https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Apr 2026 03:39:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137674 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 17:51:39 +0000 Lozza 137674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't get over the feeling that it's basically announcing a detail of your sex life, and that just seems weird to me. So no, no "pulling the goalie tonight, baby!" announcements. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137665 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 17:47:58 +0000 Boogs 137665@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Honeybee: #3!! :)</p> <p>We didn't say anything to anyone the first time and we for sure wouldn't in the future either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137657 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 17:43:30 +0000 MsLipGloss 137657@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. We didn't tell anyone we were trying for this baby, so we won't do it for the next (if there is one), either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137651 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 17:40:04 +0000 shoemama 137651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes we did and it caused sooo much stress! i would recommend not telling...it took us 6 months and everything month was more and more pressure </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137478 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:48:09 +0000 chopsuey 137478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha. We weren't trying or preventing and got pregnant with #2. We've already told everyone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137476 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:46:52 +0000 Honeybee 137476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I told one friend when we decided to TTC #2; I'll probably tell her again when we start on #3. ;) I can trust her, and I need someone to outlet to! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137470 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:43:03 +0000 SAHM0811 137470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hinted at it with a few close girlfriends. I just said that I thought we were ready again for another and we wanted to have a baby in the next year coming up, which was true since at that point it was the start of fall. I didn't tell them I was using OPKs and temping or anything. That would've made myself feel a lot more pressure to conceive than there was already! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137459 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:35:31 +0000 sulli301 137459@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were not trying but not preventing but we didn't tell anyone! I told HB &amp; one close friend but no family or anyone else. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137451 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:32:12 +0000 heffalump 137451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: I thought we would do the NTNT thing for our first.... but I'm too much of a planner for that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137449 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:31:36 +0000 heffalump 137449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: I'm not a drinker so I never had an issue with that. Plus, people know alcohol is a big migraine trigger for me so I only take a sip maybe once every 6 months. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137431 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:25:43 +0000 mrsjyw 137431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>we're jsut pregnant with our first so this is a long times away, but dh and i decided that we'd take a ntnt journey with our 2nd and (maybe) 3rd, so we wont tell ppl that we're "trying" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137355 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:56:07 +0000 Mrs. Bee 137355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>nope because we got pregnant the first month we tried with olive. if it had taken longer, i might have told esp if i couldn't drink during the 2ww. they'd be suspicious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137346 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:43:17 +0000 heffalump 137346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: lol, nope! Id love to, but dh wants the age gap between lo and our next to be a little bigger. She's only 9 months old! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137344 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:41:13 +0000 oliviaoblivia 137344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: You're going to tell us though right? I promise not to stare at your belly. ;)</p> <p>@artbee: By the title, I totally assumed this was your sneaky way of announcing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137337 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:37:20 +0000 Rubies 137337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're not TTC for #2 yet but when we do, I won't be telling anyone about it. I wouldn't want friends staring at my belly and wondering like that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-tell-peoplewhen-you-started-ttc-with-your-second#post-137330 Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:36:27 +0000 heffalump 137330@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My friend told me when she was going to ttc. She didn't have any problems getting pregnant the first time so I guess she felt ok doing it. Sure enough she did get pregnant right away... but before she told us I was constantly watching for different eating habits, a growing belly, etc. I don't want people constantly wondering about me like that. Plus I'm extra paranoid because ive miscarried.</p> <p>Fyi, no I'm not ttc yet. I wish :) </p>