https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 30 Apr 2026 07:37:26 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1529186 Fri, 28 Mar 2014 10:28:54 +0000 LulaBee 1529186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Did this ever get created? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1114100 Thu, 26 Sep 2013 14:30:18 +0000 runsyellowlites 1114100@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I definitely like "Support thread" better... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1114039 Thu, 26 Sep 2013 14:16:48 +0000 Thenetexan 1114039@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: I like @THOUs suggestion best. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1113905 Thu, 26 Sep 2013 13:37:35 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1113905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: I like T.H.O.U.'s suggestion! Yours last one works too :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1113841 Thu, 26 Sep 2013 13:23:33 +0000 runsyellowlites 1113841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jump Rope: @Mrs.Someone: @NorCalWayfarer: @TheSwissWifeStyle: @chibee: @T.H.O.U.: @Pancakes: @Dandelion: @cmbknyc: I knew I should've thrown around titles here before officially making it. lol </p> <p>So right now it's<br /> "Check in for Moms of Angel Babies, How are you doing?"</p> <p>With the suggestion of Mrs.Someone I think changing "moms" to "Ladies" would definitely be best. And then how about adding MC &amp; Loss along with Angel babies?</p> <p>T.H.O.U. also suggested<br /> "Support Thread for Ladies that have experienced a Loss" </p> <p>And I thought<br /> Check in for Ladies experiencing loss, regardless of stage."</p> <p>I just don't want how anyone identifies themselves or their loss to be diminished. I don't think we could ever make the "perfect" name, but I'm sure we'd all like it to be as inclusive as possible so any would feel welcomed &amp; noone would feel like their loss was minimized. :)</p> <p>Mr. Bee said he'd be glad to change it once we get something final, because he's awesome like that. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106866 Tue, 24 Sep 2013 07:42:32 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 1106866@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd participate for sure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106599 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 21:31:27 +0000 PurpleUnicorn 1106599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I haven't had a loss and i think this thread is a good idea. Not sure if i should have commented but I'm sure there will non-loss people who read the thread so i hought I would say something. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106573 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 21:05:30 +0000 chibee 1106573@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: Roll call sounds good to me - I'd like to see where everyone is at this point, etc. Personally I don't mind answering questions, but I'd feel more comfortable in a gold setting if we were to do a roll call type thread, but I'm pretty sure I'd join anyway either way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106288 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 17:43:31 +0000 cmbknyc 1106288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Such a great idea! While I would prefer gold I'm fine sharing either way. Like others have mentioned I like the idea of a roll call/intro and if there is something I don't want to answer I would just skip it. Thanks for spearheading this @runsyellowlites: :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106280 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 17:33:56 +0000 NorCalWayfarer 1106280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Would love this! I'm not gold but would love to participate. It'd be a nice place to check in, share, and hopefully hear some good news updates :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106254 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 17:07:52 +0000 Dandelion 1106254@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: I think it's safe to say that if someone isn't comfortable answering a particular question, they can just skip over it and we'll just all know not to push that question.</p> <p>@chibee: I feel the same way. I want to answer questions, but I feel like I'm weighing it down. It's a little better now that I'm pregnant again, but my 2 cents aren't always happy ones, lol.</p> <p>I do want to add that right now I'm going through legal stuff about it, also, so I might not chime in as much to specific questions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106170 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 16:13:49 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1106170@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe start a thread with instructions to do the roll call when you join it, but after that its a place to just chat and discuss how we're doing? I'd also prefer gold, but also don't want to leave anyone out :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106155 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 16:07:52 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1106155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: I'm not bothered by check ins or questions. If there's something I don't feel comfortable or is too hard to answer, I'd skip it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106131 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 15:58:46 +0000 runsyellowlites 1106131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jump Rope: @Pancakes: @Dandelion: @Cherrybee: @Thenetexan: @chibee: @Vegmama: Should there be a "roll call" of some sort.</p> <p>On one hand I like that we'd be able to see where everyone is, but at the same time I wouldn't want to cause any pain from seeing/thinking about certain aspects one might ask. ie. When was your loss, do you have any live children, etc.</p> <p>I did see that the IF check in thread had an initial roll call to help everyone get to know each other &amp; now has fun questions to help better know each other as well.</p> <p>I don't think I'd be bothered by questions, and of course if someone didn't want to answer they wouldn't have too, but maybe they're not needed in this case? idk. </p> <p>thoughts? figure if we're going to do it might as well see the best way &amp; do it right! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1106125 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 15:54:35 +0000 Vegmama 1106125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it's a beautiful idea ... After our loss, I found a lot of encouragement from women who had been going through the same thing (and then even more so when they would share successes or helpful info that led to their next BFP). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1105806 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 14:03:25 +0000 chibee 1105806@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is a great idea, sometimes I feel like I'm dragging a thread down when I bring up my recent miscarriage and questions related to my d&amp;c. Personally, I would vote for gold, but I also don't want to leave any non-gold members out, so either way I would love for this thread to open anyway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103691 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 13:31:18 +0000 Thenetexan 1103691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it is a good idea. While gold might be nice, I wouldn't want to exclude anyone else looking for a place to share. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103605 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 11:56:07 +0000 Cherrybee 1103605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think its a top idea. MrsCastro created a thread about the stages of grief just after my mc and I used to go to that thread to share how I was feeling day to day. It really helped me, having somewhere to go to offload. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103582 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 11:32:43 +0000 runsyellowlites 1103582@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Anyone else have any thoughts? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103086 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 20:18:29 +0000 Dandelion 1103086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think its a cool idea. I often get bees checking in on me on my wall but it might be good for people how other people handle things after certain amount of times. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103071 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 20:06:44 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1103071@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This would be a great idea. I know a lot of my hurt was dealing with the delay of getting my cycle back to normal. It was hard to follow the POAS threads with everyone with on a normal cycle and getting pregnant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1103052 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 19:53:32 +0000 Pancakes 1103052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love the idea of this thread...I'm not gold, but if you do make the thread gold, maybe it will give me an excuse to join :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1102970 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 18:45:31 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1102970@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/check-in-thread-for-moms-with-recent-lossesmiscarriages-weigh-in#post-1102966 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 18:41:07 +0000 runsyellowlites 1102966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know alot of us have had losses in the past few months, and that HB is a great community for us to come &amp; share our losses, but there really aren't any threads about checking in on how we're all doing after our initial loss, in the weeks/months of healing...So, I thought maybe I'd make one.</p> <p>Maybe it'll be a huge flop, but I know I've really needed a place to still share &amp; vent my bad days without feeling burdensome &amp; figure there has to be someone else in the same position. Maybe it'll be a good cathartic release that we can keep going for other mommies that go through losses in the future of HB.</p> <p>And do you ladies think I should make the thread gold, or keep it open to bees that aren't gold? I'd hate for some to feel like they can't share, but at the same time would hate to keep out someone that needs to share....</p> <p>Thoughts </p>