https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 16:31:05 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-45264 Mon, 02 Jan 2012 22:06:49 +0000 MaisyMay 45264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I started to spot today and my temps have dropped, not below the coverline, but relatively low. I do have a phone call scheduled with my doctor tomorrow to talk about everything, but it looks like this month is over. Here's trying for October next. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-44476 Sat, 31 Dec 2011 14:47:53 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 44476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@maisymay That is so frustrating. I had a 50 day cycle back in September/October, and my temps stayed high with a triphastic pattern and everything. Everything tested negative, and it turned out to just be stress. I wonder if maybe it was a chemical pregnancy, but since I never tested positive, I'm not sure.<br /> In any case, I seriously hope that this is your month - some women never test positive on home tests, so maybe your doctor can give you some more insight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-44443 Sat, 31 Dec 2011 10:49:24 +0000 MaisyMay 44443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>16 DPO and another negative test. My temps are still high, to the point they are considered triphasic, and there has been no spotting or cramping to signify a period. I'll test again tomorrow and if still nothing by Monday, I'll try to get a dr appt to see what is going on. </p> <p>Since I miscarried in August I'm starting to be wonder if maybe it was a pregnancy that didn't take and that's why the negatives. Or maybe something else, I don't know. It's hitting the point where I just want to know, even if it's a no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43897 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 22:24:48 +0000 leelee 43897@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would definitely test again in a couple days if AF hasn't come yet. My cousin never got a bfp, went to the dr because she wasnt feeling well, they did a bloodtest and confirmed that not only was she pregnant she was already 8 weeks along!</p> <p>Goodluck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43830 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 19:54:58 +0000 MaisyMay 43830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies. I've been so grouchy lately and I know it's due to the stress of it all. We're going out with friends tonight and I am going to just chill, maybe even have a drink (still definitely debating about that one). Waiting stinks so badly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43563 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 14:29:13 +0000 Sunshine1810 43563@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope this is your cycle! My friend didn't get a BFP until 16 dpo, she had several BFN's before that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43553 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 14:20:47 +0000 MrsLilybugg 43553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>my friend didn't get a BFP until she was well past 17dpo. She even went on a drinking spree thinking she was OK (she knew about 'drink til it's pink' but she still got paranoid!) I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, I hope this is your cycle. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43482 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 13:36:45 +0000 ALittleP 43482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Try again in a couple of days. After many cycles and lots of $$$ spent on testing, I stopped testing early and only tested the day after my period was late. If it was still negative, I would wait another two days, etc. </p> <p>Good luck to you!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43349 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 11:59:22 +0000 tequiero21 43349@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaisyMay: sometimes it's just the stress alone that prolongs your period. i'm typically like a 28-29 day cycle. and every once in a blue moon, i get a 34/35 day cycle and get all excited. just to be disappointed. BUT, there's definitely hope if your DPO is the same (since you're at 12dpo and now you're at 14!) stay positive!!!! and best of luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43333 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 11:50:32 +0000 MaisyMay 43333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: I think Hubs was surprised at how expensive they really are. I know that I just need to be patient, and looking at fertilityfriend, I did see that there were several women who got the positive around day 16. I think the anticipation may be worse than getting your period some cycles. I've used a few brands of tests, and I know that it'll happen soon enough. Thanks for the support though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43308 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 11:31:31 +0000 tequiero21 43308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>try again in like 2 days. sometimes the hcg levels aren't high enough yet to be detected. or try a different test. GOOD LUCK! and btw, aww @ hubby. cute that he wants to be involved. my husband was like that too - always wanting me to test! even though these tests are so expensive! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/confused-again#post-43229 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 10:39:22 +0000 MaisyMay 43229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Today is 14 DPO, which fertilityfriend says is when I should test. Temps are going up, boobs are sore. Fertilityfriend even said it looks like I entered a triphasic pattern 5 days ago. Everything points to a BFP, but no. I got another negative.<br /> My Luteal Phase is only 12 days, and my chart looks like a textbook pregnant.<br /> Hubs actually woke me up asking if I'd test before he went to work (which I thought was adorable, that he is so eager to know). I literally have no idea what is going on with my body. Sorry for the rant. </p>