https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 17 May 2026 11:04:46 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2/page/2#post-1593975 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 20:10:47 +0000 travelgirl1 1593975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Like others have said, you WILL get your sticky baby :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2/page/2#post-1593926 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 19:42:18 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593926@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LIL BEAN: You are so sweet! So you have seen me totally neurotic, haha. This is my first month TTC and I am going to be more chill about it in the future. Me freaking out about every detail won't make me more pregnant. I have done very little other than hang out on the couch and have a good ol ugly cry but I feel so much better because of everyone's kindness. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2/page/2#post-1593921 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 19:39:59 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Gigi2: Oh, I remember your story from earlier this month...I am so sorry. How are you? I completely agree...I got a not great test on Wednesday and AF just started. I am glad to be on the next cycle so I can move on. I appreciate your kind words. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2/page/2#post-1593857 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 18:59:46 +0000 LIL BEAN 1593857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: Aww. I'm so sorry to hear this. TTC really is a roller coaster - good for you to try and keep it in perspective. But also let yourself have some sad time too. I've been following your journey this cycle, and I send hugs your way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593562 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:22:45 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593562@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: Yeah, I think I just need some time to process and develop a less crazy approach to TTC. I can't do this every month. I am so sorry to hear of your loss but happy for you that you have your sticky baby. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593543 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:16:02 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1593543@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: Sadly my second loss was after we had already seen a heartbeat and had a good appointment. So it really wouldn't have mattered at all when I tested. Thankfully I am currently 23 weeks though, so like you said, you know you can get pregnant and hopefully you can get past this and move forward. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593542 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:14:29 +0000 winniebee 1593542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593539 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:13:26 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593539@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: Thank you for your support. I am not sure if you are TTC or not, but do you delay testing now due to your experiences? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593536 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:12:23 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@septca: Hugs to you, too. I am so sorry...I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy (not that I have any.) Thank you for your support, thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593524 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:10:00 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1593524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: Hugs.... its so hard because no matter when you test, your life changes instantly! And I've learned my lesson (twice now) that its just as hard no matter when it happens. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593515 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 15:08:12 +0000 simplyfelicity 1593515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you all. Since then, I have had minimal spotting. I really just want to get this "show on the road," I know that sounds awful.</p> <p>After doing some reading, it looks like I had very early miscarriage, as in the egg was fertilized and implanted but it wasn't progressing and died off. My positive tests ranged from 10dpo-14dpo so I am sure it actually implanted. It's great that I can get pregnant and I am sure it was just a chromosomal defect and stopped. I just can't stop crying...I really wanted this baby. In 6 short days, DH and I did so much planning, day dreaming, hoping and wishing.</p> <p>Anyway, I know I am not the first nor the last but I have learned my lesson about early testing the hard way and will likely wait until AF is due in the future.</p> <p> I am so sorry to hear of other Bee's loses and I appreciate all the virtual hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593361 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 14:08:11 +0000 Adira 1593361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry, hon. :crying: &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1593306 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 13:52:29 +0000 Gigi2 1593306@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: I'm so, so sorry!! This happened to me last week - it's awful. I'm thinking of you and sending you virtual hugs. For me, the bleeding started about 2.5 days after things starting look dicey on the tests. Had awful cramps before the bleeding, so I kinda figured it would start. I counted (on advice of the wonderful ladies here) the 1st day of bleeding as 1st day of next cycle. My experience was similar in the length (4-5 days bleeding) to AF, but much heavier than normal and more uncomfortable. I did go to the dr to get levels tested, and got the results (too low/negative) the same day I started bleeding.</p> <p>Thinking of you and wishing you clarity and comfort! Be kind and gentle with yourself. xo </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592501 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 10:15:07 +0000 Alivoo01 1592501@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs* I'm so sorry!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592483 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 10:12:47 +0000 Radish 1592483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you are going through this. Much :heart: your way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592304 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:45:04 +0000 yerpie110 1592304@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592292 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:42:51 +0000 coopsmama 1592292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. :( :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592288 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:41:42 +0000 LindsayInNY 1592288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>((hugs)) I really hope it's not a CP because it really sucks to go through (having been there myself). Thinking of you either way. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592147 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:13:12 +0000 Crystal 1592147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you are going through this. :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592123 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:07:02 +0000 theotherstark 1592123@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through this :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592117 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:05:46 +0000 dc yoga bee 1592117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs)). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592111 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:04:04 +0000 As Time Goes By 1592111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: I am really sorry you are going through this :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592096 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:57:53 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1592096@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww I was so sad to see this post. Sending you big hugs. A loss is a loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592031 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:42:55 +0000 mtex14 1592031@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry! I just went through a CP earlier this month.</p> <p>For me I had very faint lines on frer but I just thought it was because it was so early. On the digi never said pregnant so I thought that was a bad sign. My HCG level was low then went back to get it checked again it doubled then dropped and I started my AF - about a week later than normal. </p> <p>I'm thinking of you!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1592012 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:37:58 +0000 septca 1592012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. I am going through the exact same thing, so I know how you feel. ((hugs))</p> <p>If you don't have insurance until May 1st, I would wait it out until then. Either you'll get AF, or you can ask for a beta after the 1st. I know that seems like forever, but it's really just 6 days. I am in the same position - I have an appointment Wednesday, so I am just waiting to see what's up then. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1591965 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:27:32 +0000 LBee 1591965@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking about you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1591957 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:26:03 +0000 snowjewelz 1591957@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: Oh no, I am so sorry you are going through a cp. I hope it'll be over quickly so you can keep on trying! Hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1591803 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 07:49:32 +0000 Cherrybee 1591803@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: I was charting and I counted the 1st day of CP bleeding as Cycle Day 1. I ovulated on CD 14 as usual so for me, at least, that was correct. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1591739 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 07:29:06 +0000 Weagle 1591739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: I didn't. Actually based on some measurements and assessments my OB did, it was recommended to go ahead with a D&amp;C because of a risk of infected tissue. So we went in for that that the next day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-2#post-1591729 Fri, 25 Apr 2014 07:26:18 +0000 littlek 1591729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: I'm sorry for your loss. </p>