 935441@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlebug: Our situation is very similar. When we were dating DH had an emotional affair and when I found out (on our vacation/awesome timing), I kicked him out of the house and we started counseling for a few months. He is SUCH a different person now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935438 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:32:39 +0000 littlebug 935438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlek: I agree with you, and I think that had we been married, I would not have moved out so quickly. We would have worked harder at staying together in the house. Although, to this day, I think both of us will tell you that me moving out was the right thing at that point in time. Hubs was going through some stuff that he just needed to process on his own in his own time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935432 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:31:05 +0000 littlebug 935432@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We did. Hubs cheated on me. So I moved out (of the house we bought together). We stayed broken up for 3-4 months, until he got his head back together, and then we started dating again. Once my lease was up (a full year later), I moved back in. He proposed 3 months later, and we're coming up on 3 years of marriage in October. Our relationship has never been better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935414 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 11:26:07 +0000 littlek 935414@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@cascademom: Marriage is tough! I think almost every couple goes through a difficult time. But I think if you can make it throught the difficult times you end up on the other side a better person/partner/etc. My own personal opinion, is I feel like too many people would rather give up when faced with adversity then fight through it, that's why the divorce rate is so high. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935195 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 10:11:19 +0000 cascademom 935195@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlek: I agree with your last sentence so much. This year has been our year of struggle (married versus dating) which required counseling. I love him, but there are times I don't like him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935177 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 10:08:20 +0000 littlek 935177@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have had 2 rough periods. The first rough period, we broke up for like 2 days (early in the relationship). He did not get it and kept calling me to hang out. He then realized he made a mistake. The second time, we didn't officially break up but we ended up going to couples counseling for a few months. We have been together for over 7 years. DH can be a real PITA at times but I love him. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up/page/2#post-935169 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 10:05:55 +0000 cascademom 935169@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No breakups, but an almost breakup a couple of times in our dating relationship. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-935144 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:58:15 +0000 plantains 935144@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No breakups here. We got engaged after a year of dating and married a year after that so there wasn't really time for a breakup:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-935117 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:52:39 +0000 littleveesmommy 935117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not sure if it counts, but we dated sophomore year in high school for a few months, broke up before junior year, then we got back together last few months of senior year and been together since for 13.5 years! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934997 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:26:46 +0000 Smurfette 934997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, never even came close. We maybe fought 3 times before we got married and they were small things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934986 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:25:09 +0000 Mrs. Polish 934986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We did when we had only been together about a month. I pressured him too much to make it serious and he freaked. A few months later we got back together and have been for ten years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934966 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:18:46 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 934966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We never broke up, but we came close once. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934943 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 09:09:32 +0000 Weagle 934943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. We dated for almost 3 years, all but 2 months long distance. We've been married for 3.5 years now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934618 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 06:55:13 +0000 jillybean218 934618@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not us. The weird thing with us was, we were good friends in high school, and at different points during that time we were really into each other, just never at the same time. I'm SO glad we never got together then because I doubt we would have made it, and I'm not one to go back to someone after we've broken up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934529 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 05:26:54 +0000 Adira 934529@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No break ups, though we came close once WAAAAAAAY back in the early stages of our relationship! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934522 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 05:13:58 +0000 cmomma17 934522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No break ups! Dated for over a year, engaged for over a year, married for almost two. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934506 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 04:17:28 +0000 Dandelion 934506@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope...we both stated that if there was a break up, we don't get back together.</p> <p>But, we got married a year after we met, so I guess we didn't have time for break ups, lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934475 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 02:56:20 +0000 Penny Lane 934475@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>no break ups here. I'm not the type to get back with someone after a breakup. we dated a few months after we met. got engaged after 18 months, married on our 2 year date-iversary and been married almost 2 years now </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934462 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 02:12:27 +0000 lomom 934462@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. We dated for a few months, moved in together, got engaged after I graduated and were engaged a year. </p> <p>This September will be 5 years together and 2 year wedding anniversary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934449 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 01:33:16 +0000 BSB 934449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, we broke up for 6 or 9 months. (I can't remember which. I'll ask the DH later.)</p> <p>We started dating in high school and things got a little hard when we went to different colleges and I wasn't sure if the relationship would work. No one cheated. We just grew apart and arguing got pretty bad.</p> <p>We talked here in there but it was definitely a break for us. I was able to enjoy single life. </p> <p>We got back together and things were different. The break made us realize that we wanted to be together. He proposed about a year later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934403 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 23:47:02 +0000 FancyGem 934403@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our break ups didn't count because they only lasted a few seconds. :) :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934396 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 23:30:26 +0000 yoursilverlining 934396@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. 7 years, no breakups, no real fights. We just clicked from day 1. Very lucky! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934392 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 23:23:27 +0000 Arden 934392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No breakup. One year dating (a good bit of that was long distance too!) one year engagement, two years of marriage now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/break-up-to-make-up#post-934385 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 23:13:31 +0000 erwoo 934385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No breakups here. We did get engaged after 10 months of dating long-distance though so there was not enough time. We didn't get married until 2 years after I moved here b/c I didn't want to move here and realize I made a mistake and be married. Thankfully, it wasn't a mistake! </p>