https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 12 Apr 2026 15:05:31 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-921275 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 07:25:41 +0000 mediagirl 921275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not usually. Last night, he was in bed at 8. I was downstairs doing housework and watching TV. These days, I'm not going to bed until 10 even though I have to get up at 5:30. Too much housework to be done! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-921249 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 07:13:46 +0000 Happygal 921249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's more of a night owl and will stay up later than me. I prefer to go to bed at the same time though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-921242 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 07:06:33 +0000 chanzi 921242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Rarely. I just like going to bed earlier than he does. It was definitely hard for me to get used to though! I like when we're on vacation and go to bed at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-919674 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 13:24:18 +0000 sarac 919674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, never. He's a big night owl, and I'm more normal. He'll come to bed and snuggle with me a bit, or sometimes come and read a book or pull out his laptop. But it's rare that we'll go to sleep at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-919593 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 13:02:58 +0000 keiki_mama 919593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! We rarely go to bed at the same time and it bugs me. I wake up early for work and go to bed by 9:30, he's a night owl and will go to bed no sooner than midnight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-919585 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 13:01:35 +0000 JessKas 919585@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time, no. I like to go to bed between 9-10 and he stays up until midnight or later most nights. Sometimes I'd like to stay up later, but it seems no matter what time I go to bed, I'm up around 6/6:30. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918880 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 09:39:50 +0000 MrsF 918880@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I used to be the night owl and would occasionally stay up later. Now that we have a baby waking up between 5:30 and 6 every morning we both go to bed at 10 or 10:30 so we get enough sleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918847 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 09:24:49 +0000 fussygal 918847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@delight: haha, me too! on the rare nights he's in bed before me I bug the crap out if him to come to bed with me lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918667 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:37:58 +0000 Alivoo01 918667@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say 98% of the time, yes! If we're out late individually, we'll try to stay up for the other to come home then go to bed together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918652 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:35:18 +0000 MrsKoala 918652@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time. If not, he's still up and I'm in bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918641 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:30:22 +0000 Turd Ferguson 918641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ehhh, it depends. If he's actually home for a few days/weekends, no, he'll stay up later and watch tv. If he's home and catching an early flight the next day, then he'll usually go to bed at the same time I do (around 9:45-10:00ish). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918555 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:08:20 +0000 Crisark 918555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's rare that we do go to bed together.<br /> He likes to stay up later than I do so I am in bed normally an hour or so after the baby goes to bed.<br /> Lately he has been falling alseep on the couch and I wake him when I go to work for him to go to bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918551 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:07:15 +0000 delight 918551@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We don't. He likes to stay up very late. Sometimes I find it hard to fall asleep without him so ill keep bugging him to come upstairs though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918545 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:05:16 +0000 Mrs. Twine 918545@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not since I've been writing for Hellobee! I used to always go to bed at the same time as him, but now I stay up later some nights to write or get other things done. I've always been a bit of a night owl, so it works for me to sometimes stay up for a while. It also allows us to do something together until he goes to bed, which is really nice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918536 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:02:53 +0000 FarmWifeGina 918536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time, yes, or within a half hour of each other. But even if there's less than 30 minutes between going to bed, the first is always fast asleep before the other one gets there. And that's usually before 10. We're tired people, I guess. Once upon a time I was a night owl and loved to stay up to work on stuff into the wee hours of the morning, but the kiddos are early birds like Farmer Man is and I need a full 7 or 8 hours of asleep, so my sleep schedule has adjusted to theirs. It makes me sad though. I miss my late nights. That's when my creative juices are flowing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918533 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 08:02:43 +0000 LuLu Mom 918533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say 90% of the time we go to bed at the same time (pregnancy not included!) Sometimes DH will stay up later if he's not tired at our normal bed time, but usually we crawl into bed at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918496 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:51:46 +0000 mrs. bird 918496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>99% of the time </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918469 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:43:24 +0000 Mrs Hedgehog 918469@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since I work nights at the end of the week, I either going to bed when he is waking up our, on my weekends, I go to bed with him. I may get up at some point during the night but it is important for us to already have a couple days a week when we get to share that oh so wonderful pillow talk. You really do miss out when you can't have it as often as you like. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918437 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:32:57 +0000 MrsTiz 918437@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, every night </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918358 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:13:56 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 918358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes. DH usually works a few hours every night. So he will either take a cat nap with me when I go to bed or just come to bed later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918329 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:00:26 +0000 sslm 918329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, always! There is the rare occasion, usually during football season, when he stays up late and I go to bed. Maybe 3 times a year lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918306 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 06:46:01 +0000 butterbean 918306@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yea...we're in bed at the same time to usually decompress and relax...and sometimes i'll pass out before he does :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918301 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 06:42:56 +0000 Weagle 918301@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep. It's rare that we go to bed without each other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918205 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 04:33:39 +0000 Ra 918205@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Right now, with a newborn, we sleep in shifts. Regularly, I go to bed around 10-11 pm and he goes to bed around 1-2 am. Most of the time he falls asleep on the couch though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918180 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 03:00:18 +0000 yin 918180@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. We go to bed between 11 and 12. I can't seem to sleep easily unless he is by my side. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918160 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 01:53:34 +0000 mynoahbear 918160@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH goes to bed earlier than me. He has to get up early plus I'm a night owl so I just can't sleep that early. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918157 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 01:50:19 +0000 MamaMagpie 918157@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We don't! DH gets up at 4:30/5:00am for work and I don't have to be up till 7:00 and work from home till about 10:00 so he goes to bed much earlier than me. I'm sure that will change once LO arrives! I do "tuck him in" every night, though :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918152 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 01:42:45 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 918152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>99.9 percent of the time, yes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918146 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 01:26:22 +0000 Penny Lane 918146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>always. i don't know why but i hate going to bed without him. the only exception is when i'm pregnant! </p> <p>normally we go to bed around 10 or 11, but when i'm pregnant (especially 1st and 2nd tri) I want to go to bed at 7pm every night. I manage to hold out til LO is in bed (9ish) these days, and I don't even know when DH rolls in because I'm out like a light!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time-3#post-918130 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 00:45:25 +0000 MaisyMay 918130@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes. A lot of the time I stay up later to pump or finish something I'm working on. He gets up 2-3 hours before me though. </p>