https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 15:32:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991849 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 22:11:47 +0000 MrsRoo 991849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs Hedgehog: my DH was freaked out once I started dilating too. He was even more freaked out that DTD could get labor started. He didn't want to know that that's how his daughter came into the world. Weirdo.</p> <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: hahaha, hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991407 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 19:00:02 +0000 MrsBrewer 991407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: LOL I have no other response but to laugh!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991396 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 18:56:20 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 991396@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I showed DH your posted &amp; he said he's just going to have to put it in your butt...lmao sorry I'm still snort laughing over his response! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991366 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 18:44:20 +0000 avivoca 991366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't remember the last time we DTD...I think it was in May? My husband said he isn't comfortable now that he knows who is in there. :sad: </p> <p>It's been too long. Maybe my midwife can drop a better hint than I can the closer to labor I get. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991358 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 18:39:03 +0000 hellocupcake 991358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We stopped DTD a month or so before my due date :( He just thought it was too much to feel her moving and stuff while we were busy. That plus being a week overdue and 6 week pp was way too long without it. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991291 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 18:11:57 +0000 birdofafeather 991291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH never had this idea. he actually wanted it more when i was pregnant! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991260 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:58:43 +0000 JessKas 991260@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookworm: AHAHA I think my husband is totally annoyed I just want to have sex to get the baby out!</p> <p>I think I feel more uncomfortable about DTD than my husband. It just isn't that much fun anymore! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991221 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:46:54 +0000 Bookish 991221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha DH didn't want to DTD for the last few weeks either, but I made him lol! I think he was more pissed that I wanted to use sex to get the baby out; he thought it meant I didn't want him anymore :p </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991214 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:44:20 +0000 anbanan15 991214@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope my DH is the same way! He wasn't into it with my last pregnancy and even less since we found out we are expecting a girl this time around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991204 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:41:55 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 991204@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL i'm embarrassed to say my DH felt the same way. He was also afraid to "poke" her. He refused to DTD the last few weeks after I told him the Dr. checked my cervix and said he was able to feel the baby's head. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991164 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:25:33 +0000 Grace 991164@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh that made me laugh. As if a glob is going to land on her head and he'll see it when she comes out. Having said that, dtd is so uncomfortable now that I would totally go along with it if my DH said that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991161 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:22:30 +0000 erinpye 991161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Women who've had babies before often remain a bit dilated and it's really a non-issue. There's a bag of waters protecting your baby from anything, so unless that breaks (in which case you'll be headed to the hospital/ birthing place, not DTD), he can't "get anything on her!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991158 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:21:50 +0000 Arden 991158@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well it's not like he's going to get any on her... There IS an amniotic sac between him and her! Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-has-actually-vetoed-dtd-for-the-rest-of-the-pregnancy#post-991149 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:17:25 +0000 Mrs Hedgehog 991149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We just found out this afternoon that I am 2 cm dilated. We had just been talking about how much DTD would help us get closer to going into labor. DH now refuses to because since I am partially dilated, it is just "too close for comfort". What worries him the most is the, uhm, end result of DTD. Esp since we found out that that is actually the important part! It isn't necessarily all the movement. The idea of doing all that and "getting it on her" freaks him out. Which, when you put it that way, I kinda get.</p> <p>I was looking forward to some fun and, well, useful DTD and now its no more until well after she is born!</p> <p>Is he the only one who freaked about that? </p>