Hellobee Boards Topic: Do you argue more with the SO since baby?

Hellobee Boards Topic: Do you argue more with the SO since baby? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 20:38:21 +0000 Mrs. Bee on "Do you argue more with the SO since baby?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-argue-more-with-the-so-since-baby#post-1896 Fri, 30 Sep 2011 21:56:20 +0000 Mrs. Bee 1896@https://boards.hellobee.com/ i think the fact that we have someone come and clean our apartment from top to bottom every two weeks is a big factor. if i had to do all that, i would not be a happy camper! Rubies on "Do you argue more with the SO since baby?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-argue-more-with-the-so-since-baby#post-1885 Fri, 30 Sep 2011 21:41:14 +0000 Rubies 1885@https://boards.hellobee.com/ The birth of our daughter brought about loads more stress but it amazingly brought my husband and I closer together as we had to work together to figure out how to be parents. We love to talk about our daughter and rarely do we argue about anything - there isn't time or energy to do so! Sha on "Do you argue more with the SO since baby?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-argue-more-with-the-so-since-baby#post-1845 Fri, 30 Sep 2011 15:14:08 +0000 Sha 1845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ The first few months were stressful, we argued a lot. He had a long paternity leave, which sounds great in theory but adds up to a lot of time spent together on no sleep. We ended up going to a counselor who specializes in couples who are new parents, and it helped a lot. Mrs. Bee on "Do you argue more with the SO since baby?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-argue-more-with-the-so-since-baby#post-1831 Fri, 30 Sep 2011 14:05:53 +0000 Mrs. Bee 1831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ we're not big arguers but i think we argue less post charlie. life is harder but he's brought us closer together. he's our favorite topic of conversation every day! :-) Mrs. Sunglasses on "Do you argue more with the SO since baby?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-argue-more-with-the-so-since-baby#post-1805 Fri, 30 Sep 2011 10:56:19 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 1805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I know there are some couples that rarely fight. That clearly isn't my relationship with the hubs. Fights as in arguments about the stupid stuff. Like cleaning and what to eat. But still .... it can get annoying. I was wondering if you saw a change once baby arrived. Obviously on my part, the cleaning went downhill... and even though I really wanted a cleaning lady our budget didnt allow it. I seriously think though if we had one, then it would remove 75% of our arguments. I dont have time to work full time, then work at home (contract), cook meals, take care of my son and clean the house. I need to SLEEP!!!