https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 23 Apr 2026 17:18:42 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2215815 Mon, 22 Jun 2015 21:42:18 +0000 ChasingARainbow 2215815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@KatieBklyn: you all have given me hope! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214701 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 19:28:56 +0000 delight 2214701@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You have a great shot for sure. My pregnancies have all been 3 days before O. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214659 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 17:59:53 +0000 JenGirl 2214659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: We were having sex every other day when I got pregnant. Sperm can live several days, so I think you've got a good shot! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214657 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 17:57:50 +0000 catomd00 2214657@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think the timing sounds pretty good!! Good luck!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214654 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 17:56:08 +0000 travelgirl1 2214654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My fertility clinic used to advise BD on the day before and day of ovulation. I remember once I must have ovulated overnight and couldn't BD until the next night, but we got pregnant that time! So :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214653 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 17:48:43 +0000 SugarplumsMom 2214653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I also think your timing was perfect. When I was pregnant with LO, it was a few days before I ovulated. Fx! :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214609 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 15:02:39 +0000 mrsrugbee 2214609@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I conceived DD with only one BD in O-2. Anything is possible! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214596 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 14:18:13 +0000 KatieBklyn 2214596@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Two days before ovulation is actually the BEST timing for conception. One day before ovulation is the second best. Look at this chart!</p> <p><a href="http://www.factsaboutpregnancy.org/what-are-the-most-fertile-days-to-get-pregnant/" rel="nofollow">http://www.factsaboutpregnancy.org/what-are-the-most-fertile-days-to-get-pregnant/</a></p> <p>Your timing couldn't have been more perfect. I hope this month is it for you! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214584 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 13:17:26 +0000 ChasingARainbow 2214584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MoonMoon: thank you! That gives me hope. And congrats! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214579 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 13:01:07 +0000 yellowbird 2214579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: we only bd one time and I got a bfp! Also, did you take anymore opks? Are they still positive or negative? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214574 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 12:53:44 +0000 MaryM 2214574@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh and I only BD every three days and I still got knocked up. Do what you can. There's so much beyond our control! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214569 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 12:41:47 +0000 Foodnerd81 2214569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lots of people BD every other day during their fertile time. I think you have as good a chance as you could! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214567 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 12:40:26 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 2214567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sperm can live a few days so there's a chance you could still get pregnant even if you don't BD tonight. FX </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214566 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 12:39:39 +0000 MoonMoon 2214566@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't have PCOS, but the cycle where I conceived, I think we BD before I ever got a positive ovulation test, then we fought and didn't BD any more! I thought I could write that month off but sure enough, I was pregnant. I guess bodies can surprise us! Just offering some positive thoughts for you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-i-just-screw-it-all-up#post-2214557 Sun, 21 Jun 2015 11:59:34 +0000 ChasingARainbow 2214557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I'm really freaking out right now! Let me try to make it short. So I have pcos and as you know I rarely O. I've tried Femara with no real success. After TTC for over two years I completely gave up about two months ago. No more temping, opks, or meds. I was done being disappointed. So, starting about five days ago I started feeling cramps in my uterus and thought maybe I would be starting AF soon which is a rare event for me. (I can go many months without a period) Anyway, my DH works long hours sometimes out of town. On Friday which happened to be cd30 we BD'd before he went to work. (He works nights) So, last night I was complaining about the discomfort in my uterus while talking on the phone with him and he said maybe I was ovulating. I didn't think so, but he suggested I test anyway. Well plain as day right there it was a super dark positive opk! Now here is my dilemma. This morning I felt a pinch in my right ovary which I suspect was the egg releasing and my husband won't be home until 7:30pm tonight! Today is cd32. Is it possible that I have a good chance even if I missed BD on cd31 and is BD tonight to late? I'm kicking myself for not listening to my body earlier and not BD on cd31. Last time I O'd was back in December 2014 and I'd hate myself if I totally blew my chance. </p>