https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 28 May 2026 15:30:26 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253282 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 14:40:12 +0000 rachiecakes 253282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH was never into feeling DS kick. I didn't hold it against him. Well, actually, sometimes I did, I'd walk up to him when he was sitting down and put my belly on his back so DS could kick him, haha<br /> But I didn't let it bother me that he wasn't interested in seeing/feeling him kick.<br /> He's been a WAHD since DS was 7 weeks old and everything is all about DS. They're two peas in a pod. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253228 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 14:01:04 +0000 mrbee 253228@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wasn't that into it either. It's hard to explain... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253222 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 13:52:01 +0000 howjoyful 253222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is all for feeling the baby, but his Dad will not even get close to my belly, my mother in law told me that he never touched her belly, that he would get freaked out and be scared that he would hurt them or something (She had 3) I've met guys on both ends, so dont feel bad about it!! He's probably like my father in law and he's just a little scared =] </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253175 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 13:14:50 +0000 Lozza 253175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrskc: I was an emotional wreck, so I totally got on DH's case about it, and he kind of tried to explain that for him, one kick was much like another, and that once he'd felt it a few times already, it wasn't so different. It was very cool to feel it at all, but he didn't have my "every kick is as fascinating as the first one!" obsession.<br /> Totally reasonable, but I probably still told him he was a jerk and sent him out for donuts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253156 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 13:04:21 +0000 mrskc 253156@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Lozza: You know, I don't even talk to the baby in utero, so I don't even know why I thought DH would. lol I'm like you though. I'm fascinated by feeling kicks and watching my belly move. I guess I thought my DH would feel the same. I know he will be excited about the baby once he's out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253135 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 12:45:54 +0000 wheres_c 253135@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My experience echo's @sorrycharlie: @Clementine</p> <p>SO seemed to get disheartened because I could feel it and he couldnt. This week, I forced him to try again, and he got excited because he could actually feel it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253116 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 12:30:08 +0000 plaidpants 253116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband was just like @Lozza described. He's a great, very interested dad now that our little one is "external" :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253102 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 12:17:48 +0000 heffalump 253102@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was interested and very excited.... but in his own time. I would want him to feel when LO was going crazy kicking, but he was busy doing something then so he wouldn't care so much. He didn't get that LO had a mind of her own and only wanted to do it when SHE wanted to do it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253098 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 12:15:11 +0000 Lozza 253098@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH thinks talking to pregnant bellies is goofy. To be honest, so do I :) (my grandmother once asked if we were talking to the baby in utero, and I told her it's not like we were making an effort to be quiet while he was around)<br /> He also wasn't nearly as into feeling kicks as I'd expected, or as I'd wanted him to be. I was a crazy preggo so I got mad at him about it. I was totally fascinated feeling kicks and watching my belly move, and I couldn't understand why he didn't also want to just sit around watching my belly shift and move.<br /> It doesn't mean anything about how excited a guy is about actually being a dad, though- DH probably spends more time with LO than I do, and loves being a dad. He's just way more excited about babies once they are external. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253085 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 12:05:53 +0000 Clementine 253085@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once I got really big and he could actually feel them he was way more into it. No worries, once that little kicker comes out your DH will be VERYYYYYYYYY interested in everything about your LO including stuff like poop =) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253069 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 11:56:59 +0000 cyndistar3 253069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH was more interested with my belly the first time, this time he was able ro feel her kick at 15 weeks so I guess he got bored fast. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253043 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 11:39:37 +0000 Mrs.B 253043@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH isn't super interested either. After he felt LO kick for the first time he lost all interest. He has been amazing in all other aspects of my pregnancy and he really enjoyed our anatomy scan. He will occasionally put his hand on my belly and rub but he never has talked to my belly and doesn't try to feel LO kick anymore unless I put his hand on my stomach. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253024 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 11:16:14 +0000 Mrsbells 253024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh was always excited to try and feel the kicks but he also commented that he didnt feel it very much until later in the pregnancy when you could actually see the kicks </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253019 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 11:12:01 +0000 purrpletulips 253019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>With both my pregnancies DH was mildly interested but both babies stop moving as soon as anyone but me touches my belly. They actually move away from the OB whenever he puts the doppler on to get a heartbeat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253012 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 11:07:43 +0000 mrskc 253012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: haha! I think my DH thinks I'll let him try to BF. I think I'll draw the line there! Sounds like we have some boob obsessed husbands.</p> <p>@jessiejo17: sometimes my DH will find it interesting if he sees my belly move. He'll look at it for a second and then continue on with what he was doing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-253004 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:58:48 +0000 LuLu Mom 253004@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrskc: My DH was (and at times still is) like this. He was freaked out by the kicks in the beginning, but now he likes to watch her kick through and see it move, not so much feel the actual movement. </p> <p>He also doesn't talk to my belly, he thinks it is strange and says she can hear his voice even if he's not up close! haha I guess that is partially true. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252994 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:53:49 +0000 sorrycharlie 252994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrskc: same here...I was talking about how my ribs hurt and he goes, "couple more weeks!" and I said, "then I'll have to give up my boobs!" and he goes, "for me or the baby?" he totally thinks I'm gonna let him try to BF. ummm no!! Crazy town! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252982 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:47:26 +0000 mrskc 252982@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: LOL! Yeah, he tries to squeeze it out of my boobs! I've let him taste it too. I don't even want to know what he's going to be like after we have the baby and my milk comes in. lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252981 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:46:54 +0000 MamaMoose 252981@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Often the baby will stop kicking when hubs puts his hand on my belly (I think it's because his hands are always SO warm so baby snuggles in and stops moving). So he has definitely stopped trying as much because he's rarely successful. But if I can get baby to kick for him he still gets really excited by it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252962 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:41:31 +0000 sorrycharlie 252962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrskc: LOL re: colostrum, so is my husband!!! What is up with that? He wants to watch it leak and actually asked if he could try it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252953 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:37:45 +0000 chopsuey 252953@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH loved singing and talking and feeling my LO's kicks.<br /> This time around he's not as interested.. rather, he's distracted by our LO. He has felt the baby move though a few times and has sung a couple of songs and talked to our baby2. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252951 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:36:26 +0000 mrskc 252951@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: The kicks have got pretty strong, but he does say they don't feel like much. I guess I feel it more b/c he's inside me. </p> <p>@Running Elley: Yeah that's how my DH is. He never actively seeks out wanting to feel the baby. I know he is excited about the baby, but he doesn't really care to feel the kicks. He's more interested in the colostrum leaking from my boobs! lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252949 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:35:46 +0000 sorrycharlie 252949@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Same as PPs, my husband wasn't super interested until the end of second trimester. He would get easily discouraged because I could feel things that he couldn't. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252948 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:35:24 +0000 oliviaoblivia 252948@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is interested and got upset when my sister felt a kick before he does. He puts his hands on my belly all the time even though it's still too early to feel regular strong kicks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252947 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:34:44 +0000 JessicaMcB 252947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband was obsessed with feeling her kick for months because I could feel movement but he couldn't. As soon as he felt some good kicks about two weeks ago though, he lost all interest and moved on to the nursery- he has pregnancy ADD lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252946 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:33:26 +0000 autumnlove 252946@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was not interested in the flutters and soft kicks between week 20-30. He was interested once she started kicking hard! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252944 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:32:51 +0000 Running Elley 252944@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is similar!!! He’ll never just put his hand on my belly to try to feel the baby kick. If the little guy is super active I’ll grab his hand and have him feel or have him look and see my belly moving around and he thinks that’s super cool and exciting but he never actively seeks it out. And he’s very invested in this pregnancy and has been a fantastic husband through the whole thing! He loves the baby…he just doesn’t get super into the kicks. He doesn’t talk to my belly either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252941 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:32:00 +0000 Rubies 252941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hubs was really hesitant in the beginning - I think it freaked him out a little but. But as I got further along and the kicks were getting stronger and visible, hubs began to think it was so cool. I hope he comes around soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/dh-not-very-interested-in-feeling-baby-kicks#post-252938 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 10:30:24 +0000 mrskc 252938@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I guess I had this fantasy in my head that my DH would be totally into feeling the baby kicking and talking to my belly, etc. He's just not very interested at all. Don't get me wrong, he's been amazing this whole pregnancy. Cooking me dinner, washing the dishes, doing everything on my never ending to do list for him. He's just not into feeling the baby. I guess it won't really become real for him until the baby is here. </p> <p>Was your DH/SO into feeling the baby kick? </p>