https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 20 Apr 2026 02:57:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2453380 Mon, 08 Feb 2016 11:09:48 +0000 stiletto_mom 2453380@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@birdofafeather: That's horrible. I'm sorry for your experience l.</p> <p>I don't know why doctors don't just shelve this method if ovulation can be pinpointed. Lazy science if you ask me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452933 Sun, 07 Feb 2016 17:41:18 +0000 birdofafeather 2452933@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@stiletto_mom: my cycles were also irregular (O'd on CD42 for DD1 and CD26 for DD2) and after a bad experience where my OB's office didn't listen to me about my long cycles and said they thought i was possibly having a miscarriage since I showed like 5 weeks instead of 8 per LMP instead of O date, I gave my second OB a LMP based on my O date instead of the real one. My dating U/S for both babes were right on with my O dates, so I felt very confident in those. Only telling you this in case they say it looks like you're a week behind and be confident in your dates! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452520 Sun, 07 Feb 2016 08:06:53 +0000 catomd00 2452520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There's no way to know when conception was, so I'd go by ovulation. A few days difference isn't going to matter. Due dates are estimates not an exact science. You will likely have a dating scan and that's the date they will use anyways. Even when I told them I have long cycles, they still went by<br /> lMP until I had my dating scan. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452432 Sun, 07 Feb 2016 01:14:32 +0000 Crystal 2452432@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@stiletto_mom: I know it's so confusing! Congrats again! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452417 Sun, 07 Feb 2016 00:03:13 +0000 stiletto_mom 2452417@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452416 Sun, 07 Feb 2016 00:02:00 +0000 Crystal 2452416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@stiletto_mom: it doesn't matter when you bd, it's the day you Od that counts. I'd go with FF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452410 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 23:50:28 +0000 stiletto_mom 2452410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Grace: Thanks so much for the confirmation.</p> <p>I'm just wavering in between conception on the 15th or the 17th.</p> <p>My dip was 15th, but FF says 16th was O. But we BDed 15th and 17th, not on 16th. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452407 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 23:48:26 +0000 Grace 2452407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You did it right. There are on-line calculators that will go off conception date and it gave me Oct 9 for you. Congratulations! If I were you, I would tell the OB that you have very irregular periods and push for a dating ultrasound. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452403 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 23:42:38 +0000 stiletto_mom 2452403@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Ugh, that's frustrating.</p> <p>No I don't need to know it now. But I like knowing things are accurate. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452400 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 23:23:14 +0000 BSB 2452400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you need your due date right now? I believe your OB will take measurements and the ultrasounds should be able to tell you how far along you are and give you a due date.</p> <p>ETA: oh, I did ask about lmp in this thread. It appears some dr only go by LMP. <a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/explain-to-me-why-they-go-off-lmp-when-determining-how-far-along-you-are#post-1745217" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/explain-to-me-why-they-go-off-lmp-when-determining-how-far-along-you-are#post-1745217</a></p> <p>I did IVF so I know exactly when my twins were conceived but when I graduated from my RE, I was given a 'fake' or adjusted LMP to give to my OB. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/can-i-get-a-second-pair-of-eyes-on-this-please#post-2452342 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 21:59:09 +0000 stiletto_mom 2452342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can someone take a look at my chart and see if I did this right?</p> <p>I have irregular periods, but my luteal phase is usually 12 or 13 days. This last cycle, I was waking up late, but I always temped before getting out of bed. I was on vacation and I missed a day.</p> <p>CD1 was Boxing Day (Dec. 26), but looking at my chart, I may have ovulated Jan 16th.</p> <p>Does that mean conception date is Jan 17th?</p> <p>January 29th, got bright pink spotting after dtd (implantation?). Strong BFP Feb 1.</p> <p>If so, does that mean my due day is October 9th?<br /> <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5972fd/?i=6681146&#038;amp" rel="nofollow">http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5972fd/?i=6681146&#038;amp</a>;</p> <p>I don't think I should plug Dec 26 as my LKMP into a due date calculator since I don't think I ovulate 10 - 14 days after cycle starts.</p> <p>I just want to make sure I have the due date as accurate as I can. I JUST had my blood taken to confirm the pregnancy (although my HCGs at home were quite strong). Results won't be ready until Monday, and until then, I won't be able to book my first pre-natal appointment or ultrasound dating.</p> <p>Thanks! </p>