https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 11 May 2026 04:44:18 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883772 Wed, 08 May 2019 21:44:36 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883772@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Phillybaby2013: thank you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883759 Wed, 08 May 2019 19:43:18 +0000 Phillybaby2013 2883759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: I had breast tenderness and generally felt off for a week after. I'd say it's normal to feel symptoms as your body is getting back to normal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883747 Wed, 08 May 2019 16:22:57 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Is it normal to still be having pregnancy symptoms a few days after loss? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883689 Wed, 08 May 2019 11:02:43 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883689@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Phillybaby2013: did you still feel pregnancy symptoms after your losses? I’m feeling more and more nauseous. It’s just mean! @MsHangry: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883661 Wed, 08 May 2019 02:20:20 +0000 Phillybaby2013 2883661@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just went through this last month. I started spotting at 7dpo, got positive test on 10dpo. I got in with my Dr the next day bc of the spotting. My first beta was 14. I started bleeding at 13dpo and my 2nd beta the next day was 9. I bled for 7 days (2 days more than normal for me) and the first 4.5 were extremely heavy and I passed a lot of tissue. My cramps weren't super painful but they were constant. I physically felt awful those first couple days, very worn down. Because I was spotting from the get go and my tests weren't getting darker I didn't get too emotionally invested in the pregnancy overall. I was disappointed and had one breakdown after an event at my son's school where there were tons of pregnant Moms and I was physically at my worst. I ovulated 4 or 5 days late and am 9dpo ovulation today and hoping for the best!</p> <p>I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's a shitty club to be a part of but know that there are so many of us that have been there. Be kind to yourself and feel all the feels that you need to. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883660 Wed, 08 May 2019 01:57:18 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883660@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsHangry: I’ve literally felt all of those things all in one day. I’m an emotional wreck. One minute I feel at peace and fine, the next I can’t stop crying and the next, I’m so angry at so many things that I could scream. </p> <p>I find it odd that doctors treat early losses so nonchalantly. To me, it’s a big deal. To them, it seems like it’s nothing.</p> <p>My MIL took me to the ER last night because my doctor wouldn’t see me for bleeding. I don’t think the ER was necessary, but at least I got some quick beta results and was able to leave with a definitive answer. </p> <p>Congratulations on your BFP!! So happy for you. I hope I’ll be able to say the same soon. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883659 Wed, 08 May 2019 01:46:51 +0000 MsHangry 2883659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: well, fingers crossed I just got a BFP. This is my fourth cycle after the chemical.<br /> I missed your second question above, I did see my OBGYN a week later. Only because I had already scheduled an appointment. It was more for re-assurance than anything medical.<br /> They didn’t need to do serial bHCG bc my level was already lower than the cutoff they use for pregnancy. I did get a Rho-gam shot bc I’m Oneg and my husband is Opos. I don’t know if that is 100% needed when no gestational sac is seen on the vaginal ultrasound but, again, I wanted the re-assurance. </p> <p>I cried. A lot. I am a firm believer in whatever emotion you feel is valid. Anger/sadness/disappointment or even “this sucks but we will just try again” </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883658 Wed, 08 May 2019 00:28:27 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883658@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsHangry: thank you for your response.. I’m sorry for your loss. Were you able to conceive again after? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883657 Wed, 08 May 2019 00:16:56 +0000 MsHangry 2883657@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My bleeding/period after my chemical was the same number of days but heavier than normal. My ovulation the next cycle was delayed by 2-3 days.<br /> My lab system says positive bHCG is greater than 40 and I started bleeding and had a bHCG of 20 (I think) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/chemical-pregnancy-questions#post-2883653 Tue, 07 May 2019 22:37:13 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2883653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How long/heavy did you bleed? My bleeding has almost completely stopped a day after it started. </p> <p>What was your beta HCG when you knew you had lost the pregnancy? Mine was 4.75 at my doctor yesterday and 5.6 at the hospital last night. I know these are very low numbers. I was 18DPO.</p> <p>Did you see your OB at all after your loss? Did you have follow-up HCG blood draws? </p> <p>I’m just confused and angry and sad. </p> <p>Thank you! </p>