https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 23 Oct 2026 14:07:25 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-194223 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 15:46:09 +0000 StbHisMrs 194223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She really is an awful person, and is in no place to judge anyone. My Grandpa is her 6th "victim" widowed 5 times... </p> <p>We don't claim her as part of our family, I know that sounds harsh but I could spend a year telling you all the horrid things she has said and done. I should consider the source but that just took the cake. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-194096 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 14:43:54 +0000 Mrs. Pen 194096@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh my gosh how awful. So sorry you had to go thru that. I would bawl my eyes out if someone commented on my weight right now </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-194050 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 14:26:23 +0000 sslm 194050@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>wow, what an awful woman! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-194033 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 14:17:38 +0000 autumnlove 194033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yuck! Sorry she is part of your family! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-194023 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 14:10:52 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 194023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-193998 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 13:55:33 +0000 ladyfingers 193998@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh, what a bitch. I'm sorry you have to deal with that :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-193994 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 13:51:04 +0000 ninja 193994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow...just wow. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-193993 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 13:50:57 +0000 LuLu Mom 193993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes, sounds like a very unpleasant woman. I would just ignore her, as you seem to not have any pleasant feelings toward her! She isn't someone worth getting upset over! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-193990 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 13:48:52 +0000 Sweet T 193990@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow! What a bitch! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-she-really-say-that-to-me-oh-yes-she-did#post-193986 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 13:46:55 +0000 StbHisMrs 193986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Quick background -<br /> My Grandma passed away about 17 years ago, my Grandpa remarried about 6 years later (he married the woman he had an affair with 40 years prior, despite our clear warnings GOLD DIGGER.) He has lost everything he worked for, he had acreage in one of the fastest growing cities in the metro area (Beaverton/Aloha for those familiar with Oregon). He could've subdivided and made millions. Instead she made him sell it for $150,000 on contract, which they quit making payments to him. She took it and spent on her home... ANYWAYS, we don't claim her as family she's NUTSO! Now his health is really failing him, he's been in the hospital numerous times this year. He doesn't remember that he's married to her.</p> <p>My Mom and I took him out for Father's Day breakfast and his wife tagged along. In typical fashion they were an hour and a half late and both arguing, it was real pleasant. I got up to use the restroom and she grabbed my arm and said<br /> "Well I'll be, it looks like you decided to finally gain some weight, when are you going to lose it?"<br /> I said "I didn't decide to gain it, I just haven't lost all my baby weight yet, thanks for pointing that out."<br /> She ask what I've been doing to lose it and I told her between sleepless nights I was trying to do the 30 day shred.<br /> She told me that it obviously wasn't working. When I came back she said,<br /> "Well I always thought you were too skinny, you look great" Really woman? You just called me fat in front of my kids and a room full of strangers, now you say I look better!!! </p> <p>At my baby shower at 7 months pregnant, she told me she couldn't wait to see me skinny again. Not I can't wait to see the baby, just I can't wait to see you skinny again.</p> <p>I was in shock. My Mom and my son told her that I'm super self-conscience these days and to keep in mind that I have a baby. It was all I could do to keep myself from punching her in the nose! Seriously I have 2" extra on my waist and I'm 7lbs above my pre-pregnancy weight. </p>