https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 28 May 2026 08:58:50 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060868 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:46:42 +0000 matador84 1060868@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am having a lot of anxiety about having a second. I keep thinking "how am i going to put two babies to sleep every night by myself?" "how are we going to get a routine going" etc., etc., my head is spinning!</p> <p>never thought i would say i'd be done at 2, but i think we're done at 2! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060857 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:39:35 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1060857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: but i also think i would of been done at 2 regardless if i had 2 boys. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060855 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:39:11 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1060855@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: haha touché! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060849 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:35:49 +0000 yoursilverlining 1060849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookish: I completely understand. I'm the same - babies are cute, and snuggly - - but they don't make me want to have another. I'm happy with just LO :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060843 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:33:06 +0000 Mrs. Bee 1060843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. High Heels: @Mrs. Sunglasses: easy to say when you have one of each! ;)</p> <p>i have zero desire for a third. i would have been done after two regardless of whether we had a boy or girl! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060840 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:31:30 +0000 MamaMoose 1060840@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookish: I felt that way for the first three months. I had always been crazy for babies and wanted to have three... But the first three months of my daughter's life I really didn't think I could do it again. It was so much work and I was exhausted. Plus she was so perfect I felt like I never wanted to divide my attention from her. But once she got a little older and wasn't attached to me 24 hours a day I came back around to wanting more! So never say never : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060826 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:23:06 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1060826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pen: ha! i get what you mean. it was so bad but when Sienna was born all I kept wondering was when she'd walk, or when she would talk. I love having a newborn for a few hours but I need a somewhat independent child. So i get it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060814 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:15:48 +0000 Bookish 1060814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pen: we were on the fence, honestly. We had planned to revisit in a few years, but now I'm pretty certain I'm one and done. I'm surprised, I thought having her would make me want another! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060805 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:11:46 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1060805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookish: are you one and done? My plan has always been three. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060793 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:04:13 +0000 Bookish 1060793@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pen: I was thinking today that I understand why people get baby fever for #2, because darn it, babies are cute, but I'm good. The more I'm around babies and my lovely LO, the more I want just her! I'm bass-ackwards. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060779 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 20:58:30 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1060779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Sunglasses: I only have one and eventually will want another but I have zero baby fever. </p> <p>I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever feel like I want another one?? I know I do, but I don't want a baby... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1060615 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 19:07:01 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1060615@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. High Heels: :) I think if I got pregnant accidently I would cry. I know thats horrible to say but I REALLY REALLY dont want another . lets hope I never have to face that ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1056269 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 16:16:52 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 1056269@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, you are definitely not the only one!! I am sooo two and through. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1056221 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 15:55:48 +0000 heffalump 1056221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm pregnant with my 2nd and already complaining to DH that I want another and I want to be pregnant again. He thinks I'm crazy because pregnancy and my body are not friends.... but I still love it. I'm really really sad that this will probably be my last. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1054509 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 01:22:53 +0000 googly-eyes 1054509@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Same as PPs! I feel like I'm the only one on HB though!!</p> <p>Eta not to say I NEVER will, but the reason we aren't ttc now is... "I don't wanna." Lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1053704 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 19:19:44 +0000 chopsuey 1053704@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lol! Mine lasts literally one second before I snap out of it! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1053700 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 19:18:58 +0000 Bookish 1053700@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! I'm the same. Happy for everyone else...but I'm done! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1053675 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 19:10:15 +0000 MrsH 1053675@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, you aren't the only one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1053667 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 19:08:44 +0000 yoursilverlining 1053667@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, you're not the only one! :)</p> <p>I offer legit congrats on all those BFPs, and silent "woohoo" it's not me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confession-i-have-zero-desire#post-1053637 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 19:03:11 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1053637@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always said I wanted 2 kids and thats what I have, but I sometimes here other say even if they just want 2 when they see a baby or a bump they have the desire to have another (even if its just for a few seconds) </p> <p>I on the otherhand, have ZERO desire... its simply reinforces my "I DONT WANT ANY MORE" </p> <p>Am I the only one who feels like this? </p>