https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 26 Apr 2026 07:52:25 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027821 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 17:01:45 +0000 autumn865 2027821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes and absolutely yes at 37 weeks pregnant! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027761 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 16:13:35 +0000 DesertDreams88 2027761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, because we have the same job and thus many of the same problems / issues / concerns. We both try to listen when appropriate and help process when appropriate. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027491 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:43:23 +0000 MaryM 2027491@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. Because he'll vent to me and I zone out, so I try not to do the same.</p> <p>If it's something major, then sure. But if it's work related, I'll vent to my work BFF first (because she understands the context) before I'd vent to DH about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027379 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 12:44:35 +0000 HabesBabe 2027379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup. Mostly about my mom, which isn't the best thing to do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027263 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 11:51:05 +0000 PrincessBaby 2027263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't really have a lot to complain about, other than the fact that pregnancy lasts for 27 years. Or feels like it. Other than that, if I ever start crabbing about something, it's probably minutia, and DH is quick to bring me back to reality and remind me how pretty damn lucky we are. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027245 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 11:45:30 +0000 MediaNaranja 2027245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really. I'm a pretty easy-going person and rarely complain or vent anyways, but when I do he's not terribly sympathetic. It actually works out, because I don't dwell on things as much and as a result am a much happier person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2027233 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 11:42:03 +0000 sarac 2027233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah. I'm an external processor, so I need to talk (out loud) about things I'm feeling to process them. My husband is quiet and likes to listen, so we work out perfectly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-2026898 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 07:02:41 +0000 MrsMccarthy 2026898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Somebunny: haha exactly! We are best buds and that's what buddies do.</p> <p>He actually tends to vent more to me than I do to him though. Mostly work stress. Sometimes I vent about my day though or my crazy family. He is so wonderful about them. No one can make me feel better when I'm upset with my family quite like my husband. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1987155 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 16:00:42 +0000 .twist. 1987155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1987017 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:54:29 +0000 Synchronicity 1987017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Of course! I can't imagine feeling like I can't / shouldn't vent to him when I need to. In my mind that's part of the deal with marriage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1987011 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:52:22 +0000 alohaorchid 1987011@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Of course! He's my husband and my best friend. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986987 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:45:43 +0000 jhd 1986987@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. I rarely vent to anyone else. But I try hard to only complain about things that really bother me and also to make a point of sharing positive things with him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986984 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:44:16 +0000 Andrea 1986984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, but usually only if there is something interesting to complain about! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986956 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:33:49 +0000 stiletto_mom 1986956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only for bug things. I don't want our conversations to be complaining so we don't usually. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986916 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:24:02 +0000 Greentea 1986916@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really. We are working out a lot of things right now with some recent family events though, so we are talking a lot about that. Have to! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986904 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:22:23 +0000 LuLu Mom 1986904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, usually about work/family/friends/ect. sometimes you just need to vent. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986888 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 14:18:36 +0000 youboots 1986888@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Eh yeah, since we both work from home. I usually don't just complain to complain he is more advice/results oriented. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986783 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 13:34:35 +0000 blackbird 1986783@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yeah. That's how it works. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986757 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 13:19:42 +0000 Somebunny 1986757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's my BFF, so yes. :happy: Poor guy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-complainvent-a-lot-to-your-so#post-1986669 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 12:38:07 +0000 mrbee 1986669@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do this, but have been trying to cut back! Especially when I'm complaining about random things, like poor service I experienced at a restaurant. If something's really bothering me though, I'll usually mention it.</p> <p>Do you complain/vent a lot to your SO? </p>