https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 14 Apr 2026 10:31:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058846 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 16:36:52 +0000 MrsSCB 2058846@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: omg, that is insane and awful! :shocked: what is with these women who become insane MILs?? My ILs are normal, thank goodness, but a lot of my friends' MILs seem totally BSC. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058833 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 16:16:10 +0000 Dandelion 2058833@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There were never any issues with my in-laws, but my mom likes dh a lot better now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058809 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:45:46 +0000 Espion 2058809@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: Wut. If you'd like me to kick her in the shins and call her fat, I'm available. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058800 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:32:32 +0000 rachiecakes 2058800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope!<br /> @oliviaoblivia: you're not alone - my MIL used to "uck blah, you're still breastfeeding?" when he was 2 months old. She barely speaks English, is 80 and from Indonesian.<br /> She also said she was glad I had a boy because she "prefers boys"<br /> Um okay </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058787 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:15:10 +0000 pui 2058787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: wow. Pardon my French, but what a bitch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058785 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:14:19 +0000 pui 2058785@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My in-laws and I already got along well. I feel though like my position in DH's family is more secure now though, if that makes sense. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058782 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:12:45 +0000 birdofafeather 2058782@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: What the hell?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058778 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:08:20 +0000 namaste 2058778@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: Ugh my MIL continues to be awful as well. Now she comes around all of the time to make sure her granddaughter, you know the one she wasn't excited about...her only one, is still alive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058691 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 13:13:37 +0000 coopsmama 2058691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: There are no words. :shocked: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058674 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 12:50:17 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2058674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: yeah. She's a peach. :meh: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058657 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 12:30:12 +0000 mrbee 2058657@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: Groceries?!?! Does she say that to your face?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058638 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 11:59:40 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2058638@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. :sad: MIL calls me groceries because that's all I'm good for...breastfeeding her grand babies.<br /> She still hasn't said anything to me about #2, she'll be six weeks on Monday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058636 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 11:55:51 +0000 yin 2058636@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>They always accepted me, but I think they have a greater respect for me now that I'm a mother. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058588 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 10:44:47 +0000 sorrycharlie 2058588@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>kind of! after I had my older daughter there was a lot of friction and drama with them. but once that was hashed out, things got better. they're MUCH better this time around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058504 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 08:29:40 +0000 mrscobee 2058504@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My in laws hate me for not having kids yet, so I am sure they will! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058478 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 07:54:51 +0000 reyorra 2058478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This wasn't a challenge this I faced with my in laws, but I do think the relationship between my husband and my mom improved when our daughter was born. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-in-laws-accept-you-more-after-you-had-kids#post-2058477 Sat, 07 Feb 2015 07:48:22 +0000 mrbee 2058477@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine were pretty accepting after we got married, but it was a whole new level after we had one and then two kids! </p>