https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 15:15:55 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-530445 Sun, 27 Jan 2013 20:36:39 +0000 Bao 530445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We rarely have full blown fights, maybe 1-2 times a year? We will argue/bicker and get pissed at each other though. We learned it is all about communication and HOW we word things that really make a huge difference. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-530439 Sun, 27 Jan 2013 20:34:52 +0000 mlm2934 530439@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are full blown fighters. But working on it! :) the older we get, the less we have them </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525750 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 21:26:05 +0000 MrsStar 525750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've never had a fight, if one of us annoys the other to the point that we're (mainly me) pee'd off then I tend to go quiet and process everything by myself (eg. process why I'm upset and what the other person could've done differently) then when I'm ready I'll approach dh, apologise, and then we'll talk and then it's forgotten about straight away. I tend to close up when yelling is involved. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525726 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 21:22:24 +0000 Alivoo01 525726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I probably pick on the hubby more than I should (telling him to pick up his clothes, quit leaving dishes every where, etc.), but I've tried to be better about how to tell him to do it instead of "nagging" at him. We also very rarely ever argue, but when we do, it gets pretty ugly. However, the hubby is great about making sure we never go to bed upset. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525630 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 21:00:34 +0000 Smurfette 525630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have never had a full blown out fight. We might get mad at each other but never yell or scream at each other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525591 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 20:53:53 +0000 Mrs. Grizzly Bear 525591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We rarely have fully blown out fights. Usually, we have a lot of little fights in a row. We'll fight about one thing, take a break. Cook supper, play with Henry. Then we'll come back and try to talk out our thought process or feelings about it all. If that doesn't solve it, we tend to take another break and then have one last stab at it before letting it drop. We try not to go to bed angry, although we'll often go to bed annoyed if we're still on separate sides of the fence...</p> <p>So what we miss in heat, we make up in longevity I guess? We just don't have time to have a full row with yelling and stuff so we string it along until it gets resolved or forgotten. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525587 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 20:52:29 +0000 winniebee 525587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We pick and snap more since having LO but dont have any real blow outs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-dh-pick-at-each-other-or-have-full-blown-fights#post-525580 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 20:50:51 +0000 T.H.O.U. 525580@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We used to rarely pick or have fights but now it seems like with the stress of the baby we are picking at each other more and more. Usually we just get over it but now I guess because of stress we aren't getting over it and its turning into bigger fights. </p> <p>We just need some focus on better communication. Any other suggestions? Does this happen to you? </p>