https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 12 May 2026 07:55:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124741 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 13:16:39 +0000 mrsjyw 124741@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're the same! We're a mix of both! On our honeymoon, we made sure to plan our excursions and did a lot of activities. </p> <p>On our anniversary trip, we both just wanted to relax and just did one snorkeling excursion. </p> <p>Depending on how we want the trip to be, we can be researchers/planners or just laid-back go with the flow travelers! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124691 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 12:49:52 +0000 Lozza 124691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, we are SO travel incompatible. I memorize guidebooks and websites and other data, and want to see EVERYTHING and eat at places that were pre-determined to be really good. DH just wants to hang out.<br /> We actually find that we do best if, when we travel together, we hit up places that I'm already familiar with, so I feel less like I need to pack an itinerary full of stuff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124679 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 12:46:03 +0000 heffalump 124679@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We used to be different. I was very go go go, and he just likes to relax on the beach. Now I also appreciate the relaxation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124398 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 11:04:49 +0000 Mrs Sorbet 124398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope...he wants something planned every minute and I am the laid back one who wants to just go with the flow. :P</p> <p>We do both like to do things "off the beaten path," though. We always do a few touristy things but usually try to act like locals lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124376 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:57:03 +0000 mediagirl 124376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@PBandBaseball: I do like how you told him he would have 3 hours of downtime during the game. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124372 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:55:12 +0000 PBandBaseball 124372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: haha. I compromised on our honeymoon and planned activities for every other day. It worked out pretty well but there were definitely things that we didn't get a chance to do because of time. I think I might try that for this trip too. Maybe have mornings free or something like that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124371 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:55:05 +0000 chopsuey 124371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I have the same style. We're both laid back and like to see how things go. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124368 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:53:12 +0000 mediagirl 124368@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@PBandBaseball: ha! You and I are alike and so are our husbands. He would rather plan nothing on vacation and just veg or see how things go. I need to always be on the go!</p> <p>That being said, on our honeymoon, I let go and it was wonderful. We did nothing while on the ship and we both enjoyed it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-and-your-so-have-the-same-vacation-style#post-124350 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:47:12 +0000 PBandBaseball 124350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are going to Boston for Memorial Day weekend and I am super excited to visit a new city. The hubs has asked that I not plan too much for us to do while we're there. I am a big planner and he would rather just show up and see what happens. I told him that he can have 3 hours of downtime during the Red Sox game we're going to! I'm trying to keep my planning in check but it's tough.</p> <p>Do you and your SO have the same vacation style, or is one of you more eager to plan things out? </p>