https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 25 May 2026 10:41:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628944 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 18:24:14 +0000 HLK208 628944@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not a MILF but I put effort in (minus working out, I only work out twice a week). I always wear make-up, I dress okay, I take showers...but I don't go tanning anymore or get my nails done and I could put more effort into dieting so I have potential! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628520 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 13:29:37 +0000 Pink Champagne 628520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I work 5 days a week in a professional office- I HAVE to look pulled together, and that includes wearing makeup. Even on the weekends, I might not wash my hair but I always shower, and I'll put my hair in a cute top knot or ponytail, and I always wear makeup unless we spend the whole day at home.</p> <p>My body is back to pp weight, but I confess that it is a lot harder to get to the gym than before. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628370 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 11:30:52 +0000 meredithNYC 628370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rainbow Sprinkles: Same here. Body could use a little help (and I'm working on that!), but I am still pretty pulled together and haven't changed much on that front since post-baby. </p> <p>I just keep telling myself that it's not an option to be a slob. BUT, I will say that I'm sure it's a lot harder once you have more than 1 child. So I guess I'll have to check in with myself if/when that happens. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628293 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 10:41:53 +0000 Andrea 628293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think I ever thought I would be a MILF anyway! I have not been trying very hard lately but I will again once #2 is a bit older. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628289 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 10:39:54 +0000 bushelandapeck 628289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@PrincessBaby: Same here. I still wear makeup and at least blow dry my hair everyday, even though I'm a SAHM. I just don't feel good about myself if I don't put the effort in. My body could use a little tune up, but I am pretty happy with it, all things considered. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628262 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 10:23:14 +0000 mjane 628262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: for REALS. WHERE is my heather-scented breeze??? Love this, so true. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628164 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 09:27:27 +0000 Dandelion 628164@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've always been pretty low maintenance. I'll probably be more MILF material after this LO than I was with ds, cause I've only gained 10 pounds this whole pregnancy, and I started at a lower weight than I did with dd.</p> <p>Plus, having a girl means I'll have to be a little more girly, I think. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628137 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 09:08:05 +0000 PrincessBaby 628137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rainbow Sprinkles: I'm with you! I think I keep it together pretty damn well post baby! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628127 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 09:02:34 +0000 maybebaby 628127@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TurtleDoves: That sounds like my plan...I have a maxi dress that I feel like is loose and comfy enough for PP--did you wear it home!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-628013 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 07:21:06 +0000 Cherrybee 628013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hahahaha!!! This is such a funny title for a thread!!! </p> <p>I have no idea what I'm going to be like when baby is here but I totally thought I'd rock pregnancy more that I do! I had visions of me being this willowly, beautiful creature, bedecked in bangles and long, billowing skirts, with a compact, basketball bump, flowing locks of thick luscious pregnancy hair blowing in the heather-scented breeze. Instead, I seem to be carrying baby in my ass as much as my tummy, my skin is revolting and I was waddling by 4 months (darn you SPD). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627912 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 02:26:39 +0000 Mrs. Popcorn 627912@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I never really wore makeup pre-baby and now I feel like I could crack a mirror without it. In a way, I feel more put together post-baby because I'm more aware of what a hot mess disaster I'll be if I don't put on concealer and "jujj" my hair a bit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627894 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 01:13:27 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 627894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Honestly....I think I am stiff competition for my pre baby self. I still dress well and wear full makeup and style my hair every day. I still wear heels and get dressed up. My body could use some help but tbh I am not too motivated right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627865 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 00:35:11 +0000 Mrs. Pen 627865@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>ummm well I was never particularly MILF material... I mean I was (still am somewhat) attractive but I didn't go all out with getting dressed nicely, makeup and hair done up. I usually looked put together but nothing more than that except for special occasions. </p> <p>I definitely thought it would be easier to tone up this pp baby pooch... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627796 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:38:44 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 627796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Confetti: yes! I didn't even need makeup before. Now I'm addicted to coffee &amp; concealer </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627795 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:37:43 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 627795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well I brought all my makeup &amp; a size small maxi dress to the hospital with me to deliver. So, apparently a bit on a delusional side...<br /> I am disappointed in myself 4.5m later. By the time LO is 6m I hope to have my body back (I lost all weight but need some work still) but even then: I'll need a haircut, a tan...a few new wardrobe peices ... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627792 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:34:23 +0000 MusicaV 627792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I still make an effort to dress nicely. It will be easier when I don't have to wear nursing-friendly clothes all of the time and worry about how much spit-up I'll get on them.</p> <p>I lost the baby weight, but my hair is a mess. I pull it back all the time so that A doesn't grab it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627784 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:25:15 +0000 jh524 627784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry,I was totally kidding and love that you @lawbee11: answered me!! Ha!!! Wouldn't we all love to be a milf!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627780 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:21:45 +0000 lawbee11 627780@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jh524: Mother I'd Like to F (I think you can guess what the F stands for!) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627764 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 23:08:56 +0000 mrsmate 627764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I definitely have the harried mom thing going on, the opposite of a milf. I dress so bad my sister threatens to nominate me for what not to wear. She's a mom herself and says I have no excuse for how I look. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627695 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 22:28:10 +0000 jh524 627695@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What's a MILF? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627686 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 22:24:25 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 627686@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Confetti: agreed, I wear more makeup now. I did think I'd be MILFier, I kinda miss turning heads. Whatevs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627642 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 21:54:12 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 627642@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I've been able to keep up with my pre-baby self. I wore makeup everyday for work pre-baby, so I think that working full time after I had DD put pressure on me to keep up w/ myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627559 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 21:25:32 +0000 Mrs. Confetti 627559@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pre-baby, I could go out without make-up and not worry about it. Now, I look like I'm half dead without at least a little concealer under my eyes. Must. Get. More. Sleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627552 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 21:23:25 +0000 yin 627552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I care even less now about how I look in public. I figure my LO is my excuse, but then I saw so many mothers today at the zoo who had a face full of makeup and kept up hair with their tight yoga pants on. They made me look like a hot mess. Maybe one day I'll start caring again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627461 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:58:30 +0000 stargal 627461@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>heck yes! i always thouhgt i would bounce back so easily. HA! just lost all the baby weight now and my stomach is sooo torn up....<br /> im trying to dress up more though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627454 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:56:03 +0000 mrs. wagon 627454@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I make very little effort to dress up (I'm mostly about comfort at this point, with all the stuff I'm usually schlepping) but I do make more of an effort with makeup and hair (mostly because I'm getting old and if I don't make the effort, I feel like I look really horrible) and accessories (because hey, they're fun!). Maybe 15 lbs from now I'll be a little more MILFy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627453 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:55:56 +0000 Bao 627453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh heck yeah. I miss my pre baby self as far as looks go but she has become more of a priority. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627451 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:55:05 +0000 rachiecakes 627451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I totally thought I would wear my pre-preg jeans out of the hospital.<br /> I've always been small but pregnancy kicked my butt! The swelling from pre-e was unreal. I never in my life thought that it was possible to be the weight I was when I delivered. </p> <p>As far as PP style - sometimes I *gasp* leave the house without makeup. But never without mascara.<br /> And I don't fully style my hair every day like I used to. I definitely thought I'd have time/make time for that. Boy was I wrong! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627447 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:54:11 +0000 chopsuey 627447@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hoping to be more MILF-like once I lose my prebaby weight (19lbs to go). :D </p> <p>Anyway, you're still hot even when you're makeupless, hair thrown up &amp; wearing glasses! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-think-you-would-be-more-of-a-milf-than-you-are#post-627439 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 20:50:43 +0000 Mrs. Bee 627439@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pre-kids I wore makeup a couple times a week, and always when I went out. Post-Charlie, I would wear makeup a couple times a month, still attempt to dress cute, and always when I went out. Post-Olive, I almost never wear makeup even when I go out, and I make no effort to dress up.</p> <p>I thought I would be more of a MILF, but I am such a hobo that it makes me a little sad. I really want to at least put some effort in once a week, but it just seems so far down on the priority list as a parent of two.</p> <p>Did you think you would be more of a MILF than you are? Or have you kept up with your hot pre-baby ways? </p>