https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 21 Apr 2026 12:58:57 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-350042 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 10:26:13 +0000 Rescuemom10 350042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know I need to learn to cut people out of my life. I always find it easier to forgive but I dont think its healthy. Depending on how severe it is of course, but once you are hurt even if you forgive...I dont know how you can truly 100% forget. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-349489 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 01:59:54 +0000 anonysquire 349489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, oh boy do I hold grudges. I know it isn't healthy but I have been screwed over and abused way too many times. I also have been taken advantage of way too often. I'm done with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-349459 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 00:43:10 +0000 alayaya 349459@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I am very forgiving. Having said that, not very many people have said or done anything to me that made me think I could never ever forgive them. I think I'm just choosy about who I associate with in general so I don't have to worry about forgiving after the fact. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-349453 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 00:36:43 +0000 pinkcupcake 349453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, I should forgive more...I tend to hold a grudge and stay bitter. Not good! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-347470 Thu, 18 Oct 2012 14:38:53 +0000 tororojo 347470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I try to be forgiving--it's easy for me to get bitter at people so I have to consciously let it go and pray and refocus...sometimes repeatedly... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-347343 Thu, 18 Oct 2012 14:03:16 +0000 Mrs. Bee 347343@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i am very forgiving, but i can also cut a person out of my life. i won't hold a grudge against them or wish them any ill will if they wronged me. i just forget about them and live my life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-347265 Thu, 18 Oct 2012 13:41:32 +0000 Adira 347265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmmm... I'm probably not very forgiving, depending on the slight. I tend to hold onto grudges FOREVER. My old best friend (my maid of honor) is no longer my best friend because of things she's done and said in the past that I just CAN'T move on from. I keep trying, and then she'll say or do something that will remind me of all the things she's said or done in the past that hurt me, and I just rage all over again.</p> <p>That said, I can still be friends with someone who I haven't forgiven. Although I'm no longer best friends with this person, I am still friends with her, and whenever we get together, we usually have a good time. I just know that I can't be best friends with her anymore because of how she's been in the past. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-consider-yourself-a-forgiving-person#post-347164 Thu, 18 Oct 2012 13:06:02 +0000 Rescuemom10 347164@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am guilty of being too forgiving. My best friends cant beleive what I will fogive and forget. Been thinking about this a lot recently.<br /> Yesterday a "friend" said some thing to me I dont think I can ever let go or forgive. Which is a lot for me who tends to be TOO forgiving. I hate the idea of loosing a friend...but what was said was just so hurtful and I dont know how to get past that or if I can. At 25 weeks pregnant, yesterday was horrible, never felt so dissapointed and upset in a friend, I had a panic attack and all. Was aweful. Just not what I needed on top of all the other bad things that have been happning recently. </p> <p>So how about you,? Are you fogiving? Or too forgiving? Three strikes your out? What your take with friends when they "hurt" you. </p>