Hellobee Boards Topic: Do people ask if you are done having kids?

Hellobee Boards Topic: Do people ask if you are done having kids? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 22 May 2026 16:56:44 +0000 marionberry on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2108044 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 21:53:05 +0000 marionberry 2108044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Constantly lately. I have one son and am due with twin boys any day now, so everyone who sees me asks first about when the twins are due and then if I'll be having any more. I want to ask, can I get through these ones first?! MOMTOLITTLEB on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2108035 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 21:45:30 +0000 MOMTOLITTLEB 2108035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Sometimes and I don't really have an answer. I'm not currently trying but I'm not ready to say I'm done! The dental hygienist asked during my cleaning last week. Tough question to answer while your teeth are being cleaned so I just said "We are for now!" erinpye on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2108023 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 21:29:17 +0000 erinpye 2108023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Nope. I'd gladly tell them a resounding "yes I'm done thankyouverymuch" if asked, though. birdofafeather on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107854 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 19:18:22 +0000 birdofafeather 2107854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ yes, but i don't have an issue with it because we want more! Kimberlybee on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107720 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 16:10:31 +0000 Kimberlybee 2107720@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @autumnlove: yay 3 girls! Congratulations!!! I would love a house full of girls. LOL Mrs. High Heels on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107714 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 16:07:31 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 2107714@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Yep, all the time even though we have one of each. autumnlove on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107141 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 08:44:16 +0000 autumnlove 2107141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Hmm, I think lots of people assume we want a 4th because we will have 3 girls. Mrs. Pen on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107123 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 08:36:42 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2107123@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Yes, but not too frequently. I think it will come more when I graduate because people knew I wasn't going to get pregnant while in school littlebug on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107103 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 08:25:49 +0000 littlebug 2107103@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Modern Daisy: Same. Since D was like 9 months old. NO. And if I told them that we were most likely 1 and done, I got a whole litany of reasons why that's a terrible idea. Why do people feel it's ok to comment on your family plans? Are you going to pay for my 2 kids in daycare? I didn't think so. Shut your hole. LuLu Mom on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107100 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 08:23:14 +0000 LuLu Mom 2107100@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'm 38 weeks pregnant and I get asked all the time if this is our last or if we are going to "try for a boy." I hate this comment more than anything, if we have a 3rd it's not to "get a boy" it's because we feel like our family is not complete and we want to expand. Anagram on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107027 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 07:18:37 +0000 Anagram 2107027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Only by my husband--who used to be 100% 2 and through and is ALREADY talking about having a 3rd now. I'm going to throw a shoe at him if he keeps bringing it up while I'm in the throes of morning sickness. :silly: Modern Daisy on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2107022 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 07:16:14 +0000 Modern Daisy 2107022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ No. They just say "time for #2!" loudly. I don't want to think about the responses i would get if we said we were done. JCCovi on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106994 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 06:36:49 +0000 JCCovi 2106994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Every day! I have one of each so they're always thrown off when I say probably not! blackbird on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106980 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 06:09:18 +0000 blackbird 2106980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ people ask but most think that one of each is ideal, so they expect us to be done. lamariniere on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106953 Fri, 13 Mar 2015 04:13:05 +0000 lamariniere 2106953@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @chopsuey: Same here! We are done at two but EVERYONE asks when we are going for a 3rd! 2littlepumpkins on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106449 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:36:08 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2106449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We only have one but people ask how many more we plan to have. I'm not shy about the fact that we want to be done after two though! HLK208 on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106446 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:34:22 +0000 HLK208 2106446@https://boards.hellobee.com/ It seems like I get asked this every day! "so are you done at 3? Or will you go for more?" Ugh. chopsuey on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2106443 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:32:38 +0000 chopsuey 2106443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ All the time! Everyone knows we're done now! Boogs on "Do people ask if you are done having kids?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-people-ask-if-you-are-done-having-kids#post-2104175 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:30:00 +0000 Boogs 2104175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I get asked this question so frequently. In fact, while still pregnant I often got asked when we were having the next. I have two boys and people keep asking because they think we "want to try for a girl." The thing is, my heart always wanted boys, and we always wanted two kids. We are so happy with our family and have no plans to change a thing about it. Do people like to ask about your family plans?